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# Military Spouse

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- [Free Ray-Ban Meta AI Smart Glasses Are Coming to Blind Veterans Nationwide](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/free-ai-smart-glasses-are-coming-to-blind-veterans/) - More than 130,000 blind veterans may qualify for free AI-powered smart glasses through a new initiative from Meta and the Blinded Veterans Association.
- [11 Must-Watch Military Movies to Honor Our Veterans Tonight](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/best-military-movies/) - Veterans have made immense sacrifices to protect our freedoms, and one meaningful way to honor them is by watching powerful films that tell their stories. Whether you're spending Veterans Day with family, enjoying a quiet evening, or simply want to reflect on the bravery of our service members, these best military movies are worth your
- [How Much Life Insurance Military Families Really Need](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/how-much-life-insurance-military-families-really-need/) - Sponsored USAA Life Insurance Company and USAA Life Insurance Company of New York “How much life insurance is enough?” is one of the most common and most difficult financial questions military families face. There is no single number that works for everyone. What matters more is understanding what the coverage is meant to protect. Why
- [How Do I Shut the Intrusive Thoughts Out to Start Healing?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-do-i-shut-the-intrusive-thoughts-out-to-start-healing/) - People think healing starts when the pain disappears. It doesn’t. Healing starts the moment you stop letting every intrusive thought sit at the head of your table like it belongs there. For years, I thought the voice in my head was just who I was. The self doubt. The fear. The replaying conversations. The worst
- [Let’s Talk About the Elephant in the Room: PTS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/lets-talk-about-the-elephant-in-the-room-pts/) - Nobody likes talking about it. We’ll slap inspirational quotes on social media. We’ll post reunion videos at airports. We’ll thank veterans for their service while quietly avoiding the realities that service can leave behind. We’ve gotten good at celebrating survival while staying uncomfortable with the aftermath. So let’s talk about the elephant in the room.
- [The Quiet Identity Crisis of the “Supportive” Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-quiet-identity-crisis-of-the-supportive-spouse/) - How “supportive” can become erasure if you don’t fill your own cup alongside it. “Supportive” is one of the first words we learn as military spouses. It shows up early, often wrapped in praise. It’s something to aspire to, something to be proud of. We hear it in conversations, in introductions, welcome briefs, and in
- [What We Learned When the Military Almost Let Him Go](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-we-learned-when-the-military-almost-let-him-go/) - When the plan breaks, you find out what actually matters. There are chapters in military life that no one really prepares you for. Not the kind you can Google, and not the kind someone casually mentions over coffee while you’re figuring out where to buy groceries at a new duty station. These are the chapters
- [What I Wish I Would’ve Known for Our First European Trip with Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/militaryspouse-family/first-european-trip-with-kids/) - My family just returned from our first European city break with our two girls, ages 6 and 8. Up to this point, I’ve honestly felt pretty prepared for our long haul road trips in the U.S. with young children. The advice has been pretty standard: pack lots of snacks, be prepared with activities for the
- [The Summer We Stopped Pretending We Were Fine](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-summer-we-stopped-pretending-we-were-fine/) - There is a particular kind of exhaustion that military spouses know intimately. It’s the kind where your nervous system becomes so accustomed to surviving catastrophe that functioning in chaos starts to feel normal- until one day, it doesn’t. For our family, the unraveling didn’t happen all at once. It happened slowly, quietly, over several years
- [It’s Not the Location - It’s the People You Meet Along the Way](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/its-not-the-location-its-the-people/) - Recently, a local mum asked me if I miss living in the United States. We’ve been stationed in England for almost two years now, and haven’t been back ‘home’ for a visit yet. I didn’t have to think long though before answering though. With every PCS it becomes clearer. It’s never really the location that
- [The Military Taught Me How to Survive Summer—Not Enjoy It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-military-taught-me-how-to-survive-summer-not-enjoy-it/) - Five Ways to Romanticize Your Summer Survival For years, summer felt less like a season and more like a tactical operation involving deployment schedules, childcare gaps, emergency room copays, PCS orders, and trying not to emotionally collapse in a Target parking lot while somebody asked me for popsicles. Military spouse summers are not always the
- [Military Kids Don’t Get “Easy” Summers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-kids-dont-get-easy-summers/) - Five Ways to Support Your Military Kids Through PCS Season For many military kids, summer doesn’t mean relaxation. It means goodbye season. It means watching moving boxes stack up in the dining room while parents pretend this is all one big adventure. It means hearing phrases like “You’ll make new friends!” while silently grieving the
- [What the MSOY Town Hall Reminded Me About Showing Up](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/what-the-msoy-town-hall-reminded-me-about-showing-up/) - Some rooms just have a different energy. You walk in and something shifts — the noise level, the posture of the people around you, the feeling that something meaningful is happening and you get to be part of it. That's what the Military Spouse of the Year Town Hall has always been for me. And
- [Stop Waiting on Orders to Start Living](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/stop-waiting-on-orders-to-start-living/) - There's a conversation I've had more times than I can count. It usually starts with a sigh. The kind that carries the weight of a dream deferred. "Once we get to our next duty station." "Once the kids are older." "Once things settle down." Once. Once. Once. I understand it probably better than most. Military
- [The Military Raised You Too](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-military-raised-you-too/) - When Hannah, our oldest, was five years old, she started kindergarten without her dad. That sentence sounds small when written plainly on paper, but military families understand the emotional weight hidden inside it. While other little girls held their fathers’ hands walking into classrooms for the first time, Hannah stood smiling for pictures with a
- [Top 5 Schools for Military Spouses Using Education Benefits](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/top-5-schools-for-military-spouses-using-education-benefits/) - Military spouses often face a unique challenge when it comes to education: building a career while constantly adapting to moves, deployments, childcare demands, and unpredictable schedules. That’s why flexibility matters just as much as academics. In 2026, the best schools for military spouses are the ones that understand military life in practical ways. That means
- [How One Spouse Said "Yes" and Made National Wrestling History](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-one-spouse-said-yes-and-made-national-wrestling-history/) - Just a few short years ago, Megan Brown had never seen a wrestling match. Today, she is the head coach of the first-ever Mississippi Girls All-Star Freestyle Team to compete on a national stage—leading 35 high school athletes to the prestigious Adidas Nationals Championship and Her Circle Duals in Independence, Missouri. It’s a story that
- [It’s Your Turn Now: The Myth of Getting Your Life Back After the Military](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/its-your-turn-now-the-myth-of-getting-your-life-back-after-the-military/) - For twenty years, I heard some version of the same promise. “One day, it will be your turn.” It came from spouses who had already done it—women who had walked through deployments, PCS moves, long seasons of holding everything together. It wasn’t always said outright, but it was everywhere. Cultural. Understood. Implied. The message was
- [You Are NOT the Victim](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/you-are-not-the-victim/) - There is a hard truth that doesn’t get talked about enough in the military spouse community. Sometimes, the problem isn’t the system. Sometimes, it isn’t the military. Sometimes, it isn’t even your spouse. Sometimes, it’s you. That isn’t an attack. That is accountability. And accountability is where your power lives. I have sat across from
- [Love, Career, and the Long Game No One Warned Us About](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/love-career-and-the-long-game-no-one-warned-us-about/) - How military marriage evolves when plans fall apart and recommitment becomes a choice, not a fantasy. No one really explains what happens after the military wedding. Not the ceremony or the honeymoon, but the life that follows. We talk about deployments. We talk about PCS moves. We talk about resilience like it’s something you either
- [New Podcast Alert: Note To Herself ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/new-podcast-alert-note-to-herself/) - If you are looking for a new podcast, Note To Herself might be the hour of honesty you didn’t know you needed. Kia Young & Krystel Spell are the 40+ big sisters you didn’t know you needed. They share a Hot Flash (hot take), life’s luxuries and the nitty gritty where they say all the
- [The Version of Me That Didn’t Make It: The Pick-Your-Donuts Theory](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-version-of-me-that-didnt-make-it-the-pick-your-donuts-theory/) - Military life teaches many lessons that don’t appear in any welcome packet. One of the most important is learning that you cannot carry every opportunity that comes your way. As a military spouse who lost her spark along the way, you will often hear me talk about how some seasons are about reclaiming your sparkle.
- [Friendship Isn’t Just on Base: Why Local Community Matters More Than You Think](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/friendship-isnt-just-on-base-why-local-community-matters-more-than-you-think/) - When we move to a new duty station, most of us instinctively look inward. We find the base.We find the people who understand.We find the ones who “get it.” And that makes sense. There is something deeply comforting about military friendships. There’s a shared language, a shared rhythm, and a shared understanding of things you
- ["You Can’t Pour From an Empty Cup" Is Not a Strategy](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/you-cant-pour-from-an-empty-cup-is-not-a-strategy/) - I was sitting with a friend who isn’t part of the military community when she said it: “You know… you can’t pour from an empty cup.” And I remember thinking, almost immediately, Okay. Then what should I cut? Because from where I was sitting, there was nothing left to give up. I couldn’t stop parenting,
- [The CARE Blueprint for Military Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-care-blueprint-for-military-life/) - Growing up doesn’t come with a briefing packet. And neither does becoming a military spouse. No one hands you a manual when the orders drop, when your spouse deploys, or when you’re standing in yet another empty living room wondering how to build something meaningful here too. For years, I navigated military life the way
- [What I Stopped Buying (and What I Gained Instead)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-i-stopped-buying-and-what-i-gained-instead/) - There was a point when I realized our home felt heavy. Not in a dramatic way. Not in a crisis. Just… full. Too full. Too many things on the counters. Too many toys in the corners. Too many small decisions stacked on top of each other until even simple routines felt harder than they should
- [The Identity We Postponed: Who Are You When the Mission Ends?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-identity-we-postponed-who-are-you-when-the-mission-ends/) - Before military life, I was a little wild. Not reckless—just alive in a way that didn’t ask for permission. I was the kid smuggling art supplies into school in the pockets of my overalls. I wrote everything down—ideas, stories, thoughts that didn’t have a place yet but felt too important to lose. I spent years
- [Strong Women Still Break](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/strong-women-still-break/) - I have always been the one who holds it together. When things go bad, I don’t panic. I don’t fall apart. I assess, adjust, and move forward. Maybe it comes from being the eldest daughter, or maybe it was reinforced over time, but somewhere along the way, being “the strong one” became part of my
- [Your Meals, Deals, and Perks for Military Appreciation Month!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/your-meals-deals-and-perks-for-military-appreciation-month/) - Looking for the best military deals this Military Appreciation Month? You’re in the right place. We’re updating this list daily with the latest military discounts, freebies, and limited-time offers to help you save all month long. From travel and theme parks to retail and everyday essentials, these are some of the top deals available right
- [2026 AFI Space Force Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-afi-space-force-spouse-of-the-year/) - Cassandra Kidd Share your military spouse story: My military spouse journey has been shaped by learning how to adapt, stay connected, and support my family through constant change. Six years ago, I met my wife at a pre-deployment BBQ, and since then we’ve navigated three assignments, two promotions, and long stretches of separation. We learned
- [2026 AFI Marine Corps Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-marine-corps-spouse-of-the-year/) - Shelby Bateman Share your military spouse story: I have been a cheerleader for the man I love since 2008, from Pop Warner football games and high school graduations to military promotions, deployments, and now the Drill Field. What began as a teenage love story became a life built across duty stations, seasons of separation, and
- [2026 AFI Army Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-army-spouse-of-the-year/) - Isabel Schmitt Share your military spouse story: I met my husband, Peter, in Iraq in 2004, on a convoy, in the middle of a war. We shared lunch, and I told my best friend I’d just met the hottest guy on the planet. Even in a place defined by chaos, something about him felt grounded.
- [2026 AFI Navy Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-navy-spouse-of-the-year/) - Meg Graves Share your military spouse story: My Navy journey began at 24 over a plate of hotwings. When Dan walked in, it wasn't just love; it was the feeling of everything falling into place. We were old friends who became more, and at 27, he traded civilian life for a uniform. Since then, our
- [2026 AFI National Guard Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-national-guard-of-the-year/) - Nicole B Gebhardt Share your military spouse story: I am a military spouse whose world broke the day I lost my son Samuel at 9 weeks old. That grief was followed by multiple miscarriages, spousal abuse & an addiction that nearly destroyed me. But 6 years ago, I chose to fight my way back &
- [2026 AFI Coast Guard Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-coast-guard-of-the-year/) - Najeeba Gassel Share your military spouse story: My husband and I are college sweethearts, having met in the first week of school as freshmen at George Mason University. We have grown up together through college, first “big-kid” jobs, long distance, milestones and more. 13+ years later and we have 2 amazing little boys and a
- [2026 AFI Air Force Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/2026-air-force-of-the-year/) - Lyndsey Akers Share your military spouse story: Since 2009, the fabric of military life has woven into every aspect of my journey: marriage, friendships, career, business ventures, volunteerism, and parenthood. I had no idea what I was stepping into when I started dating an Airman stationed near my college. Several deployments, countless TDYs, and the
- [Decision Fatigue: When Your Entire Life Resets Every Three Years](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-your-entire-life-resets-every-three-years/) - Military families get very good at starting over. New town.New house.New schools.New doctors.New grocery store.New church.New friends. And if you’re the spouse, you’re usually the one responsible for figuring it all out. In our family, we moved through five duty stations, two deployments, and one year-long short tour. Each move required the same exhausting cycle
- [Sometimes, It's Not Actually About You](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/sometimes-its-not-actually-about-you/) - Military spouses are strong. We move across the country with little warning. We hold families together during deployments. We learn to build a home wherever the military sends us. But there is a hard truth that does not get talked about enough. Sometimes the spouse is part of the problem. Veterans come home carrying things
- [Just Checking In! 3 Reasons to Reach Out Even When It’s Awkward ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/reach-out-even-when-its-awkward/) - We woke up to the three letter word that changes everything in our community. War. Breaking News begins the cycle of drone strike impacts, chaos in the Middle East and interviews reflecting on the current state of the action as everything unfolds. With little time to process I grabbed my phone, turn down the noise
- [No Blueprint, No Script: Perfecting the Pivot in Military Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/no-blueprint-no-script-perfecting-the-pivot-in-military-life/) - I am not here to tell you what to do. I’m here because I’ve lived long enough in military life to know that most of us quietly wait for someone to hand us the rules, the roadmap, or the “right way” to do this. And for many of us, that moment never comes. At some
- [When Everything Familiar Changes: Navigating Culture Shock After a PCS Abroad](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/navigating-culture-shock-after-a-pcs-abroad/) - My family has PCSed to the UK on two separate occasions. You would think that we would have known what to expect the second time. But even though it’s an English speaking country that I’ve lived in before, I was still thrown for a loop. You spend months preparing for the PCS, making sure you
- [When Military Life Becomes “Unique”](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-military-life-becomes-unique/) - I’ve always believed that unique was a good quality, one to be sought after. Following your own heart and desires, even when that looks different than everyone else. Military life has always been unique from civilian life. But I think I can speak for all spouses when I say no one wants to find themselves
- [You Fought for Others — Now Fight for Yourself](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/you-fought-for-others-now-fight-for-yourself/) - Advocating for yourself is not something most veterans were trained to do. We were trained to complete the mission. We were trained to endure. We were trained to keep moving no matter how heavy the rucksack got or how little sleep we had. The mindset becomes simple. Push through it. Handle it yourself. Do not
- [You’re Not Burned Out. You’re Depleted.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/youre-not-burned-out-youre-depleted/) - For a long time, I thought I was burned out. That seemed like the most reasonable explanation. Military life is demanding. Raising children in a constantly shifting environment is demanding. Managing households, moves, schools, doctors, friendships, and the emotional stability of everyone under your roof is demanding. Burnout felt like a logical diagnosis. But burnout
- [When “Resilience” Becomes Chronic Deprioritization](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-resilience-becomes-chronic-deprioritization/) - There’s a phrase that floats around military communities like a badge of honor. Military spouses are “resilient.” We say it with admiration. Leaders say it at events. It’s printed on mugs, tote bags, and inspirational graphics. But after a while, you start to wonder what this overused buzz word actually means. I honestly think “resilience”
- [The Quiet Grief of Military Goodbyes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-quiet-grief-of-military-goodbyes/) - No one prepares you for the grief of military friendship. It feels dramatic to say you’re grieving someone who isn’t gone — just reassigned. But repeated goodbyes shape us. We lose neighbors, workout partners, chapel friends, and emergency contacts. We pack up not just houses, but relationships. And sometimes, after enough goodbyes, we protect ourselves
- [When One Friend Becomes Everything](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-one-friend-becomes-everything/) - There’s a temptation in military life to put all your relational weight on one person. She’s your emergency contact.Your vent partner.Your workout accountability.Your co-host for every holiday. It makes sense. Frequent moves mean we crave stability. When we find someone safe, we hold on tightly. But when one friendship carries every emotional need, it can
- [When “Strong” Starts to Feel Exhausting](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-strong-starts-to-feel-exhausting/) - Military spouses carry a heavy load. Learn how to recognize burnout versus normal military stress — and why both deserve attention.
