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I’m going to sing a song that you all know. The tune goes a little something like this: my husband got deployed and I met Murphy, I thought I knew him before but I was …

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Article published at Quotery.com To many, Memorial Day, the federal U.S. holiday that takes place every year on the last Monday of May, is just another excuse for a three-day weekend. It’s also known as the …

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toddler tips for PCS final

If a regular PCS is challenging, planning and completing a move with toddlers takes it to another level, as a move rocks a toddler’s entire world. Our first military-mandated move involved only my husband and …

deployment, military marriages, homefront, good kill

Article and Photo Credit: Besa Pinchotti for NMFA Last night, I attended the D.C. premiere of the new Ethan Hawke-January Jones movie, “Good Kill,” about Air Force pilot turned drone operator, Maj. Tom Egan. If you’re interested …

OCONUS and television

In the fall of 2014 my husband and I made our first OCONUS move. Around that time we started watching the popular Netflix series Orange is the New Black. And before you could say “parole” …

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Photo Credit: Blue Franswa Fotografia I am a military spouse—a Navy wife. By not being exposed to anyone in the military during my youth; I was not prepared for the journey of being the wife of a …

birthdays without mom or dad

If you have a military kid, chances are they've had to spend at least one birthday without their Service Member parent. Some have to go through it more than one. Others are lucky enough to …

to rent or not to rent military housing BAH

Part of this wonderful military life is moving. Unless you are one of those rare military families that do their entire career in the same location you are going to be faced with PCS and …

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When Strong Things Break

when strong things break

I’m going to sing a song that you all know. The tune goes a little something like this: my husband got deployed and I met Murphy, I thought I knew him before but I was mistaken. I’m a seasoned veteran when it comes to sending the boy away and holding down the fort while he’s gone. This time it was different, a scary different and not a scary different that you are probably … [Read more...]

When Strong Things Break

25 Glorious Memorial Day Quotes

memorial day quotes

Article published at Quotery.com To many, Memorial Day, the federal U.S. holiday that takes place every year on the last Monday of May, is just another excuse for a three-day weekend. It’s also known as the day that marks the official start of summer and as a day devoted to getting great deals at the mall. However, the true meaning of Memorial Day goes far beyond … [Read more...]

25 Glorious Memorial Day Quotes

11 Toddler Tips for Surviving the Next PCS

toddler tips for PCS final

If a regular PCS is challenging, planning and completing a move with toddlers takes it to another level, as a move rocks a toddler’s entire world. Our first military-mandated move involved only my husband and myself. No kids, no pets. Fast-forward to move #2 a few years later, and we now had a newborn and a two-year-old to consider. I’ll never forget our toddler sitting very … [Read more...]

11 Toddler Tips for Surviving the Next PCS

Is War From the Homefront Sabotaging Military Marriages?

deployment, military marriages, homefront, good kill

Article and Photo Credit: Besa Pinchotti for NMFA Last night, I attended the D.C. premiere of the new Ethan Hawke-January Jones movie, “Good Kill,” about Air Force pilot turned drone operator, Maj. Tom Egan. If you’re interested in drones, you’ll learn a lot from this movie—but what hit home for me was how this service member’s high-stress job impacted his relationship with … [Read more...]

Is War From the Homefront Sabotaging Military Marriages?

5 Ways OCONUS is Like A TV Show

OCONUS and television

In the fall of 2014 my husband and I made our first OCONUS move. Around that time we started watching the popular Netflix series Orange is the New Black. And before you could say “parole” the similarities between OCONUS and the TV show were evident. 1. Culture Shock Piper Chapman struggles in her early days in prison. She doesn’t understand the hierarchy, terminology or … [Read more...]

5 Ways OCONUS is Like A TV Show

Year 1 – New Wife AND New Mom

new wife and new mom

Photo Credit: Blue Franswa Fotografia I am a military spouse—a Navy wife. By not being exposed to anyone in the military during my youth; I was not prepared for the journey of being the wife of a sailor; especially during our impending first deployment when I was also the new mother of an infant. In 2009, my husband went on his first deployment as a father.  Our daughter, … [Read more...]

Year 1 – New Wife AND New Mom

Another Birthday Alone

birthdays without mom or dad

If you have a military kid, chances are they've had to spend at least one birthday without their Service Member parent. Some have to go through it more than one. Others are lucky enough to never have that experience, but it's not an easy thing to have a big day without one of your parents home to celebrate with you. Both of my kids have had to live through this unpleasant … [Read more...]

Another Birthday Alone

To Rent or Not To Rent At Your Next Base

to rent or not to rent military housing BAH

Part of this wonderful military life is moving. Unless you are one of those rare military families that do their entire career in the same location you are going to be faced with PCS and house hunting and the decision to rent, buy or live in military housing. Sometimes the decisions are made for us, like in overseas locations that don’t offer government housing. But when you … [Read more...]

To Rent or Not To Rent At Your Next Base