- [Raising Resilient Kids Without Raising Tiny Stress Balls](https://www.militaryspouse.com/militaryspouse-family/raising-resilient-kids/) - Military kids are resilient, but constant moves and deployments can bring stress. Here’s how military parents can build resilience without overwhelming their children.
- [Spring Bucket List for Military Families (No Leave Required)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spring-bucket-list-for-military-families-no-leave-required/) - Looking for simple spring activities for military families? Try this realistic bucket list that works at any duty station — no leave required.
- [Living in Compressed Time: Why It Makes Friendship Feel Intense](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-friendship-feels-intense/) - Military life compresses time. Birthdays feel more meaningful because someone might move next year. Holidays are cherished because family isn’t nearby. Coffee dates feel significant because schedules change quickly. Friendships follow that same rhythm. We invest deeply because permanence isn’t guaranteed. And while that urgency can create beautiful connection, it can also create pressure. When
- [Why Military Friendships Form So Fast](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/why-military-friendships-form-so-fast/) - There’s a moment in military life that almost feels predictable. You meet another spouse at a playground, chapel event, school pickup, or squadron function. Within minutes, you’re swapping duty stations. Within an hour, you’re discussing childcare struggles. Within weeks, she’s watching your kids while you run to an appointment. Military friendships move fast. And for
- [What I Wish I Knew Before My First PCS (That No One Told Me)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-i-wish-i-knew-before-my-first-pcs-that-no-one-told-me/) - Preparing for your first PCS move? Here’s the honest advice military spouses wish they’d heard before their first relocation.
- [Intentional in the Ordinary: A Hello From Your Friend Next Door](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/intentional-in-the-ordinary-a-hello-from-your-friend-next-door/) - If we haven’t met yet, I’m Teri — a military spouse of ten years, mom of two school-aged girls, and someone who has learned (sometimes the hard way) that peace doesn’t just happen. It’s built. I’m writing because I believe military spouses deserve more than survival tips. We deserve steadiness. We deserve belonging. We deserve
- [The Unofficial Military Spouse Spring Reset Checklist](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-spring-reset-checklist/) - Ready for a fresh start? Use this practical spring reset checklist designed specifically for military spouses and families.
- [The Loudest Voice in the Room Is Yours](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-loudest-voice-in-the-room-is-yours/) - You can survive deployment, cancer, and combat — but still lose to your own thoughts. There is a voice that follows us through every transition. It comments when we fail.It criticizes when we rest.It whispers that we should be stronger, quieter, thinner, tougher, more grateful. For many military spouses and veterans, that voice is relentless.
- [March Madness, But It’s Just Our Schedules](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/march-madness-but-its-just-our-schedules/) - Military life feels like March Madness? From deployments to school chaos, here’s the survival bracket every military spouse understands.
- [We Don’t Need More “Strong Spouse” Narratives](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/we-dont-need-more-strong-spouse-narratives/) - On Resilience Fatigue and the courage to stop white-knuckling your life I’m not strong because I don’t feel it. I’m strong because I finally let myself. When I hear the word resilience, I flinch a little. Not because I don’t value grit. Not because I’m anti-strength. But because somewhere along the way, resilience in the
- [Luck of the Military Spouse: 10 Things We Call “Lucky” (But Totally Aren’t)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/luck-of-the-military-spouse/) - Think military life is all luck? From scoring base housing to surviving deployments, here are 10 “lucky” moments that are actually built on resilience, strategy and strength.
- [St. Patrick’s Day Traditions for Military Families (Even If They’re Deployed)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/st-patricks-day-traditions-for-military-families/) - Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day as a military family — even during deployment or separation — with simple, meaningful traditions that build connection.
- [Making Friends on Base is Basically Speed Dating](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/making-friends-on-base-is-basically-speed-dating/) - Military parents move often — which means making friends fast. Here’s why building community on base feels like speed dating, and why that’s not a bad thing.
- [From Addiction to Influence: How Jacob “JJ” Howland Is Using Wrestling to Help Veterans and Youth Stay in the Fight](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/from-addiction-to-influence/) - In a culture where strength is often mistaken for silence, Jacob “JJ” Howland is choosing something different. He’s choosing to talk. About addiction.About military culture.About discipline.About the kind of mental resilience that isn’t built in comfort—but on a mat, one hard rep at a time. And in a packed room at American Top Team in
- [The Emotional Timeline of Deployment No One Talks About](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-emotional-timeline-of-deployment/) - Spring in military life doesn’t always mean flowers. Sometimes it means orders. If a deployment is coming, there’s an emotional timeline most military spouses quietly move through. Let’s name it. Phase 1: Denial “It’s months away.”“We won’t think about it yet.”“Maybe it’ll change.” You operate normally. You don’t want to borrow stress from the future.
- [What’s Real: Meet Bree Carroll](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/whats-real-meet-bree-carroll/) - Meet Columnist Bree Carroll Growing up doesn’t come with a briefing packet. Do you ever find yourself wondering what you’re going to be when you grow up? As if someone signed your permission slip to be an adult without fully preparing you. No debrief. No pep talk. No “Here’s what PCS season will really feel
- [Strength Isn’t a Straight Line](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/strength-isnt-a-straight-line/) - Strength isn’t loud. It’s a thousand quiet choices. When people hear the words military spouse, they often picture strength. But strength isn’t a straight line. It isn’t always calm. It isn’t always polished. And it certainly isn’t painless. For me, strength has been a thousand quiet choices — choosing to stay when it would be
- [From Ministry to Wrestling Mats: Finding Purpose After Military Retirement](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/finding-purpose-after-military-retirement/) - You don’t always lose your calling. Sometimes it just changes arenas. Guys. It is good to be back. Truly — I’ve missed you. If I’m honest, when my husband retired from the military, I felt like I lost my identity the moment the farewell lunch ended. The ceremony wrapped. The applause faded. The plaques were
- [The Smells of Military Life (That Somehow Feel Like Home)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-smells-of-military-life/) - From base housing air to coffee-fueled mornings, these are the scents that define military life — funny, familiar and unexpectedly meaningful.
- [After Action Report: Military Retirement and the Truth No One Warns You About](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-retirement-no-one-warns-you/) - Meet Megan Brown — A Reintroduction You can outrun grief for a while. You cannot avoid it forever. For nearly nine years, I’ve written a standing column for Military Spouse Magazine. I started in 2017 — early thirties, just over a decade into military spouse life, seasoned by TDYs, deployments, PCS moves, and raising children
- [Spring Cleaning…But Make It PCS-Ready](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spring-cleaning-pcs-ready/) - PCS season is coming. Use spring cleaning to declutter your home, paperwork and stress before military orders drop.
- [Making Any Duty Station Feel Like Home (Even When You Hate It at First)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/making-any-duty-station-feel-like-home-even-when-you-hate-it-at-first/) - Military families rebuild home at every duty station. Here’s how to settle in—even when the location isn’t your favorite.
- [You’re Not “Just” the Spouse: Redefining Identity Inside Military Marriage](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/youre-not-just-the-spouse-redefining-identity-inside-military-marriage/) - Somewhere along the way, many military spouses hear the phrase “just the spouse.”Sometimes it’s said out loud. Sometimes it’s implied. Sometimes we say it to ourselves. Either way, it sticks. And it shouldn’t. The Identity Shift No One Warns You About Military marriage subtly changes how the world sees you. Introductions include rank. Forms list
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- [Serving From Your Heart](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/serving-from-your-heart/) - “Let’s go. We have to be there by 9 to start the prep for lunch,” I bellowed at my family. I was on a mission to help others while I yelled at my family. I wanted to teach my kids about giving back to the community. My heart was in the right place, but I
- [Military Spouse Highlight: Joey Moehrholt](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-highlight-joey-moehrholt/) - While the military as well as the American public have come a long way in recognizing the incredible contributions of the military spouse, Joey Moehrholt of Moehrholt Films is on a mission to highlight those who are often overlooked: male military spouses. Joey and his husband Aaron have been married for nine years, tying the
- [My Child, You Are Here for a Reason](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-child-you-are-here-for-a-reason/) - By Major Marissa Cina “This is the best part of my day” my three-year old said with a sigh as she settled into my armpit pocket at 7:45 PM on a random weekday. Every night, despite the loud demands in my life, my world narrowed to this moment on a small, warm body nestled in
- [Cottage Cheese: A Snack Masterpiece](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/cottage-cheese-a-snack-masterpiece/) - My Primary Care Provider and I have a witty script we exchange every time I see her: I detail her my diet, she chides that I am not getting enough protein, I laugh and promise to do better, and we move on with the appointment, only to repeat this banter the next visit. So us.
- [The Secret Tip for Teen Drivers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-secret-tip-for-teen-drivers/) - I knew it was coming, but I wasn’t ready. I thought I was, but when I walked into the DMV with each of my kids to take their permit test, all the emotions hit me like a freight train. “She is not ready to drive; she is still my baby girl. Who decided 16-year-olds are
- [Helping Your Military Kid Reflect and Connect](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/helping-your-military-kid-reflect-and-connect/) - In today's fast-paced world, fostering meaningful connections with our children can be challenging, especially in military families where frequent moves and deployments are a part of life. However, creating opportunities for reflection and bonding doesn't have to be complicated. By incorporating simple strategies into our daily routines, we can help our kids process their feelings
- [Back to School on a Budget](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/back-to-school-on-a-budget-2/) - As each child headed to college or tech school, I thought I was prepared. Mentally, I was ready, but emotionally, I was a mess. Our daughters chose schools on the East Coast while we were living in Kansas. Our trusty van seemed to be able to expand when my husband started packing it. Each nook
- [Christian Writers Institute Expands with New Leadership and Free Course Offerings](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/christian-writers-institute-expands-with-new-leadership-and-free-course-offerings/) - In an exciting move to enhance accessibility and foster community among Christian writers, the Christian Writers Institute (CWI) has recently appointed military spouse Megan B. Brown as its Executive Director and launched a series of free online courses known as the Compass Courses. Founded in 1945 by Robert Walker, a trailblazer in Christian publishing, The
- [My Grief Over Military Spouse Friendships](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-grief-over-military-spouse-friendships/) - In military spouse life, there comes a moment when we need to challenge our perspectives, we need to hear through a new lens. The idea of listening through something you look through might seem perplexing, I shared the same skepticism when I first encountered this saying. This notion prompted me to reflect on how, as military spouses,
- [Summer Fun on a Budget: Board Games to Combat Boredom](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summer-fun-on-a-budget-board-games-to-combat-boredom/) - As summer heats up and the kids are home, keeping everyone entertained without breaking the bank can be a challenge. One fantastic and budget-friendly solution? Board games! Not only are they loads of fun, but they also bring the family together for some quality bonding time. Here are ten awesome board games that are perfect
- [A Few Ideas to Manage the Chaos (and Cost!) of Summer](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-few-ideas-to-manage-the-chaos-and-cost-of-summer/) - By Crystal Bettenhausen-Bubulka, LCSW, MSG For many military families with school-aged children, summer equates to no school. Kids all around the country are joyfully celebrating summer vacation. While I love the iconic chants about not having teachers and the theme song about 104 days of summer vacation, I must be honest. I don’t enjoy summer
- [Finding Meaning Beyond the Barracks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/finding-meaning-beyond-the-barracks/) - By Berlinda Castillo In a small military base town, nestled amidst rolling hills, lives Sarah, a military spouse and mother of two. She's the epitome of grace under pressure, supporting her husband, David, a dedicated serviceman, through his deployments and training exercises. Sarah once had dreams of her own career in journalism, but like many
- [What Do You Mean This is “Normal”?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-do-you-mean-this-is-normal/) - By Lainey Crown The impact of military life can show up in some unique ways. You know that feeling when you walk into a room full of people you don’t know? I have learned it can be extra difficult as a military spouse walking into a room of civilians. I struggle to make friends who
- [The Snack Plate: The Ultimate Summer Snack Hack](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-snack-plate-the-ultimate-summer-snack-hack/) - Several years ago, I was wandering the aisles of the local Airman’s Attic when I saw an old, five-section, chip and dip plate. At that moment, “The Snack Plate” became ours. Pea green and painted with palm trees, it was not exactly eye-catching kitchenware. But this lackluster plate became our ultimate summer snack hack. Its magic
- [Unleash Creativity and Beat Boredom: The Lego Escape Room Adventure](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/unleash-creativity-and-beat-boredom-the-lego-escape-room-adventure/) - As summertime rolls in, military families are faced with the age-old dilemma: how to keep the kids entertained without breaking the bank. While the temptation to resort to endless screen time may be strong, there are plenty of budget-friendly activities that can spark creativity and keep boredom at bay. At our house, we recently discovered
- [The Power of Pause](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-power-of-pause/) - By Crystal Bettenhausen-Bubulka Sitting in the quiet confines of a hotel bathroom, I whispered words of reassurance into the phone, trying to hold back a flood of emotions. "You are so brave, and I am so very proud of you," I said softly. Her response, "I am proud of you more," sparked laughter. The tears
- [Cheri Mason: The Woman Who Refused To Be Invisible](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/cheri-mason-the-woman-who-refused-to-be-invisible/) - Judge. Chairman. Air Force spouse. Navy veteran daughter. Changemaker. Cheryl Mason is all of these things (and more), but she can now claim Author as well with her new book, Dare to Relate: Leading with a Fierce Heart. Long before she penned the book and led by example, she took her mother’s guidance to heart
- [Rebuilding Together: A New Perspective on Reintegration](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rebuilding-together-a-new-perspective-on-reintegration/) - By Michelle Bowler - @TheWaitingWarriors - Michelle@TheWaitingWarriors.com We've been thinking about reintegration the wrong way. Things aren't "going back to normal" when your service member returns home. Everyone involved has grown and changed, so we need to approach things differently and be patient with the process. Instead of thinking things will go back to normal,
- [Learning to Say Yes: A Lesson for New Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/learning-to-say-yes-a-lesson-for-new-military-spouses/) - By Michelle Bowler - @TheWaitingWarriors - Michelle@TheWaitingWarriors.com As a brand new military spouse, I made a major mistake that I want to share with you, in hopes that you won't repeat it. My husband enlisted in the Army a few months after we got married. Before I knew it, I was pregnant, attending college, and
- [Lightning Flashes and Thunder Roars](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/lightning-flashes-and-thunder-roars/) - “Head to your cars or the school. NOW!” As the coach shouted, another rumble of thunder sent us all running for safety. Soccer balls rolled away unattended. No one argued. Play stopped, and kids ran. Thunder means lightning, and lightning can kill. While living in Kansas, I watched the bolts emerge from the clouds and
- [10 Tips for Surviving Summertime Reintegration](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-tips-for-surviving-summertime-reintegration/) - The mayhem of military moves, broken furniture, and missing bikes from the transit truck is upon us. The whole military community is in full swing for the 2024 spring and summer Permanent Change of Station (PCS) season. And while the majority of military families on the move are navigating this summer season with enough hope
- [Summer Break on a Budget](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summer-break-on-a-budget/) - Summer is here! School is out, and our time is our own! While we are thankful for a more relaxed pace, I also know that my kids will quickly be begging to do more than just play at home. As every parent knows, summer camp tuition and admission to activities quickly gets expensive, but staying
- [Budget Friendly Bonding: Exploring the Great Outdoors](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/budget-friendly-bonding-exploring-the-great-outdoors/) - Exploring the outdoors is one of my favorite ways to spend time with my family. The possibilities are truly endless. At first glance, it seems like the costs are too. Don’t let this misconception deter you. With a little bit of planning, exploring the great outdoors can easily be a budget friendly way to bond
- [Jackie Pope: A Heart of Compassion and a Lifetime of Service](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/jackie-pope-a-heart-of-compassion-and-a-lifetime-of-service/) - In a world where kindness often feels like a scarce resource, Jackie Pope serves as a beautiful example of how we can all find kindness and compassion within ourselves. With her unwavering commitment to serving others, Jackie volunteered at the Mississippi Multiple Sclerosis Society as treasurer and project manager, served at the American Cancer Society,
- [Myth Bust: 10 Things I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago About Military Transition](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/myth-bust-10-things-i-wish-i-knew-10-years-ago-about-military-transition/) - As my husband prepared to exit his 20-year career in active-duty service, I braced myself for the uncertainties and adjustments that lay ahead. Little did I know, the journey out of military life would be filled with unexpected challenges, frustrations, and moments of revelation. Reflecting on our experience, here are 10 things I wish I
- [The Chronic Deprioritization of Military Spouses: A Call to Reclaim Real Rest](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-chronic-deprioritization-of-military-spouses-a-call-to-reclaim-real-rest/) - In the chaotic whirlwind of military life, we military spouses often find ourselves adept at the art of deprioritization—putting our own needs and desires on the back burner to cater to the demands of others. While this selfless act may initially seem noble, it often leads to a dangerous cycle of resentment, burnout, and self-neglect.
- [Always Be Ready for a Party](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/always-be-ready-for-a-party/) - I was sitting with a small group of friends gathered around a table at our neighborhood pool when my daughter swiped apples that were not ours. When I asked what she was doing, in shock at her brazen thievery, she shrugged and smiled at the pretty blonde next to her. “She said we could have
- [An Open Letter on Infertility: I See You and I Get It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/an-open-letter-on-infertility-i-see-you-and-i-get-it/) - Fourteen years ago, I embarked on a journey that I knew was one of my callings in life – Motherhood – an endeavor that I believed I was meant to undertake. What I didn't anticipate was that becoming a mom would be the toughest challenge I would ever face. I had never experienced true, life-altering
- [“The Sign”: Watching the Bluey Season Finale in the Wake of PCS Notice](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/the-sign-watching-the-bluey-season-finale-in-the-wake-of-pcs-notice/) - I sat on my couch with my four-year-old daughter nestled up against me. Her red curls were disheveled from a nap and a full morning of celebrating her birthday. “Bluey?” she sleepily asked. I turned on the TV and saw that the season finale was released. Unaware of the topic, I hit play. As she
- [Honoring Heroes: Join the 7th Annual Memorial Day Run with Project 33](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/honoring-heroes-memorial-day-run-project-33/) - Memorial Day Calls for Remembrance As Memorial Day approaches, communities across the nation come together to honor and remember the brave men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice in service to their country. Among those leading the charge is Project 33, a nonprofit organization dedicated to preserving the legacies of U.S. Special Operations
- [2024 Military Appreciation Month Discounts, Freebies, and Giveaways](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/2024-military-appreciation-month-discounts/) - From Militarybridge.com May 1-31st, 2024 is National Military Appreciation Month. Congress designated May as National Military Appreciation Month in 1999 to ensure the nation was given the opportunity to publicly demonstrate their appreciation for the sacrifices and successes made by our service members - past and present. Each year the president makes a proclamation, reminding
- [Celebrating Excellence: Recap of the 2024 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2024-msoy-recap/) - Military spouses, recognized for their dedication and remarkable contributions, came together for the much-anticipated 2024 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year (MSOY) week. Held from May 6th to May 10th, the AFI MSOY Week and events served as a platform to honor the exemplary service of military spouses while providing invaluable resources and
- [Inspire Up Experience: Lunch, Learning, & Legendary SWAG](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/inspire-up-experience-2024/) - The past week boasted a remarkable gathering in Washington D.C. as the Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year award recipients came together for a week of networking, skill-building, and camaraderie. The finale of this eventful week was the Inspire Up Experience pop-up event, where military spouses gathered to celebrate their achievements and support
- [Empowering Military Spouses: The AMSE "More Than a MilSpouse" Summit](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/empowering-military-spouses-amse/) - This past week, nearly 50 military spouses gathered at the USO Warrior and Family Center on Ft. Belvoir for a unique event aimed at connecting spouses and entrepreneurs. The "More than a MilSpouse Summit," organized by the Association of Military Spouse Entrepreneurs (AMSE) and sponsored by USAA, First Command Financial Services, and Blue Cross Blue
- [Celebrating Military Spouse Appreciation: A Tribute in San Antonio](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/celebrating-military-spouse-appreciation/) - When Quiana A., the spouse of a Navy Veteran, entered The Brick at Blue Star, she was awestruck. Military-affiliated events exclusively tailored for spouses like her are rare. However, this past week was an exception. Blue Star Families and T-Mobile teamed up to honor Military Appreciation Month with a unique tribute to 300 San Antonio-area
- [The Real Perks of Base Housing](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-real-perks-of-base-housing/) - Base housing. You’ve heard all the negatives before: Mold, brown water, arguing neighbors, jets flying overhead, showing ID to get to your house, “Is the commissary open?” posts. If you haven’t lived on a military base before, there’s probably a line full of disgruntled individuals who would be more than happy to share their personal
- [Meet Your Verified Community for Military Spouses: Toasting the Success of 12M+](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/twelve-million-plus/) - Nestled in the idyllic town of Southern Pines, North Carolina, in the shadow of towering pine trees, the Twelve Million Plus (12M+) office stands proudly in the heart of downtown. Though it has only been open for a year, it has become a neighborhood hub for military spouse professionals looking for job opportunities, networking, and
- [Purple Up Day: Let’s Wear Purple and Pink](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/purple-up-day-lets-wear-purple-and-pink/) - April is the month of the Military Child. This year’s theme is “Military Youth and Children: Brave, Fearless, and Resilient.” I am glad we have a month to recognize military children. Yet, I realize this month should remind me of other important things. When I had little ones running around, staying up with their activities,
- [Inspire Up Foundation Launches "The Giving Era" Campaign](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/inspire-up-foundation-launches-the-giving-era-campaign/) - The military community knows the Inspire Up crew for their annual Giving Tuesday Military campaign, the amazing live pop up events, and their unwavering dedication to creating a kinder world. Now, with the launch of their annual campaign, "The Giving Era," Inspire Up is embarking on a year-long journey to cultivate a culture of continual
- [One Foot in Front of The Other](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/one-foot-in-front-of-the-other/) - What is your favorite season to take a walk? I have two dogs, so each and every day is a good day for a walk in their world. We walk in the sun, heat, wind, snow, and only if I force them, in the rain. Bladders might explode if they could avoid rain. Don’t get
- [The Princess of Wales and the Power of Authenticity ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/the-princess-of-wales-power-of-authenticity/) - For the past few months, there has been worldwide intrigue about Catherine, Princess of Wales. Where was she? Was she unwell? What was wrong? Never mind the fact that the official statement was that she underwent planned surgery and would be returning to the public eye after Easter, the lack of information and transparency about
- [A New Perspective: April Fools Pregnancy Announcements](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/april-fools-pregnancy-announcements/) - April 1st is a day each year that pranksters and jokester look forward to stirring the pot with gags and tricks that generate genuine laughter. There is satisfaction in pulling one over on someone that can put a little pep in your step. The jests are simple fun that, for the most part, avoid causing
- [Navigating Perinatal Grief as a Military Spouse: Coping with Loss and Distance](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/navigating-perinatal-grief-as-a-military-spouse/) - Michelle Bowler Loss is a profound experience that touches us all at different points in our lives. But what happens when you are part of the military community, and the normal emotional upheaval is compounded by the rigors of service life? The story I’m sharing today is one that resonates deeply with military spouses navigating
- [Leave More Room For Grief in Your Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/leave-more-room-for-grief-in-your-life/) - By Crystal Bettenhausen-Bubulka In military spouse life, there comes a moment when we need to challenge our perspectives, we need to hear through a new lens. The idea of listening through something you look through might seem perplexing, I shared the same skepticism when I first encountered this saying. A seasoned mentor in my life, a Vietnam
- [Spring Break Road Trip: Family Edition](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spring-break-road-trip-family-edition/) - It is March and we are getting ready to kick off Spring Break season! When my husband and I were stationed in Florida, Spring Break meant a lot of college students swarming the beach and ridiculous posts on Facebook by the local police about the silly things that happen during the week. Spring Break looks
- [Moving is Hard: 5 Fun Ideas to Help Your Kids Keep Their Friendships After a PCS ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/help-your-kids-keep-their-friendships-after-a-pcs/) - The girls have already been crying over the upcoming move. My daughter is eight years old, and her best friend is moving soon. They have lived across the street from each other for four years—half of my daughter’s life. Every day that it is sunny, the girls are outside playing together. Every day that it
- [The Alabama Ruling: A Plea for a Better Conversation](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/alabama-wrongful-dealth-ruling/) - In February, the Supreme Court of the state of Alabama made a decision that will shape the future of how families are created – in Alabama and perhaps around the country. If you happened to have missed the news, the short version is that several families in Alabama had their frozen embryos destroyed when a
- [A Beauty Dynasty: Standing Strong in the Hustle Toward Happiness and Success](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/milspouse-moguls-cece-meadows/) - Watch this special interview in our entrepreneurship series Milspouse Moguls - on YouTube here or listen to the podcast here. Cece Meadows is the Founder and CEO of Prados Beauty. She is a proud Xicana and Indigena (Yoeme) who works to bring awareness, amplification and collaboration with other Native and Indigenous artists through cosmetics. Join
- [A Fellowship for Military Spouses: Challenge Yourself to Grow](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fellowship-for-military-spouses/) - Life in the military can be a bit of a challenge, mixed with a lot of excitement. As my children graduated high school, I wondered what I wanted to do next. A friend recommended applying for the Military Spouse Fellowship through the Association for Financial Counseling and Planning Education (AFCPE). This fellowship would allow me
- [Supporting the Amazing American Red Cross](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/american-red-cross-month/) - March is American Red Cross month. I have my blood donation scheduled. What will you do to prepare for the future? How can the American Red Cross help?
- [National Craft Month: Confession of a Fabric Addict](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/at-home/national-craft-month/) - It's quilting time! Or whatever crafting your heart desires... What will you make for National Craft Month? What are your crafty hobbies?
- [It’s Women’s History Month: Who Is Writing Our History Now?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/womens-history-month/) - March is Women’s History Month. Our military history is lined with the incredible dedication and work of military wives: Martha Washington, Margaret Corbin, and Julia Moore, to name a few. But who are some of the military wives who are writing today’s history? Sharene Brown is an Air Force wife, and the force behind the
- [It's National Cereal Day! The Universally Beloved Snack](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/national-cereal-day-the-universally-beloved-snack/) - In celebration of National Cereal Day on March 7th, let’s all take a moment to truly appreciate the magic of cereal.
- [Sally Roberts and "Wrestle Like A Girl" Empower the Next Generation of Female Wrestlers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/wrestle-like-a-girl/) - The mission of Sally Roberts and Wrestle Like a Girl is simple yet profound: to empower women who lead through girls' wrestling.
- [My Spouse is Finally Back But I Feel Different After Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-spouse-is-finally-back-and-i-feel-different-after-deployment/) - Here are six steps that are sure to get you back on the right track with your spouse after deployment. Number one: Spend quality time together after deployment
- [Black-Owned Businesses Giveaway Day Three](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/black-owned-businesses-giveaway-day-three/) - In the spirit of honoring excellence and creativity, Military Spouse is thrilled to introduce an exciting giveaway showcasing vibrant and dynamic black-owned businesses! ✨ Join us in commemorating the rich tapestry of Black culture and entrepreneurship as we spotlight incredible brands that bring innovation, style, and joy to our communities. Check out this amazing resource
- [Black-Owned Businesses Giveaway Day Two](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/black-owned-businesses-giveaway-day-two/) - In the spirit of honoring excellence and creativity, Military Spouse is thrilled to introduce an exciting giveaway showcasing vibrant and dynamic black-owned businesses! ✨ Join us in commemorating the rich tapestry of Black culture and entrepreneurship as we spotlight incredible brands that bring innovation, style, and joy to our communities. Check out this amazing resource
- [Black-Owned Businesses Giveaway Day One](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/black-owned-business-giveaway-day-one/) - In the spirit of honoring excellence and creativity, Military Spouse is thrilled to introduce an exciting giveaway showcasing vibrant and dynamic black-owned businesses! ✨ Join us in commemorating the rich tapestry of Black culture and entrepreneurship as we spotlight incredible brands that bring innovation, style, and joy to our communities. Check out this amazing resource
- [Creating Your Own Canvas: The Art of Making Life Beautiful with Bleu Bee Designs](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/milspouse-moguls-brittany-zimmerman/) - 🎨🌟 Welcome to a canvas of endless possibilities! 🌟🎨 In this episode of Milspouse Moguls, we dive into the captivating world of entrepreneurship with the extraordinary creative Brittany Zimmerman, founder of Bleu Bee Designs. 🐝✨ Join us as we explore the intersection of art and entrepreneurship in creating a life filled with beauty, purpose, and
- [5 Ways to Be There For Your Faraway Friends](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-ways-to-be-there-for-your-faraway-friends/) - As military families, we know all too well the helpless feeling of our inability to be with loved ones while they go through difficult times. In my closest circle, we have experienced loss, miscarriage, health scares, mental health struggles, parenting hardships… your friend group is also likely to have gone through most, all, or even
- [Cultivate Conference 2024: Empowering Military Spouses for Missional Leadership](https://www.militaryspouse.com/events/cultivate-conference-2024/) - In the heart of North Carolina, an empowering event is on the horizon for military community leaders and spouses alike. The Cultivate Conference, set to take place on March 8th-9th, 2024, at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. This event is gearing up to be a transformative experience, especially for those in the military community. Mission-Focused Empowerment
- [Just Say No](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/just-say-no/) - Everyone has different experiences in their lives where they’ve had to set boundaries and sometimes draw a hard line and say “no.” Sometimes people respect those boundaries with understanding, and other times it can lead to stressful situations. Being a military family can add to that stress too. Here is a story about how my
- [A Day at the USO](https://www.militaryspouse.com/milspouse/a-day-at-the-uso/) - During World War II, the Korean War, and the Vietnam War, Bob Hope was the face of the United Services Organization (USO). Bob Hope joined the USO shortly after it was organized in 1941. He started on the radio and then traveled the world entertaining troops. He brought the servicemembers a touch of home, lots
- [PCS Proofing Your Marriage: 5 Ways to Survive a PCS Hand in Hand](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-and-marriage/) - Let’s be honest, military marriages are no walk in the park. As military spouses we encounter trials, conflict, isolation, loneliness, and many other things that seem to constantly take aim at our marriages. One of the most persistent trials is the PCS season. For our family we move every two years now and each move
- [A Vegan Valentine’s Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-vegan-valentines-day/) - In full transparency, Valentine’s Day has never been an important holiday for me. I have always preferred a random act of love throughout the year over a day filled with exceedingly high expectations that tends to lead to disappointment. Thankfully my husband shares my sentiment so we enjoy the day like any other. However, our
- [Is Love In The Air?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/is-love-in-the-air/) - February is here and with it comes aisles and aisles of red boxes filled with hearts, teddy bears, and flowers all carefully placed for us to purchase for our loved one. This festive display is meant to spark excitement and provide the convenience of helping us select the perfect gift. What if you're just not
- [Writing Our Stories: Romance Writer Claire Cain](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/writing-our-stories-romance-writer-claire-cain/) - As military spouses, we have so much to offer in terms of advice, wisdom, encouragement, and —most importantly— our stories. However exciting, mundane, relevant, or random they may seem, they are beautiful and worthy of being told. Writing Our Stories is a series that will highlight the incredible military spouses across branches, ranks, and corners
- [Bridesmaids and BFFs – How to Keep Friends in the Military](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-to-keep-friends-in-the-military/) - As we roll into February, I like to think about the relationships in my life, not just between me and my husband, or our kids, but the friends who have stood beside me every day since we were children. One of my best friends, Kelci, has been by my side since third grade! We met
- [Runway of Hope: Pink Warrior Angels' Annual Fundraiser Shines Light on Cancer Warriors](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/runway-of-hope-pink-warrior-angels/) - In its fifth year, Pink Warrior Angels is gearing up for its annual fundraising gala, the Runway of Hope. This milestone event promises an evening filled with courage and shared stories, bringing together cancer survivors and fighters on a glamorous runway. As a community pillar of strength, Pink Warrior Angels, a 501c3 nonprofit organization, is
- [Dora Ruth Williams: Navigating Waves of Service, Sacrifice, and Success](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dora-ruth-williams-navigating-waves-of-service-sacrifice-and-success/) - On November 4, 1930, in Las Cruces, New Mexico, Dora Ruth Pettes emerged into the world as the daughter of a sharecropper and farmer who later became the owner of a Water Company known as the Mesa Development Company. Born in a home filled with love, she was the youngest of fifteen children to Robert
- [Happy National Carrot Cake Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/food/happy-national-carrot-cake-day/) - I don’t know about you, but I love hearing what new national holidays people have come up with. There is Fun at Work Day, Peanut Butter Day, Pie Day, Squirrel Appreciation Day; if you can think of it, there is a day celebrating it! This February 3rd happens to be one of my favorite days,
- [Finding Your Central Perk Friends](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/finding-your-central-perk-friends/) - As my daughters mourned the passing of Matthew Perry, I grieved Chandler Bing and realized how blessed I have been to find my “Central Perk friends.” On TV, the group of friends seemed to know when everyone would arrive without the help of cell phones, texting, or social media. In my twenties, I desperately wanted
- [It's Your Year to Try More](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/its-your-year-to-try-more/) - It’s a new year, and many have high aspirations and expectations for 2024. We have reflected on 2023 and are hopeful about what another trip around the sun will afford us in the coming year. While some are diligently and thoughtfully choosing their “word” for 2024, for others, making an audacious year-long commitment that can
- [Navigating Crisis: The Lessons We Learned When We Actually Asked for Help](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/navigating-crisis-the-lessons-we-learned-when-we-actually-asked-for-help/) - When life took an unexpected turn earlier this year, it felt like the ground beneath us gave way. The recommendation for my husband to enter an 8-week partial hospitalization program for his intensifying PTSD was a shock that rattled our world. Summer faded, and a casual coffee chat unraveled into a conversation of raw pain
- [Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary Announces New Certificate](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/southeastern-baptist-theological-seminary-announces-new-certificate/) - Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, known for its dedication to equipping individuals for ministry, has unveiled an innovative program tailored explicitly for women in ministry: the GO Certificate in Ministry to Women. This seven-course, self-paced certificate is designed to empower and train women to become impactful disciples within their communities and is perfectly positioned to help
- [What Are You Becoming? Carpentry and Life Lessons from My Grandfather](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-are-you-becoming-carpentry-and-life-lessons-from-my-grandfather/) - Becoming who you were meant to be can be a painstaking process. Since my grandfather’s passing, I find myself learning life lessons through his former daily activities, deliberate and intentional in every way. My grandfather was a carpenter, and his hands were gentle but sure. His work showed me that becoming something great requires time,
- [Cheers To An EPIC Year: 4 Must-Haves To Make Your 2024 The Best Year Yet](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/epic-new-year/) - The ball has dropped, the clock has struck twelve and we are officially into the New Year. Now what? Some may find security in clinging to well-crafted vision boards. I love this practice for visualizing what you want. Others may be cracking the seal of new journals, planners and pens ready to finally get to
- [Why Dublin Should Be On Your Travel Bucket List In 2024](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/why-dublin-should-be-on-your-travel-bucket-list-in-2024/) - This holiday season, my family flew to Dublin to enjoy the Emerald Isle for the trip of a lifetime. While we chose to mostly stay in the capital save a trip to Blarney Castle, we experienced so much magic in Dublin that I think everyone should put it on their travel bucket list. Dublin Zoo.
- [Tackle Tax Season Like a Pro](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/tackle-tax-season-like-a-pro/) - By Jennifer Wake, AFC Financial Education, Financial Readiness What are three of your favorite things in January? Mine are kids returning to school, snowstorms, and tax documents. I’m not kidding. January is the time to start preparing for tax time. At the start of the year, we must do several things to help prepare for
- [6 Date Ideas For You and Your Spouse in the New Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/6-date-ideas-for-you-and-your-spouse-in-the-new-year/) - While I don’t particularly like setting New Years Resolutions, I’m extremely fond of setting goals and actively improving my relationship with my husband. Let’s face it, military life is hard. We already don’t see enough of our spouses due to long work hours, TDYs and deployments, then factor in children and all their needs and
- [Two Different Takes on New Year's Resolutions](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/two-different-takes-on-new-years-resolutions/) - My husband, Jake, and I will have been married for twelve years in May, we’re expecting our fourth baby in March and we have had many discussions on New Year's Resolutions. Are they even worth making? Why do we make them in the first place? Has anyone actually achieved those resolutions, or do they get
- [You CAN Survive the Stomach Bug with Kids...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/you-can-survive-the-stomach-bug-with-kids/) - It’s January which means cold and flu season is well underway. For those of us with kids in public school, we are now professionals when it comes to coping with the common cold. We are well stocked with a Costco amount of tissues and Tylenol. Being sick is never fun but we know it is
- [How I’m Rethinking Home Organization in 2024](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-im-rethinking-home-organization-in-2024/) - I love organizing. There is something so satisfying about seeing a problem and actually being able to solve it. It’s a well known fact in my house that the contents of the kitchen cabinets will regularly rotate spaces, and every time my husband goes TDY, the furniture will be rearranged. Organizing my house lets me
- [From Mother to Friend: When to Let Them Fly](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/from-mother-to-friend-when-to-let-them-fly/) - The transition from mother and child to mother and adult can be a difficult process. It brings to mind a wonderful memory in a butterfly enclosure. “Do you see it?” screamed Ethan. “The chrysalises are starting to move! Soon we will have butterflies flying all around.” He kept staring at the chrysalis, but slowly his
- [Mix It Up: Celebrating Diversity and Inclusion in the Entrepreneurial World](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/milspouse-moguls-lapora-lindsey/) - 🎙️ Get ready for a powerful conversation on diversity and inclusion in the entrepreneurial world! 🌍✨ Join us for an insightful interview with LaPora Lindsey, a trailblazer and advocate for accountability and authenticity in the workplace. LaPora shares insights from her diverse career experiences. Her passion for career development and her unique perspective on power
- [Stop Playing Catch Up With Your Finances](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/stop-playing-catch-up-with-your-finances/) - By Jennifer Berlin, Senior Vice President, Chief of Staff Advisor Operations at First Command Financial Services Military life comes with unique challenges. Given frequent PCSs, deployments, and that military pay hasn’t kept pace with civilian pay, getting ahead financially can be difficult. As a former active duty soldier, military spouse and mother of two, I
- [This Military Life: An Adventure](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/this-military-life-an-adventure/) - This military life is hard. It is difficult. It is lonely. I could be considered a “seasoned” military spouse at this point; my husband and I have been married for 14 of the 18 years he has been in the Army. We’ve endured six (out of seven) deployments, countless TDYs, and all of the chaos
- [Not Home for the Holidays: How To Make Your Own Christmas Magic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/not-home-for-the-holidays-how-to-make-your-own-christmas-magic/) - We sat at a small table inside a cozy but nearly empty restaurant that Thanksgiving, on the opposite side of the country from my family. The food was amazing, but it wasn’t my Nana’s homemade casseroles or my mom’s fudge pie. I felt incredibly lonely, celebrating with just the two of us instead of my
- [Guardian Spouse: Fostering Connections and Empowering Space Force Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/msoy/guardian-spouse-fostering-connections-and-empowering-space-force-spouses/) - At the center of the ever-evolving landscape of today's military community, three exceptional individuals- Sheila Rupp, Aimee Selix, and Cara-Lee Alford, are pioneering a transformative initiative aimed at knitting together the fabric of the Space Force's support network. Together, they've embarked on an encouraging venture called "Guardian Spouse: Candid Conversations," a monthly Zoom series tailored
- [Beyond the Brick: Connecting Through Play](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/beyond-the-brick-connecting-through-play/) - When it comes to the Lego fan community, Beyond the Brick is the largest community of creators, AFOLs (Adults fan of Lego), and kiddos alike. Founded in November of 2011 by content creator, Josh Hanlon, this community started as an audio-only podcast and has blossomed into a thriving hub for Lego enthusiasts worldwide, amassing a
- [Unwrapping Creativity: Holiday Upcycling Made Fun!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/unwrapping-creativity-holiday-upcycling-made-fun/) - Ah, the holiday break—a time for family, festivities, and, let's face it, a touch of boredom that threatens to creep in faster than Santa slides down a chimney. But fear not, because we've got a crafty trick up our sleeves to turn those idle moments into a flurry of fun: holiday upcycling! Picture this: you're
- [Nurturing Mental Health in Entrepreneurship: A Guide for Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/nurturing-mental-health-in-entrepreneurship-a-guide-for-military-spouses/) - Being a military spouse comes with its own set of challenges, from frequent relocations to managing the responsibilities that come with deployment. On top of these demands, many military spouses are also entrepreneurs, juggling the complexities of building a business while supporting their military family. Let's explore the crucial topic of mental health in entrepreneurship
- [12 Tips for Navigating Social Media as Military Spouse Entrepreneur](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/12-tips-for-navigating-social-media-as-military-spouse-entrepreneur/) - As a military spouse entrepreneur, you possess a dynamic skill set that extends beyond business – adaptability, resilience, and determination. Leverage these qualities to conquer the social media landscape and propel your business to new heights. Here are essential social media tips tailored to your unique journey. 1. Embrace Your Authenticity: Your journey as a
- [Don't Let $$$ Keep You From Pursuing Your Dreams](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/dont-let-keep-you-from-pursuing-your-dreams/) - When asking military spouses what the biggest barrier is in their business, the number answer is funding; funding is holding military spouses back from starting and running their business. It’s always funds, funds, funds. I remember starting my first business as a blogger in 2014 and bootstrapping to get a website build to add my blog.
- [The Many Questions That Come With Each PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-many-questions-that-come-with-each-pcs/) - It always starts with my husband coming home and saying, “Let’s go sit out on the deck for a few minutes.” In the winter he may suggest we sit by the fireplace, the location doesn’t matter. The words give it away. The words pause my heart mid-beat, causing my breath to catch and the questions
- [Pack Rat Confession Time: It's Time to Let Things Go](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pack-rat-confession-time-its-time-to-let-things-go/) - “Pack Rat” confession time. I have a hard time letting go of things. I keep things because they have memories attached to them. The first picture each child made at school, even though most are unidentifiable. Furniture my dad made. Souvenirs we bought at different places. Dishes people gave us. So many things. Some of
- [Quilting a Life of Learning New Skills](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/quilting-a-life-of-learning-new-skills/) - As I sit working on presents for friends and family, I reflect on my quilting journey. My love of sewing started in high school when I learned to sew and make clothes. I loved figuring out materials and patterns, but college and full time teaching put my hobby on a high, dusty shelf. Fast forward
- [Visiting Home for the Holidays: Expectations vs. Reality](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/visiting-home-for-the-holidays-expectations-vs-reality/) - As Christmas lights are hung and holiday music blasts from speakers in every store, there is a common theme to the season: family. Watch any holiday movie and it’s clear that this is a time to be together. For many military families, this means traveling long distances to visit the place you call home. Excitement
- [What a Lizard Taught Me about Marital Communication](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/what-a-lizard-taught-me-about-marital-communication/) - I grew up with dogs and lots of fish. When I was younger, I thought I wanted to be a veterinarian, because I love animals. I was the daughter called to remove mice, snakes, spiders, or any unwanted creature that happened to enter our house. My mom did not always want them killed, just removed,
- [How the Movie Four Christmases Changed the Way We Do Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/how-the-movie-four-christmases-changed-the-way-we-do-holidays/) - Catherine Vandament, LMSW In 2008, actors Reese Witherspoon and Vince Vaughn co-starred in the holiday rom-com Four Christmases as couple Brad and Kate. As the movie unfolds, Brad and Kate’s travel plans are disrupted, leaving them to spend Christmas day visiting both of their divorced sets of parents and having four Christmases. As a military
- [The Secret to the Art of Hospitality](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-secret-to-the-art-of-hospitality/) - Catherine Vandament, LMSW As we gear up for another holiday season, you and I both know we have spent significant time scrolling sites like Pottery Barn, Home Goods, and Pinterest for inspiration for the perfectly curated holiday mantles and tablespaces. To be fair, I love a good Pinterest binge on a cold, rainy fall day
- [Abby Ammons: Serving with Compassion and Connection](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/abby-ammons/) - In a world filled with ambitious goals and driven leaders, there are a few extraordinary individuals who stand out for their unwavering commitment to serving their communities through compassion and connection. Abby Ammons is a seasoned military spouse, gifted communicator, and visionary for the military spouse community. Her mission and motive are simple yet profound:
- [‘Tis the Season For Identity Thieves](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/tis-the-season-for-identity-thieves/) - Christmas is coming, but now is the time to think about taxes. Taxes are due around April 15th. In recent years, identity theft related to taxes and personal information has increased. Unfortunately, identity thieves keep changing how they operate. A common tactic used by some identity thieves is to send in tax returns with other
- [Celebrating Five Years of Kindness: Giving Tuesday Military Continues to Make an Impact](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/celebrating-five-years-of-kindness-giving-tuesday-military-continues-to-make-an-impact/) - In the heart of the holiday season, as the world gears up for festivities, there's a movement that transcends the bustle of shopping and celebrations. It's about kindness, about giving back, and it's been flourishing within the military community for the past five years - Giving Tuesday Military. This remarkable movement, centered around acts of
- [Updating a Favorite Recipe This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/updating-a-favorite-recipe-this-year/) - By Jennifer Wake, Family Traditions, Special Needs Pumpkin. Apple. Pecan. Cherry. What is your favorite pie? When I was in high school, I made four different types of pies for my family. I had a knack for creating my father’s favorite pie crust, so pie-making became my job. My mom was more than willing to
- [Thanksgiving Traditions During PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/thanksgiving-traditions-during-pcs/) - By Jennifer Wake, Family Traditions, PCS “Mom, where are we going to eat Thanksgiving Dinner?” Each of our three children whined at some point during the first three hours of our cross-country drive on Thanksgiving. “I want turkey, ‘smashed’ potatoes with TONS of butter, and apples!” cried my son. “I want turkey, green bean casserole,
- [Operation Gratitude: A Movement of Gratitude and Support for Those Who Serve](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/operation-gratitude-a-movement-of-gratitude-and-support-for-those-who-serve/) - In the wake of the devastating events of 9/11, the desire to stand alongside those fighting the war on terror was palpable across the nation. At the time, Carolyn Blashek, a then 46-year-old mother of two, felt this call deeply. Her initial impulse was to join the military, but age restrictions prevented her from pursuing
- [Military Culture Shift: An Interview With Corie Weathers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-culture-shift-corie-weathers/) - If you don't know Corie Weathers, you're truly missing out! And now she's bringing you a brand new, insanely insightful book, Military Culture Shift, written to help YOU understand how significant shifts in military culture have created a complex set of challenges, like why families aren’t turning up for in-person and social events, and how
- [Fostering Gratitude in Difficult Seasons](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fostering-gratitude-in-difficult-seasons/) - November is the National Month of Gratitude, a time to focus on the good. Social media feeds are flooded with thankfulness challenges, encouraging you to share one thing you appreciate each day. Pinterest holds no shortage of cute ideas to include your kids. (Does anyone else have a giant ‘Thankful Turkey’ on their wall?) But
- [Day 7: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-seven/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Seven of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Prados Beauty! Website | Facebook | Instagram Prados Beauty is an inclusive and uplifting beauty brand, founded by Cece Meadows, that inspires people through the lense of Indigenous and Xicano communities. Cece founded and launched
- [2023 Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway/) - Enter to win gifts from amazing milspouse-owned businesses! The tree is lit and snow fills the air—’tis the season of cookies and giving and care. On you and your milfam good tidings we pour, but that’s not enough—we want to do more! So what do we want this time of year, but boxes and bags
- [2023 Veterans Day Discounts & Freebies](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-veterans-day-discounts/) - Brought to you by MilitaryBridge FEATURED DISCOUNTS & GIVEAWAYS Disclosure: Some of the following listings are sponsored or contain affiliate links meaning MilitaryBridge may receive a small commission when you purchase from some online retailers, helping us continue to bring you awesome military deals :) Butcher Box: Military Receive $10 off their first box exclusively
- [The Giving Tree: An Open Letter for the Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-giving-tree-an-open-letter-for-the-military-spouse/) - Shel Silverstein's The Giving Tree is a beautiful story of a boy and his favorite tree that I have read too many times to count. The tree is happy, providing endless amounts of apples and a place for the young boy to play and be joyful. As the boy grows older, he returns to the
- [5 Things Military Spouse Minimalists Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-things-military-spouse-minimalists-know/) - I first watched the documentary Minimalism when it was released on Netflix in 2015. The simplicity of the minimalist lifestyle really appealed to me, and as a new military spouse, I was naive enough to think that traditional minimalism seemed to go hand in hand with military life. After all, when you move so often,
- [Always Learning About My Husband](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/always-learning-about-my-husband/) - During our pre-marriage counseling, we talked about kids, religion, work, finances, holidays, and more but not pets. A few months after the wedding, I asked, “What kind of dog do you want?” Imagine my surprise when he matter of factly answered, “None.” Eventually, I won him over. Our first dog was Rocky, a black lab
- [Day 6: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-six/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Six of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Reveille and Shine! Website | Facebook | Instagram Reveille & Shine makes one of a kind, handcrafted heirloom dolls and other seasonal gifts. No two dolls are ever the same, making them gifts to be
- [Day 5: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-five/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Five of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by some of our favorite military spouse authors! These are all amazing additions to any gift. All of these books were written by military spouses for you. Their stories offer a glimpse into the sacrifices, resilience, and strength
- [Day 4: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-four/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Four of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Charliemadison Originals! Website | Facebook | Instagram Charliemadison Originals helps military families tell their unique stories through everyday jewelry that keeps you connected to your family and friends near and far and reassures you that
- [Day 3: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-three/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Three of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Spouse-ly! Website | Facebook | Instagram Our mission at Spouse-ly is to offer quality products and services from military and first-responder families. Spouse-ly is a community championing and supporting one another while we’re on the
- [Day 2: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-two/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Two of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Mady on Main Street! Website | Facebook | Instagram Your go-to for all things magical wrist happiness and personalized gifts! Fan Fave Gifts for You: First Prize: Custom engraved (with your branch) Wooden Coasters Grand
- [National Adoption Month: 3 Things NOT to say to Adoptive Parents](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/national-adoption-month-3-things-not-to-say-to-adoptive-parents/) - National Adoption Day began in November of 2000 with the collective partnership of the Danny Thomas Foundation, The Freddie Mac Foundation, and the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute to spotlight the topic of adoption. It was inspired by the Honorable Michael Nash, who served as a judge for Los Angeles County’s Juvenile Court. In continuing
- [Confessions of a Recovering Packrat](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/confessions-of-a-recovering-packrat/) - Can I be honest? I am a recovering packrat. I come from a long line of packrats. One of my cousins lived in Alaska. When he passed we found out he had multiple properties filled with different pieces of paper. He recorded everything and kept every single slip of paper. I could be just like
- [Soul Survivor Outdoors: A Radical Approach to Wellness for Active-Duty Service Members](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/soul-survivor-outdoors/) - In the heart of every warrior lies the unyielding spirit of toughness, but even the bravest hearts need nourishment. Enter Soul Survivor Outdoor (SSO), a faith-based outdoor adventure ministry that's on a mission to empower active-duty military service members through Christ-centered spiritual fitness and wellness programs. SSO is not just about surviving; it's about thriving.
- [Day 1: Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2023-holiday-giveaway-day-one/) - Military Spouse brings you Day One of the Military Spouse Fan Faves Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Hummingbird Lane Boutique! Website | Facebook | TikTok We offer women’s fashion, accessories, and more! Our main love is our custom glitter tumblers—which can now be yours! Fan Fave Gifts for You: First Prize &
- [The Brick Fix: How Lego Bricks Built Up Our Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-brick-fix-how-lego-bricks-built-up-our-family/) - Life in the military can be both challenging and unpredictable. For our family, it brought not one but two back-to-back separations due to military service. A nearly year-long deployment was followed with orders for a 365 unaccompanied tour and there was no small amount of stress. These separations took their toll - on my spouse,
- [To the Spouse That Feels Like They Are Not Enough](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/to-the-spouse-that-feels-like-they-are-not-enough/) - Military spouses are some of the most independent, self-sufficient individuals that exist. We have to be. Life demands things of us every day, and some seasons it demands far more than we can bear. Though our spouses often want to help, they belong to the mission first. Frequent moves mean that our in-person support network
- [Just Announced... Walt Disney World Armed Forces Salute Military Discounts for 2024](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/disney-world-armed-forces-salute-military-discounts-2024/) - By Military Bridge Members of the U.S. Military Enjoy Specially Priced Theme Park Tickets & Hotel Rates in 2024 at Walt Disney World At Walt Disney World Resort in Orlando, Florida –Members of the U.S. Military: Enjoy Specially Priced Theme Park Tickets in 2024 Disney announces that from January 1, 2024 through December 20, 2024,
- [Military Families Deserve Better: Examining Military Spouse Unemployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/examining-military-spouse-unemployment/) - By Mark Steffe, President/CEO of First Command Financial Services, Inc. Raising a family is more expensive than ever. Between rising food prices, the cost of renting or buying a home, childcare costs and more, it’s not surprising U.S. families are choosing smaller families[1], if they opt to have children at all. For more than 2 million
- [Instagram Resources for Autism, Speech Delay, and Sensory Supporting Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/instagram-resources-for-autism-speech-delay-and-sensory-supporting-families/) - In 2021, my son was diagnosed as autistic, and while this didn’t come as a shock to us, the amount of information that came with it was. However, as a military spouse and mom to now two little ones, one of the ways that I was able to learn quick snippets of information throughout the
- [The Power of Personal Growth: Thinking Big to Create a Ripple of Giving Back](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/thinking-big-to-create-a-ripple-of-giving-back/) - When it comes to giving back, many of us believe that small acts of kindness and volunteering are the only ways to make a difference. However, I invite you to consider a different perspective—one that encompasses personal growth and thinking bigger. Let’s explore expanding our horizons, starting or growing a business that gives back, and
- [10 Vegan Snack Hacks to Change Your Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-vegan-snack-hacks-to-change-your-life/) - My journey to a vegan diet started six years ago when my daughter was born. It was clear within the first few weeks that she wasn’t tolerating dairy, so I said good-bye to my beloved cheese and yogurt. It didn’t take long for me to notice positive changes in my own life, too. After a
- [Local Library Resources You Are Underutilizing ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/local-library-resources-you-are-underutilizing/) - Public libraries have long been a favorite place for borrowing free books and a quiet place to study. The free books alone are enough to get me through the doors to register for a library card every time we move, but I am always amazed at how many other resources they offer, usually at no
- [How to Thrive in Your Village!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/unleashing-your-resilience-empowering-military-spouses-to-thrive/) - As military spouses, we are no strangers to challenges and the need for resilience. Whether it's frequent relocations, long deployments, or adapting to new environments, we face unique obstacles that test our strength and our patience. In a post-pandemic era where many of us are still shifting through a very different “normal”, it’s become very
- [Overcoming Negativity and Embracing Rest: A Journey to Resilience for Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/journey-to-resilience-for-military-spouses/) - Let's dive into a topic that resonates deeply within the military community—resiliency. We often hear the term resilience, but what does it truly mean for military spouses? How can we maintain a positive mindset in the face of constant change and challenges? In this article, we'll explore the power of mindset, the ease with which
- [The Ever Co Founder Shares Her Secret to Building a Brand Identity](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/moguls-amyhawthorne/) - Milspouse Moguls: Entrepreneurship Series from Military Spouse®, with host Moni Jefferson, is your go-to source for empowering and supporting your entrepreneurial journey. We've got all the juicy insights, resources, and inspiration you need, straight from successful military spouse entrepreneurs. You'll hear real-life stories, interviews, podcasts, videos, and more, all showcasing how military spouses can slay
- [Balancing Family and Business as a Female Entrepreneur](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/balancing-family-and-business-as-a-female-entrepreneur/) - Social media marketing has become an indispensable tool for businesses and individuals alike. As a female entrepreneur, balancing the demands of family and business can be challenging, especially during the hectic summer months. Juggling responsibilities such as camp carpool, managing household tasks, and adapting to unpredictable military schedules can leave you exhausted and uninspired. However,
- [Cultivating Curiosity as a Leader: Unlocking Growth and Innovation](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/cultivating-curiosity-as-a-leader/) - Cultivating curiosity is essential in today’s dynamic and ever-changing world. Curiosity is a desire to explore, question, and seek understanding. As a leader, cultivating curiosity is a transformative tool to drive innovation, foster a learning culture, and navigate complex challenges. By embracing curiosity, leaders can create a dynamic, engaging environment that encourages growth and empowers
- [How I Learned to Love Audiobooks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-i-learned-to-love-audiobooks/) - Until recently, I absolutely hated Audiobooks. I had tried listening to a few over the years, but I would usually get distracted or not be able to hear them over my kids talking and need to replay parts I missed. If I tried to listen at night, I would always fall asleep. What was the
- [REset: A Transformational Retreat for Your Business and Soul](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/reset-a-transformational-retreat-for-your-business-and-soul/) - Have you ever had a dream that lingered in your mind for so long, waiting for the perfect moment to become a reality? I know I have. For years I’ve dreamed of hosting a retreat for women business owners. An opportunity to gather, connect, and embrace the art of running a sustainable business with less
- [PCS Season: Strategies That Helped Our Autistic Son](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs-season-strategies-that-helped-our-autistic-son/) - The time came. Order’s had dropped, EFMP approved, and decisions were being solidified regarding packing the house. Everything was lining up, but there was one pressing point on the checklist that required the most mental stamina…preparing my routine driven, autistic child, Grahame. Our first PCS our son was 5 months old, so besides packing the
- [Confession: I’m Not Resilient, I’m Just Resentful.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/confession-im-not-resilient-im-just-resentful/) - Resiliency. Buzzwords are commonplace among the military community, but this one in particular causes me to groan with a very definable angst and makes my stomach turn. For years, this word has been shoved down my throat, plastered onto my backside like a bumper sticker, and used to communicate to the general public that military
- [Stop Making Assumptions About PTSD](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/stop-making-assumptions-about-ptsd/) - As a society, we are messing up. Two decades ago, we were struggling to come to terms with the importance of mental health and understanding things like Post-traumatic Stress Disorder. But today, we make the assumption that every veteran must have it. It’s causing harm and as a collective military community, we need to be
- [Virtual Careers in Technology: Building a Future from Anywhere](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/virtual-careers-in-technology/) - By Yaroslav Opalynski In today's digital age, virtual careers in technology have become a promising avenue for military spouses seeking fulfilling and flexible work opportunities. The rise of remote work has created a convergence between virtual tech jobs and the military lifestyle. Below, we delve into the increasing prevalence of remote technology careers, and we
- [Boss Babe Becky Hoy, Founder of Brave Crate, Gets ZEN](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/moguls-beckyhoy/) - Milspouse Moguls: Entrepreneurship Series from Military Spouse®, with host Moni Jefferson, is your go-to source for empowering and supporting your entrepreneurial journey. We've got all the juicy insights, resources, and inspiration you need, straight from successful military spouse entrepreneurs. You'll hear real-life stories, interviews, podcasts, videos, and more, all showcasing how military spouses can slay
- [Milspouse Meet & Greet: Sandra Ocasio, From Breakdown To Breakthrough](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/meet-sandra-ocasio/) - Sandra Ocasio is an Air Force spouse of 8 years, mother of 4, and an online business owner. She was most recently recognized as one of the Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouses of the Year, Air Force Top 3 and represents for recruiter spouses who are not affiliated with a duty station. I met Sandra
- [Loneliness is Killing Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/loneliness-is-killing-military-spouses/) - The title to this Op-Ed is going to invoke reactions. Either you’re in the camp that’s nodding along with me as I type it or there’s some scoffing. For the latter, pull up a seat. To be considered a well-rounded and mentally healthy individual, there are a few things to check off. For one, you
- [Myths of the Unhoused Community with Marla Bautista](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/myths-of-the-unhoused-community/) - Watch the interview below or listen to the podcast on Spotify or Apple. When you think about someone who tirelessly serves the less fortunate and specifically the unhoused community, some may think of Mother Teresa. For me, it’s Marla Bautista. Marla is a writer, speaker, and philanthropist who is on a mission to end homelessness.
- [Milspouse Moguls: Entrepreneurship Series](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/moguls/) - Welcome to Milspouse Moguls - our newest series designed entirely for military spouses (like you!) who dream of becoming entrepreneurs. OR if you're already making your dreams come true, to come along side you and help you do it even better! Let's be real, military life can be unpredictable and downright chaotic, making traditional careers
- [Hardwired: The Importance of Purpose and Connection](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/hardwired-the-importance-of-purpose-and-connection/) - For most of my adolescent life I found it easier to meander my way from friend group to friend group instead of planting roots in any one place. Maybe it was because no one could label me or put me in a box as the jock or the church kid. Perhaps it was because I
- [3 Ways to PCS Proof Your Marriage](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/pcs-proof-your-marriage/) - A 2020 New York Post article said, “Many claim that this event is more stressful than divorce or having kids.” Wow! I was not surprised to read on and find that the event they were alluding to was moving and that 45 percent of respondents said moving is by far the most stressful event in
- [More than a Food Pantry: How Stronghold Community Food Pantry Fights Against Food Insecurity ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/stronghold-food-pantry/) - One in four. That’s how many military families are facing food insecurity according to a survey released by the Department of Defense in 2022. This means that 24% of families in the military community constantly struggle with access to enough food for each person in their household. Monica Basset, a military spouse stationed at Fort
- [This Coast Guard Spouse is a Champion Against Military Kid Bullying](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/military-kid-bullying/) - Abbigail McCracken was awarded the title of AFI Coast Guard Military Spouse of the Year in 2022 and since then, she’s developed a program dedicated to combating bullying. Bullying has been on the rise over the last decade and this coastie spouse is all in on fighting it head on in schools. From 2016-2019 bullying
- [Summer is Here. Are You Ready to Pivot Schedules? ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summer-schedule/) - Transitioning from the school schedule to the summer schedule can be challenging, especially for working parents. With the pandemic, the situation has become even more complicated. If you're a rookie parent and you haven't yet planned your summer classes or your summer schedule for your kids, I'm here to tell you that it might be
- [Live Life with Purpose Baked In: Dog Tag Bakery](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/dog-tag-bakery/) - Have you ever seen a holistic approach to developing dynamic entrepreneurs as business owners and community leaders? I think we have found it. Dog Tag is a nonprofit organization dedicated to serving veterans, military spouses, and caregivers by helping them discover a renewed sense of purpose and clarity. Founded by Constance Milstein and Father Rick
- [Top 10 Free (or Cheap!) Summer Dates](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/cheap-summer-dates/) - Who remembers how excited we’d be for summer break? We had plans for family vacations, vibrant clothing styles, time with our friend in the neighborhood and maybe even a summer romance. Who said this has to change? The perfect time to reconnect with your spouse is the summer. As the temperatures rise I challenge you
- [Why Military Spouses Should Get Real Estate Licenses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/why-military-spouses-should-get-real-estate-licenses/) - Military spouses are often overlooked when it comes to professional opportunities. However, their unique skill sets and experiences make them excellent candidates for a variety of careers, including real estate. As a military spouse myself, I understand the challenges of constantly relocating and navigating the housing market in new areas. Over the years, I have
- [Milspouse Meet and Greet: Lindsey Litton](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/meet-lindsey-litton/) - Oftentimes as military spouses, you find yourself in the background or hanging out on the sidelines. Putting off professional pursuits waiting for the perfect time to jump into the professional scene. And as a seasoned, now retired military spouse, I’m here to tell you that sometimes you just have to go for it and NOW
- [Military Discounts are Back at Speak Up Conference 2023](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-discounts-speak-up-conference-2023/) - The Speak Up Conference with Carol Kent is a military community favorite. For Christian communicators - whether in speaking, teaching, or writing- this annual event has become a household name and a standard space for developing sharp leaders. Navigating the ins and outs of building a sustainable career in writing or speaking is a challenging
- [Meet Mission Milspouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/meet-mission-milspouse/) - Mission Milspouse, formerly Army Wife Network, is undergoing a full rebrand. This exciting announcement comes hot on the heels of a graduation, a doctoral degree, and a renewed sense of purpose for Dr. Sharita Knobloch- the organization’s Executive Director. Mission Milspouse seeks to expand its organizational reach by redefining who they wanted to serve, employing
- [The MilSpo Co. App: It’s Where We Connect, Grow, and Build Our Faith](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspo-co-app/) - MilSpo Co.’s App is LIVE on Apple iStore, Google Play Store, Amazon, and Roku for streaming. Are you looking for a way to truly know God and what He is like? Do you have questions about what it means to be a believer in the military community? What about how to pray or study the
- [These 5 Tips Will Help You Stay Sane Working from Home as a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/these-5-tips-will-help-you-stay-sane-working-from-home-as-a-military-spouse/) - While balancing work and home life, there are a few measures that can help you stay sane while working from home as a military spouse.
- [The First Vital Steps to Diagnosis and Understanding My Autistic Son ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/first-steps-to-diagnosis-autism/) - Grahame was 14 months old when I took him in for an appointment to discuss developmental delay, specifically autism. Grahame loved looking at objects intently, crawled in patterns repetitively, loved to get a different angle of lights, struggled with unexpected sounds, and needed support with communication. He craved vestibular movement, and would often be found
- [Finding Humor as a Military Spouse Entrepreneur: A Balancing Act of Laughter and Resilience](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/humor-military-spouse-entrepreneurship/) - Being a military spouse entrepreneur is no easy feat. Juggling the demands of running a business while supporting a partner in the armed forces can be difficult and a challenge at best. However, amidst the chaos and uncertainty, finding humor can be a powerful tool to navigate this unique journey and embrace the obstacles. 1.
- [From Baker to Community Maker: How this Military Spouse Uses Bread Making to Foster Community](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/from-baker-to-community-maker/) - Catie Nymeyer, a nine-year military spouse, mother of three, and key spouse has used her skills of bread making to foster community wherever she has landed. Catie and I met when our husband’s were stationed at Joint Base-McGuire in 2020. My husband, Tim, and I had just moved to New Jersey one month before the
- [Milspouse Moguls: The Power of Humor in Entrepreneurship featuring Ashley Gutermuth](https://www.militaryspouse.com/entrepreneurship/moguls-ashleygutermuth/) - Milspouse Moguls: Entrepreneurship Series from Military Spouse®, with host Moni Jefferson, is your go-to source for empowering and supporting your entrepreneurial journey. We've got all the juicy insights, resources, and inspiration you need, straight from successful military spouse entrepreneurs. You'll hear real-life stories, interviews, podcasts, videos, and more, all showcasing how military spouses can slay
- [Pink Warrior Angels Raises Awareness and Provides Support for Cancer Warriors](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pink-warrior-angels/) - Give more. Help more. Share more. This is the mission of Pink Warrior Angels. When founder Julie Moser was diagnosed with breast cancer for the first time in 2013, she began chemo treatment that would have lasting impact on her life. Due to its side effects, Julie was no longer able to work, contributing to
- [The Inspire Up Experience Strikes Again!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/inspire-up-experience/) - As a perfect auxiliary event at the close of the annual AFI MSOY week in the capital, the Inspire Up Experience has hit the road and pulled off a stunning display of community. Hosting at the Army Navy Club in downtown, the Inspire Up team put together a gathering with the atmosphere of a family
- [AFI's Military Spouse of the Year Week 2023 is a Wrap! ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/afi-military-spouse-of-the-year-week-2023/) - The Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year Award just wrapped up with the 2023 Town Hall gathering in Washington D.C. With nearly 200 award recipients in attendance, this year’s event featured a robust program with tons of opportunities for connection and relationship building. With a focus in three areas, the event’s theme centered
- [National Military Appreciation Month Discounts & Giveaways for May 2023](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-may-2023/) - Military Bridge May 1-31st, 2023 is National Military Appreciation Month. Congress designated May as National Military Appreciation Month in 1999 to ensure the nation was given the opportunity to publicly demonstrate their appreciation for the sacrifices and successes made by our service members - past and present. Each year the president makes a proclamation, reminding
- [Busch Gardens & SeaWorld Announces FREE Admission for Veterans & Three Guests](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/busch-gardens-seaworld-announces-free-admission-for-veterans-three-guests/) - By Military Bridge SeaWorld Parks & Entertainment has a long history of military support through their Waves of Honor program and generous military discounted tickets. For a limited-time, Veterans can get FREE single-day admission for themselves and up to three guests at SeaWorld Orlando, SeaWorld San Antonio, SeaWorld San Diego, Busch Gardens Williamsburg and Busch Gardens Tampa
- [Virtual Job Fair for Military Spouses!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/2021-virtual-career-expo-military-spouses/) - Join us at the Virtual Career Expo on JANUARY 13, 2021, 12-4PM EST! Register HERE.
- [<strong>Partners in PROMISE’s Annual Survey Examines Special Education Student Outcomes</strong>](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/partners-in-promise-2022-survey-outcomes/) - By Destiny Huff “Military parents may be the only educational constant in their child’s lives. The goals they proactively set will set their children on a path for success in later life. And the data show that. However, it also shows that this pressure is causing stress. However, this stress does not prevent military families
- [12 Memes to Get You Through PCS Season](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/12-memes-to-get-you-through-pcs-season/) - If you’re anything like me, you speak “meme.” Memes have been adopted as a universal language in which we communicate our thoughts and feelings while reflecting our sense of humor. Memes lighten the mood around heavier topics, and add to the fun of lighter ones. PCS season is definitely one of those “heavy” times that
- [Educated, Qualified & Unemployed](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/educated-qualified-unemployed/) - Even experienced professionals like Mary Houston struggle to build a career when they have to PCS every couple of years. Shortly after marrying an Air Force pilot, I was offered a university communications job. Because of my military ties they requested a multi-year agreement so I wouldn’t leave the position. I balked. An unexpected PCS
- [Marco Polo App Improves Communication for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/marco-polo-app-improves-communication-for-military-families/) - For military families separated by distance or deployment, or living far from family and friends, the Marco Polo app is an incredible tool that helps them feel closer, have more meaningful friendships, and share their lives with those who matter most. Long-distance communication: there’s an app for that Although Marco Polo is a perfect app
- [If Age is Just a Number, Can the Military Remember We're Still Here?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/if-age-is-just-a-number-can-the-military-remember-were-still-here/) - By Julie Tully Age is just a number. That’s what popular culture tells us. Or at least what the media that is targeted to those of us who are of a certain age tells us. Forty is the new thirty. Fifty the new forty. Heck, the Golden Girls? They wouldn’t even be considered golden by
- [<strong>DoD Launches Paid Fellowship</strong>](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dod-launches-paid-fellowship/) - Military Spouse Career Accelerator Pilot matches spouses with civilian employers for 12-week program. The Defense Department in January launched a 12-week paid fellowship program to expand employment opportunities for eligible military spouses. The Military Spouse Career Accelerator Pilot program provides spouses of currently serving members of the U.S. Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force and
- [5 Military Marriage Habits to Make Every Day Like Valentine's Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-marriage-habits/) - I can remember the day I met my husband. It was my first day of high school, and I had just walked into choir. I noticed a cute boy staring at me. Our teacher asked him to demonstrate a solo for the class, and as he sang, he looked RIGHT at me. Then, he sat I can remember the day I met my husband. It was my first day of high school, and I had just walked into the choir. I noticed a cute boy staring at me. Our teacher asked him to demonstrate a solo for the class, and as he sang, he looked RIGHT at me. Then, he sat next to me and we talked the ENTIRE time. From then on, we were inseparable.
- [Personally Procured Moves (PPM) Worked For Us](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/personally-procured-moves-ppm-worked-for-us/) - In 2020, we received orders to move from Kansas to Virginia. But as we prepared to move, the Army announced the Personally Procured Moves (PPM) system would reimburse 100% of the cost of the weight of items moved in a PCS. Within the PPM system, the service member figures out how to get their stuff
- [4 Ways to Navigate the Heightened Emotions of a PCS With Teens](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/4-ways-to-navigate-the-heightened-emotions-of-a-pcs-with-teens/) - My husband filled each plate with food and said the blessing on our dinner. Once everyone was busy eating, he cleared his throat and excitedly announced his news. The news erupted with joy, “We are on orders to PCS.” As these words left his grinning mouth and hung in the air, the other faces around
- [A Mother's Patience: Waiting for Your Adult Children to Call](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-mothers-patience-waiting-for-your-adult-children-to-call/) - I look at my phone several times to make sure I haven’t missed it. The call, the text, the message, or even an email, any form of communication. These days I always seem to feel like I’m waiting to connect with my physically distant, twenty-something children. As they become more independent, talking with me becomes
- [Changes to 2023 PCS Entitlements You Need to Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/changes-to-2023-pcs-entitlements-you-need-to-know/) - The PCS move is perhaps the most chaotic part of military life, next to deployment. Whether you Do It Yourself (DITY), a Household Goods (Government moves you) move, or a combination of the two, PCS moves have a way of unfolding in a way that makes your “to-do” list seem like a wasted effort. And
- [PCSing Around: The Dating Game of Military Relocations](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcsing-around-the-dating-game-of-military-relocations/) - For military spouses, moving is personal. My servicemember has a unique gift of disconnecting from a place, like closing the chapter of a book, turning a page, and moving on. But for me, I spend all of my time and energy, and emotions building a life for him, myself, and our family in each location.
- [Actively Healing from Transition](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/actively-healing-from-transition/) - My nail scraped alongside my son’s dresser to peel off the little blue sticker I found while putting away his laundry. It reminded me that the dresser was the 72nd item wrapped and packed onto a truck away from our first home. That home was chosen for me by the Marine Corps. When I thought
- [Fostering an Inclusive Community for BIPOC Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fostering-an-inclusive-community-for-bipoc-spouses/) - By: Brandi Jones Feeling a sense of community and belonging is important, and no one knows the challenge better than a military family. Every couple years we find ourselves in a new city (or country!) with few friends and no family nearby. And the need for community is more than social. A true sense of
- [Terry Parson: From Participant to Coordinator](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/terry-parson-from-participant-to-coordinator/) - Terry Parsons, a 16-year military spouse and mother of two, has navigated the process of securing additional income as a contract employee for RAF Croughton’s chapel. I met Terry Parsons in Biloxi, MS at a local small group Bible study in 2017. About 40 of us were meeting in the housing’s community center on base
- [Summer Shepherd: Army Reserve Spouse, Radio Personality, and Podcast Host Wonder](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summer-shepherd-army-reserve-spouse-radio-personality-and-podcast-host-wonder/) - Her hope and humor are interweaved to encourage her listeners toward the knowing they are not alone in their struggles or circumstances. Talking about military challenges, family life, and everything in between, Summer offers a calming combination of funny one-liners and practical help to all who hear. In a casual chat, we fashionably swiped on
- [Top 10 Books for Spiritual Growth in 2023](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-books-for-spiritual-growth-in-2023/) - When the clock strikes twelve on December 31st, the season for new goals begins. Resolutions are being made, habits are in the process of reforming, and Christian military spouses everywhere are looking for resources to sit with and savor this New Year. For me, the new year means new books. As a military ministry leader
- [Have Overseas Orders to Japan? Transition Without Tanking Your Sanity](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/have-overseas-orders-to-japan-transition-without-tanking-your-sanity/) - As I stared across the kitchen counter at my neighbor, her puffy eyes and pink nose gave away the secret…the orders she didn’t want. Regularly, my friend and I could be found sharing coffee, swapping stories about motherhood (and some of our epic fails), and fighting off good ol’ Murphy’s faithful high fives to the
- [How FANOS Gave Our Marriage Consistency](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-fanos-gave-our-marriage-consistency/) - When my husband and I took a pre-marital counseling course, we thought we understood our marriage well. We thought we had completed every task item as we reviewed the outline for what we’d cover while counseling a younger couple. Finances? Check. Intentional dating? Scheduled! Attraction? I don’t need to say more about what I think
- [2023 Basic Needs Allowance: What You Need to Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/basic-needs-allowance-what-you-need-to-know/) - Every year Congress passes legislation called the National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA). In late 2021, the NDAA for 2022 included a special pay called a Basic Needs Allowance, which was due to start on 1 Jan 2023. This allowance was designed to provide additional support to those who may be struggling financially, including the 1
- [<strong>How Military Health Insurance Helped Me Through My Mental Mess</strong>](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-military-health-insurance-helped-me-through-my-mental-mess/) - By Katie Dale As with much of life, there’s always room for improvement. However, regarding Tricare’s coverage for my years of counseling and inpatient stays in the psychiatric facility, I can’t complain. You see, as it stands, most Medicaid-insured patients will get a limited 3 or 4-day stay at psychiatric hospitals. Most medical insurances require
- [5 Military Books That Make Great Christmas Gifts](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-military-books-that-make-great-christmas-gifts/) - Are you looking for a book to give as a Christmas gift this year? If so, consider buying a book from a military-affiliated author. We have you covered whether you need a straight-to-the-heart true story, bedtime rhyme, an encouraging read, or fun fiction. All the books below have military members, spouses, or family members as
- [New Year's Resolutions That Will Leave You Happier](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/happier-new-years-resolutions/) - New Year's resolutions are a huge part of our culture, but how successful are they? When we look at the definition of resolution, it's "a firm decision that attempts to do or not to do something, it is just a statement of intention without a plan to shape the course." Forewarning: According to Psychology Today,
- [Standing at the Crossroads Without a Map](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/standing-at-the-crossroads-without-a-map/) - A critical component of becoming an Eagle scout is map reading and orienteering. My son needed to go on a hike for at least one mile as one of the requirements to obtain the rank of First Class Scout. Since we lived about an hour outside of Washington DC, he decided he wanted to go
- [Set Healthy Boundaries for Going "Home" During the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/set-healthy-boundaries-for-going-home-during-the-holidays/) - Military families don’t always have the option to travel home for the holidays. When they do, it can be a long and expensive trip. When relatives have unrealistic demands or expectations, it leaves military families frustrated. Some vow never to visit “home” for the holidays again! If this sounds familiar, you may need to set
- [Military Families Make Holiday Memories Around the World](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-families-make-holiday-memories-around-the-world/) - When you’re stationed overseas, the holidays are an amazing time to immerse yourself in your new culture. After all, embracing unique experiences is one of the highlights of moving as a military family. Our family spent the holidays in locations as diverse as Guam and Germany over the years, learning to equally appreciate a tropical
- [Holidays & Homecomings: How to Keep the Christmas Spirit Without Losing Your Mind](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/holidays-homecomings-how-to-keep-the-christmas-spirit-without-losing-your-mind/) - If the holiday season wasn’t insane enough with year-end programs, 5 million parties, and a million more purchases to make, what’s a little reintegration in the mix? I mean, come on. Couldn’t our already spastic and frantic schedules use a little…spice? When the tree is up and the lights are hung, reintegration is anything but
- [No Rank or Ribbon Can Define Your Military Spouse Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/no-rank-or-ribbon-can-define-your-military-spouse-life/) - By Laura Schofield Who wouldn’t want to look at a service member in dress uniform? It’s sharp. Iconic. military life at its most glamorous. But, if I’m really honest here, it can also be military life at its most competitive. Medals, awards, ribbons and dangly-things (technical term there), special distinctions: they’re all on display, shined
- [Healthy Holiday Eats & Treats](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/healthy-holiday-eats-treats/) - Don’t sacrifice healthy for deliciousness this holiday season when you can have both with these easy, low-carb recipes! Breakfast Bake Ingredients 6 eggs 2 cups whole milk 2 cups shredded cheddar 1 lb. ground sausage 20 oz. shredded frozen hash browns Salt/pepper Directions Fully cook sausage. Set aside. Whisk together eggs and milk, adding a
- [Don’t Give the Grinch an Inch of Your Holiday Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dont-give-the-grinch-an-inch-of-your-holiday-time/) - By Rachelle Chapman When did you start seeing storefront Christmas decorations this year? For me, September. America is in holiday mode for about a third of the year. Maybe that’s why fully one-third of us say we are burned out on the holidays before mid-December. Worse, another third of Americans claim they spend the holidays
- [Dear Military Spouse, I Know You Did Not Actually Know What You Were Getting Into](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dear-military-spouse-i-know-you-did-not-actually-know-what-you-were-getting-into/) - Dear Military Spouse,I know you did not actually know what you were getting into when you started this life of military marriage. I know you simply loved your servicemember and wanted a life together, however that looked. But no one prepared you for this. I know you didn’t expect to give up your career. To
- [Milspouses Are Giving Back This Season - And You Can, Too!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouses-are-giving-back-this-season-and-you-can-too/) - Putting others’ needs before yours during the holidays can feel like the biggest gift of all. Here’s how military spouses Taylor Hupe, Katie Iden, and Sharon Sherlock give back to their community and beyond at the year’s end. Adopt-A-Family Hupe’s family participates in Adopt-A-Family and Angel Tree. They also support their local animal shelter. Adopt-A-Family,
- [New Program Finds Quality, Affordable Child Care for Military Families ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/new-program-finds-quality-affordable-child-care-for-military-families/) - New program expands ways to find quality, affordable child care for military families. “The waitlists at the CDC are so long. I’ll probably PCS again before a spot opens up,” says Melissa Cordova, an Air Force spouse, as she searches online for alternate child care options for her 3-year-old daughter. She’s referring to the military-operated
- [Handling Unmet Holiday Expectations with Grace ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/handling-unmet-holiday-expectations-with-grace/) - Has your desire to experience the “perfect” holiday ever let you down? I learned the hard way that my idealized view of the holidays needed serious adjustment to meet up with reality. I expected everyone to be on their best behavior (myself included!), but I left disappointed year after year. There was always a family
- [5 Creative Christmas Ideas on a Budget](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-creative-christmas-ideas-on-a-budget/) - My family’s first Christmas in the military looked very different than it does now. Our family lived in a tiny two bedroom apartment not far from Whiteman AFB. All we had for decoration was a small tree from the Airman’s Attic, with ornaments found at our local dollar store, and our Christmas dinner consisted of
- [A Holiday Conversation for the Ages](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-holiday-conversation-for-the-ages/) - By JJ Montanaro, CFP®, USAA “Let’s talk about death and disability.” At first glance, that doesn’t seem like a great way to start an enjoyable chat during the holidays, but before you dismiss it, read on. The inspiration to revisit this not-so-joyful topic hit me as I was writing a check to the memory care
- [Throw Kindness Like Confetti with Giving Tuesday Military](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/throw-kindness-like-confetti-with-giving-tuesday-military/) - Since Giving Tuesday Military’s inaugural kick-off in 2019, the challenge for the military community to commit one million random acts of kindness has grown into a sweeping movement and flourishing non-profit organization. Inspire Up, founded by Jessica Manfre, Maria Reed, Stacey Bilodeau, and Samantha Gomolka, is on a mission to change the world- one act
- [Deployment Countdown Boxes for Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment-countdown-boxes-for-kids/) - Deployments. The word trudges up a host of negative emotions. But one company works diligently to support and encourage military families on the homefront, making the experience a little bit easier and much less isolating. Counting Our Heroes Home brings joy and connection to families separated from service members through their subscription box for kids
- [MilitaryBridge has teamed up with brands to GIVEAWAY special prizes in salute of military service](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/militarybridge-has-teamed-up-with-brands-to-giveaway-special-prizes-in-salute-of-military-service/) - In honor of Veterans Day, WORX® is saluting the military with a BIG 25% military discount & giveaway exclusively on MilitaryBridge WORX® is going big in support of the military community this Veterans Day. WORX® has a history of military support with their military discount program. This Veterans Day, WORX® wanted to do something extra
- [5 Traditions You Should Incorporate Into Your Thanksgiving Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-thanksgiving-traditions/) - The following five traditions can be used as a guide for you to discover what special customs your heart desires to add to your annual Thanksgiving holiday celebration.
- [When a Deer Teaches You a Lesson ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/when-a-deer-teaches-you-a-lesson/) - “Mom, it hit my car! What if it dies?” Rachel screamed into the phone. “Rachel, are you ok? What happened?” I asked, trying to remain calm while emerging from a deep sleep. “A deer jumped on my car, it broke my headlight and windshield, then ran into the woods. Should I follow it to see
- [Joys of Jet Lag](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/joys-of-jet-lag/) - We landed at 0830 German Standard Time to rain pounding on the windows. Angels clothed in Army uniforms met us and escorted us to a warm van. After flying all night and being three months pregnant, I was exhausted, cranky, and nauseous. Once we checked into our hotel, I felt feverish; I took my temperature.
- [Treasures Too Precious for TMO](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/treasures-too-precious-for-tmo/) - I held the box close to my heart. “May I help you with that ma’am?” The very thought of letting it go seemed to break the very fabric of my existence. It was not just precious to me, it wasn’t air that I would breathe or water I would drink. It was my story, our
- [Rooted and Resilient Through the Storms](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rooted-and-resilient-through-the-storms/) - Military aviation was born out of a sensitivity to how weather affects the safety of flight. Cloud cover, winds, even moonlight conditions altered planning for air strikes in all major military campaigns of the 20th century. During World War II commanders considered it vital to know whether airfields were Allied or enemy and the target
- [Rest Should Be Part Of, Not an Escape From, Your Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rest-should-be-part-of-not-an-escape-from-your-life/) - Are you being proactive instead of reactive with your self-care? Imagine yourself one of two different plants. One has dropped most of its crinkly leaves and has turned brown. The other plant is covered with vibrant, shiny, and smooth foliage. Which plant do you resemble? If we don’t regularly and consistently care for ourselves, we
- [4 Tips to See Practical Potential in Every PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/4-tips-to-see-practical-potential-in-every-pcs/) - Wandering the streets of housing brought us to a place of great contemplation: “How about this blue house, or this yellow house, or this blue house, or this yellow house...” I have always been drawn to architecture and I love spaces that are a natural fit for entertaining. When I walk into a space I
- [4 Things I Didn’t Know Before Becoming a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/4-things-i-didnt-know-before-becoming-a-military-spouse/) - Being an active duty military spouse for ten years, I’ve heard phrases like, “You knew what you were signing up for!” or “You chose this life.” I am sure you, too, have heard similar things. I like to think that I chose my person and “the life” is whatever comes next. This life, whether we
- [2022 Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway/) - The Grand Prize winner is... Kacianne C.!! Congrats, Kaci! And a huge thank you to all of our amazing milspouse-owned businesses. Enter to win gifts from amazing milspouse-owned and veteran-owned businesses! The tree is lit and snow fills the air—’tis the season of cookies and giving and care. On you and your milfam good tidings
- [Day 12: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-twelve/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Twelve of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Reveille & Shine! Website | Facebook | Instagram Reveille & Shine makes one of a kind, handcrafted heirloom dolls and other seasonal gifts. No two dolls are ever the same, making them gifts to be
- [Day 11: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-eleven/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Eleven of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Sea La Vie Living! Website | Facebook | Instagram Sea La Vie is a small gift and decor shop inspired by all the places we have lived and traveled. The shop has been primarily
- [Day 10: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-ten/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Ten of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Sweet Pineapple Shop! Website | Facebook | Instagram We are a milspouse and family-owned small business located in Edmond, Oklahoma and specialize in custom wood crafts, military gifts, laser cutting/engraving, and personalized gifts. Holly
- [2022 Veterans Day Meals, Deals, and Perks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2022-veterans-day-meals-deals-and-perks/) - Brought to you by Military Bridge THE MEANING OF VETERANS DAY: A celebration to honor America's veterans for their patriotism, love of country, and willingness to serve and sacrifice for the common good. We would like to say a special "Thank You" from MilitaryBridge to all military members past, present, and future for your amazing
- [Day 9: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-nine/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Nine of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Magical Order of Brave Knights! Website | Facebook | Instagram Introducing Sir William the Brave Knight, an award winning product designed by a military spouse to help children overcome fear and SLEEP!. Young children
- [Day 8: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-eight/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Eight of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Kids' Cake Boxes! Website | Facebook | Instagram Kids' Cake Boxes strengthens family bonds and nourishes childhood creativity by baking sweet memories with perfectly-sized cake baking kits Holly Jolly Gifts for You: First Prize:
- [Day 7: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-seven/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Seven of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Brave Crate! Website | Facebook | Instagram For military spouses, counting down to being reunited with their deployed service member can feel like a never endingjourney! That's why each month Brave Crate sends a
- [Day 6: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-six/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Six of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, The Seasoned Spouse! Website | Facebook | Instagram Lizann Lightfoot, "The Seasoned Spouse," is a published author and encourager of every milspouse. Her blog and books offer support throughout your milspouse journey! This Marine
- [How I Networked My Way to New York Fashion Week, Despite Constant PCS Moves](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-i-networked-my-way-to-new-york-fashion-week-despite-constant-pcs-moves/) - Years ago, when I decided to start a fashion brand to fight poverty, I needed a lot of support – and I got it. I reached out to an extensive network of people I’d met over the years, and while I did receive some raised eyebrows, skepticism was far outpaced by support, advice, and even
- [Day 5: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-five/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Five of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Nomades Collection! Website | Facebook | Instagram Our Story began 13 years ago with an idea jotted down on a napkin. That musing became the adventure of a lifetime: Nomadés. And what an amazing
- [Day 4: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-four/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Four of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Mady on Main Street! Facebook | Instagram Your go-to for all things magical wrist happiness and more! Holly Jolly Gifts for You: First Prize: 1 Holiday-themed Watch Band & Matching Charm Grand Prize: One
- [Day 3: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-three/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Three of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Charliemadison Originals! Website | Facebook | Instagram Charliemadison Originals helps military families tell their unique stories through everyday jewelry that keeps you connected to your family and friends near and far and reassures you
- [Day 2: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-two/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Two of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Tuli! Website | Facebook | Instagram Tuli is fashion brand that fights poverty by selling fair trade jewelry made using recycled materials in Uganda and Kenya. Through their work with Tuli, artisans are able
- [Day 1: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2022-holiday-giveaway-day-one/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day One of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Mel & Mae! Website | Facebook | Instagram Military spouse and mom-owned graphic shirt and accessories company for adults and kids! Holly Jolly Gifts for You: First Prize: Merry Sweatshirt and Chenille Letter Patch
- [Keep the Holiday Magic Alive Through Challenging Times](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/keep-the-holiday-magic-alive-through-challenging-times/) - By Maya Yegorova The arrival of the holidays is synonymous with shopping for gifts in packed malls, taking part in activities like caroling and sledding, and picking out the perfect tree. While in a perfect world, one would celebrate the holiday season in the company of loved ones, it’s understandable that the holidays can be
- [Resources to Help Tween and Teen Girls Thrive](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/teen-girl-resources/) - With school back in full swing and technology more pervasive than we'd ever like, our teen and tween girls are deeply entrenched in the comparison battle and trying to figure out their identities. Am I pretty enough? What do I need to do to fit into her jean size? Am I buying the right clothes
- [A New Way to Support Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-new-way-to-support-military-families/) - If you've been a military spouse for any amount of time, you know that something always goes wrong when your spouse is away from home on official duty. For example, a mere 24 hours after my husband left for a two-week field exercise, our refrigerator supply line exploded. Unfortunately, I didn't know where the water
- [Halloween Hacks: Last Minute Costumes Because…You Forgot](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/last-minute-halloween-costumes/) - “Mom! I need a costume tomorrow!”- every kid during deployment We’ve all been there. You’re making the night-time rounds, turning off all the lights, and you hear the panicked shout of a kid who needs a costume…tomorrow. I have found that my children have a keen awareness of just how tired I am and, at
- [I Missed My Mother's Funeral and This is How I'm Processing It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/i-missed-my-mothers-funeral-and-this-is-how-im-processing-it/) - Military families have a unique struggle in that they aren’t always able to “be there” for special events. Weddings, birthdays, Thanksgiving, Christmas - anytime families regularly get together, military families often cannot join in the festivities. Another thing military families regularly miss? Funerals. My own mother died not too long ago. The challenges of military
- [2022 Military Family Caucus Summit Round-Up](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2022-military-family-caucus-summit-round-up/) - Did you blink and miss the 2022 Military Family Caucus Summit? You are not alone. The annual Summit returned to its in-person format and took place on Fairchild Air Force Base in Spokane, Washington on August 17th. BLUF (military speak for “bottom line up front”): DOD policies are not keeping up with the issues faced
- [Semper Gumby Parenting For The Solo Parent](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/semper-gumby-parenting-for-the-solo-parent/) - I almost lost a gasket—my son hadn’t turned in a couple of assignments at school. But what made this situation more difficult was my husband’s job. Right now, I did the lion’s share of parenting at this stage, and it’s the cost of having a servant-hearted husband. However, my high standards and inflexibility with my
- [The Scary Announcements: Deployments, PCS's, and TDY's](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-scary-announcements-deployments-pcss-and-tdys/) - If you ask most spouses, they can recall their first "scary announcement moment." Whether it was for a Short Tour in S. Korea, a six-month deployment in the Sandbox, orders to move to an undesired location, or even the first time separated and navigating Basic Training. Here are a few tips on the process of
- [Does Everyone Hate Me or Do I Just Need a Snack?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/does-everyone-hate-me-or-do-i-just-need-a-snack/) - Have you ever had one of those word vomiting, all telling, and hyper emotional conversations with someone who only knows you at a surface level? Maybe you know exactly` what I’m talking about and you’re already cringing. In a moment of weakness, some well-meaning person asked you this very simple question (a question you have
- [The Secret to Continuity of Care For Military Kids With Special Needs](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-secret-to-continuity-of-care-for-military-kids-with-special-needs/) - Continuity of care for children with special needs is difficult under ideal circumstances. We can all agree military families do not face ideal circumstances. Before my own children were born, I learned a valuable lesson about achieving success in this area. It started with a one-inch, red binder. Its bright color stood out to remind
- [Breaking up the Mid-station Doldrums](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/breaking-up-the-mid-station-doldrums/) - There comes a point at every base where the "new place excitement" starts to wear off. You might not realize anything feels different, but the days feel slow yet busy. You don't hate the base; you feel indifferent to it. So what do you do to break up the mid-station doldrums? Here are our best
- [The RACE: Connecting Military Teens Through Competition](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-race-connecting-military-teens-through-competition/) - It’s a Monday night in August. Tweens and teens are flocking to the field of RAF Lakenheath dressed from head to toe in red, yellow, green, or blue. Parents are screaming and cheering with painted faces and tutus. The RACE is on. It’s not an acronym. “The RACE is in caps because it’s supposed to
- [The Great Outdoors with Kids: Tips for Spending Time Outside with Your Children ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-great-outdoors-with-kids/) - We’ve often heard the benefits of getting outside. From improved mental health to increased immunity, there’s no question that spending time in nature should be a regular part of our daily lives. Yet when young children are thrown into the mix, heading outdoors can seem almost impossible. The truth is that it doesn’t have to
- [10 Dos and Don'ts to Encourage Your Child’s Teacher](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/encourage-your-childs-teacher/) - With the new school year in full swing, I can already tell that the wonderful teachers serving our kiddos are getting progressively tired and probably need a little love. With the unending responsibilities, long hours, and exhaustive relational work of teaching kids of all ages, I think it would be a good idea for military
- [5 Ways to Combat the Anxious MilSpouse Heart](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-ways-to-combat-the-anxious-milspouse-heart/) - “You are not alone.” "Everything is going to be alright.” What comforting words for many military spouses during these uncertain days. Everything around us is constantly moving and shaking. It can be difficult to find your bearing when the compass just keeps on changing direction. It is true, you are not alone and everything is
- [PCS Bingo](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs-bingo/) - How many squares can you check off?? Recently someone asked me what my least favorite duty station was. With 17 moves in 35 years, you would think the answer would be easy, but nothing came to mind. Here is the truth: Each duty assignment has had really challenging parts and really amazing parts. Some were
- [Harmony From Home](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/harmony-from-home/) - This dynamic duo’s prowess produces work-from-home careers for military spouses around the world. Long before the COVID-19 pandemic produced a remote work revolution, Instant Teams co-founders Liza Rodewald and Erica McMannes were trailblazers for work-from-home careers, having set up shop in everything from a cobweb-infested basement to a bedroom closet. “I’ve held meetings from a
- [EFMP Survey Now Open to Parents, Teachers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/efmp-survey-now-open-to-parents-teachers/) - Partners in PROMISE seeks feedback from families and providers. After a military family takes a survey, they may just keep scrolling and forget all about it. But today their stories are what got me out of bed. I had to appear in court at 6 a.m. I needed to testify on behalf of Partners in
- [Addressing the Hidden Financial Costs of Military Spouse Unemployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/addressing-the-hidden-financial-costs-of-military-spouse-unemployment/) - By Eric Eversole, President of Hiring Our Heroes and a Vice President of the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, and Mark Steffe, President/CEO of First Command Financial Services, Inc.* It’s safe to say that no one dedicates their life to the military to become rich. Instead, the men and women of our armed services are dedicated
- [Restoring Honor and Releasing the Shame of Suicide](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/restoring-honor-and-releasing-the-shame-of-suicide/) - Military families remember their loved ones lost to suicide. If you're in crisis, get a phone and dial 988. Then follow the prompts and press 1. On Dec. 8, 2021, I almost lost my combat veteran husband to a self-inflicted gun wound—words I never thought would be a part of our story. Immediately following, we
- [Pride and Grit: You Are Worth the Investment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pride-and-grit-your-are-worth-the-investment/) - Have you ever had a bit of an identity crisis? So many military spouses today are describing the grief and frustration they are feeling around building an identity separate from their active duty military member’s decision to serve. Even more so, spouses of service members who are preparing to transition out of military service are
- [Operation Child Care](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/operation-child-care/) - Referral agency connects DoD-affiliated families to DoD-affiliated nannies. Military spouse unemployment has been a top concern for military families for decades. The lack of secondary income, especially in young families, has been tied to higher stress, lower retention rates, and even food insecurity. When military spouses are surveyed regarding why they are unable to access
- [Work-from-Home Careers Aren't Slowing Down Anytime Soon](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/work-from-home-careers-arent-slowing-down-anytime-soon/) - Before the COVID-19 pandemic, about 5% of jobs could be done remotely. Since 2020, work-from-home (WFH) and remote work options have increased in availability and acceptability, with an expected growth of 65% over the next five years. Remote work means working from anywhere other than an office. WFH can include working remotely, but also applies
- [Introducing the Council for Military Spouse Clubs!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/introducing-the-council-for-military-spouse-clubs/) - Clubs from every service now have the opportunity to join together globally. Did you know that there are over 400 military spouse clubs, thrift shops, and gift shops worldwide which involve an estimated 50,000 military spouses? These organizations provide ways for spouses to connect with other spouses, contribute to their local military and surrounding communities
- [Gold Star Mother's and Family's Day: Acknowledgement Through Action](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/gold-star-mothers-and-familys-day-acknowledgement-through-action/) - I awoke to the phone ringing in the middle of the night. My husband answered and I could tell by his reaction that a fellow service member had died. I cried and prayed as he got out of bed and went downstairs to continue the conversation. Days later, I attended the funeral service. I sent
- [6 Ways to Fight Lifestyle Creep's Ugly Cousin: Inflation](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/6-ways-to-fight-lifestyle-creeps-ugly-cousin-inflation/) - Lifestyle creep. It’s a trap that is easy to understand and easier to fall into. The basic idea is that increased income automatically translates into increased lifestyle expenditures. We make more, we spend more, and we live larger. Sky-high inflation has created this phenomenon’s ugly cousin. Increased expenditures without the luxury of increased income or
- [A Step-by-Step Guide to Self-Publishing Your Own Book](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-step-by-step-guide-to-self-publishing-your-own-book/) - What’s the dream you’ve always wanted to accomplish—the seemingly impossible, reach for the stars dream? Ever since I was old enough to form letters on a page, I’ve aspired to write a book. Unfortunately, getting a book deal with a traditional publisher is hard to come by unless you have tens of thousands of followers.
- [Meet DITY Mama - Your New Favorite Moving Resource](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/meet-dity-mama-your-new-favorite-moving-resource/) - You know that moment when you’re scrolling through social media and a video feels like it was tailor made for you? Well, meet Mallory. She’ll provide you with that experience every time! As a seasoned military wife with a marriage and family therapy background, Mallory excels at making military spouses feel seen, encouraged, and equipped.
- [This Military Spouse is Changing the World Through Advocacy and Impact](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/this-military-spouse-is-changing-the-world-through-advocacy-and-impact/) - Determined to make a positive impact, one Air Force spouse is trailblazing the way for military spouses to flourish through education, empowerment, community, and collaboration. Verenice Castillo is the founder and CEO of Military Spouse Advocacy Network. She is a seasoned military spouse, advocate, thought leader, and military spouse mentor. Truly, her efforts in creating
- [3 Reasons Reentering the Workforce as an Ambitious Military Spouse is Harder Now](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/3-reasons-reentering-the-workforce-as-an-ambitious-military-spouse-is-harder-now/) - When you’re married to someone in the military, it’s normal to move around quite a bit. But finding employment can be incredibly difficult, especially if you’re looking for flexible work-from-home opportunities with benefits like health insurance and paid time off. Challenges like unemployment rates, discrimination, and unrealistic goal setting can deter any military spouse from
- [10 Questions to Ask Yourself to Make the Work-from-Home Dream a Reality](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-questions-to-ask-yourself-to-make-the-work-from-home-dream-a-reality/) - Are you like me? Have you walked into countless job interviews confident and hopeful again and again? Does your resume have one major flaw like mine, which is that you have not maintained the same position for more than one to three years? By our fifth move I knew it was a lost cause. Looking
- [Every Day Matters](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/every-day-matters/) - Founder of Charliemadison Originals shares her advice on entrepreneurship and working from home. Wendy Hively is a veteran military spouse, the mom of two grown daughters, and a full-time scientist who works for the FDA in regulatory compliance. Previously, she worked for the Air Force in environmental engineering and as a cancer researcher for the
- [Comedian Ashley Gutermuth is Taking the World by Storm, One Milspouse Pun at a Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/comedian-ashley-gutermuth-is-taking-the-world-by-storm-one-milspouse-pun-at-a-time/) - About a year ago, a fresh new face kept popping up on my Instagram feed. Ashley Gutermuth, winner of The Tonight Show Seinfeld Challenge, seemed to be taking the internet by storm. Her contextualized jokes about the lifestyles and challenges of military community members, namely military spouses, almost made my coffee explode out of my
- [Design Your Own Milspouse DIY School Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/design-your-own-milspouse-diy-school-year/) - It's time for the Year of You! As the kids return to classrooms, you may be wondering what the school year will hold for you. Picking up more work hours, volunteering, or joining a fantasy book club could be on the docket. This year, consider an intentional approach to expanding your knowledge base by designing
- [5 Ways to Settle in after a PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-ways-to-settle-in-after-a-pcs/) - PCS season is a blur of paperwork, passports, government travel cards, tears, frustration, excitement, and nerves. By the time you get to your new base, you can be either bright-eyed about the possibilities or exhausted from what it took to get there. Here are five ways to help you settle in after a PCS, in
- [Changing Traditions: How to Manage Expectations Before the Holiday Season is in Full Force](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/managing-holiday-expectations-changing-traditions/) - Military life leads you to places you've never been, and you often change on the journey. One of the things that can change is the way you celebrate holidays. Whether your faith has shifted, you found a new tradition you love, or you will celebrate in a different culture for the first time, it can
- [10 Fun Ideas to Stay Connected to Military Loved Ones Through Letters](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-fun-ideas-to-stay-connected-to-military-loved-ones-through-letters/) - Do you want to send handwritten letters to your military loved one? Maybe they are deployed or stationed far away, but you feel uninspired looking at blank journal paper and sad envelopes. What are you to do? Here are ten ways to add wonderment to the mail you send your military loved ones. Write with
- [Elder Emo: I’m Still Cool](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/elder-emo/) - Do you remember the summer of 1999? On June 27, in Dallas, TX, I was spastically jumping up and down in Artist Square at the Van’s Warped Tour. The music radiated into the air and, if I close my eyes, I am transported back to the sounds of loud guitar riffs and the machine gun
- [Portable Career and Extra Income: Substitute Teaching as a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/substitute-teaching-as-a-military-spouse/) - While the education system is hurting for quality substitute teachers, military spouses are presented with an opportunity to step into a sustainable and portable career field. Substitute teachers are on-call teachers who are contracted, usually through a third party, to stand in for full-time or part-time teachers. While qualifications vary by state/school district, typically
- [Navigating Neurodivergent Kids as an ADHD Parent](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/navigating-neurodivergent-kids-as-an-adhd-parent/) - “Tell me about your childhood…” Well, there’s a question that will make most of us sweat. For the first time, I was having an open and honest conversation with a psychiatrist about my own frustrations with “keeping it all together.” At 36-years-old, I felt like I had hit the proverbial wall. I was losing my
- [3 Reasons Food Insecurity is About More Than providing a Meal](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/food-insecurity/) - One in seven American households struggles with food insecurity, and many of our nation’s military families find themselves among them. But the problem isn’t just about putting meals on the table; it’s about providing nutritious food in an environment where quality food is hard to come by and access to resources is limited by geography
- [3 Ways to Cope With the Feeling of Loneliness at Your New Duty Station](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/3-ways-to-cope-with-the-feeling-of-loneliness-at-your-new-duty-station/) - As a military spouse, it is easy to feel lost in the hustle of PCSing. Many moving parts must be discovered, prepared, and assembled before your family feels comfortable at your new duty station. And let's face it, as the leader of Household Six, you are responsible for everything coming together smoothly; the home found
- [The Risks of Being a Dependa](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-risks-of-being-a-dependa/) - People in the military have used this word to degrade, insult, and shame military spouses for years. Often, we see spouses use this same term against one another: Dependa. To be called a "Dependa" can be one of the most derogatory and offensive names moments as a military spouse. The stereotype of a Dependa is
- [Suicide Prevention: The Green Beret Foundation is Standing in the Gap for America’s Elite Warfighters](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/suicide-prevention-the-green-beret/) - Photo credit, courtesy of Brent Cooper America’s Special Operations Forces are the most elite warriors in the world. Though they are equipped well to sustain their roles, the weight of responsibility can come with a heavy price. Standing in the wings ready to support the Army’s SOF warriors is the Green Beret Foundation. Brent Cooper
- [Surviving Navy SEAL Spouse Wants You to Stay](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/surviving-navy-seal-spouse-wants-you-to-stay/) - Photos courtesy of Sara Wilkinson After 21 years of service – Navy SEAL Senior Chief Chad Wilkinson took his life on October 29, 2018. The aftermath of his decision left his family in despair and on a mission to stop other veterans from making the same irreparable choice. His wife, Sara Wilkinson, was always prepared
- [Speak Up 2023 Applications Are Open Now](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/speak-up-2023-application/) - When it comes to the task of dreaming a book into print or learning the skill set to speak and teach, the gold standard for Christian communicators is the Speak Up Conference with Carol Kent. The Speak Up Conference is an annually held equipping event which meets in Grand Rapids, Michigan in July. Christian publishing
- [I’m Not Ready to be Military Mom...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/im-not-ready-to-be-military-mom/) - I have a story I seldom share. Many (many, many) years ago, I found myself sitting square in the middle of an Air Force recruiter’s office. Staring across the desk at a very stately gentleman, I contemplated the course of my life. At 19 years young, I wanted more than to merely get by in
- [To Work or Not to Work? That is the Question.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/to-work-or-not-to-work/) - It is that time of year…early to rise, buses to catch, and carpools to wait in. That’s right. The time has come for the “Back-to School” season to be in full swing. Parent are prepping backpacks, stuffing snacks in lunch boxes, and buying the eighteenth million package of pencils. Simultaneously, moms and dads are eagerly
- [2022 Military Family Caucus Summit Round-Up](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2022-military-family-caucus-summit/) - Did you blink and miss the 2022 Military Family Caucus Summit? You are not alone. The annual Summit returned to its in-person format and took place on Fairchild Air Force Base in Spokane, Washington on August 17th. BLUF (military speak for “bottom line up front”): DOD policies are not keeping up with the issues faced
- [2022 Irreverent Warriors Silkies Hike](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2022-irreverent-warriors-silkies-hike/) - Last year I participated in the Irreverent Warriors Silkies Hike in Virginia Beach. I was turned onto IW by a Navy friend that had participated in one in Tennessee a few months prior. I figured it would be a great way to get out of my normal rut of weekend events and maybe meet some new people. Then
- [The Importance of Creating Your Own Income Independence](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/creating-your-own-income-independence/) - It's never wise, military spouses, to put all your eggs in one basket. That one basket represents your servicemember's income. In the business world of finances, investors would immediately encourage the need to diversify investments. This phrase is the same equivalency as risking all one has on the success or failure of one thing. Thus,
- [Blissful Summer Hygge: Cozy, Content, and Comfortable](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summer-hygge/) - As September approaches, the desire for Hygge, the Danish word for cozy, content, and comfortable, can feel like an itch you just can't quite scratch. It's hard to relax when the heat has you wondering if you'll ever be comfortable when you are already soaked in sweat just thinking about being outside. But Hygge is
- [INVISIBLE STORM: A Soldier’s Memoir of Politics and PTSD ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/invisible-storm/) - “Powerful… Kander displays a level of vulnerability not often seen in political memoirs, offering a bracing portrait of untreated PTSD and an insightful psychological profile of political ambition. Readers will appreciate the candor of this harrowing tale.”Publishers Weekly “Kander’s advice is urgent and relevant: ‘Either you deal with your trauma, or your trauma deals with you’… A
- [MOPS is Giving Away Free Tickets to MomCon!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/mops-free-tickets-to-momcon/) - In 1973, in the quiet town of Wheat Ridge, Colorado, eight mothers of young children decided to get together to share a meal, hold space for conversation and relationship, put together a simple craft, and complete a small devotional together- all while their children received care. Out of this small and intimate gathering, MOPS- Mothers
- [10 Ways to be a Thrifty Milspouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/thrifty-milspouse/) - August 17th is National Thrift Shop day, so let's explore ten ways you can be a thrifty military spouse! 1: Find toy treasures at the Thrift Store or Airmen's Attic. Air Force spouse Erin explains, "Normalize gifts & clothes from thrift stores and such for your kid." They are excited about a new toy to
- [We're All In This Together: My 2022 PCS Season Experience](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/2022-pcs-season-experience/) - After several years of stability in one location, it finally came the time to embark on our 11th PCS. While I’ve grown accustomed to the frequent moving, this would be our first move since before the pandemic. While many things were still the same, there were many things that had changed drastically because of Covid.
- [Everyone’s Path to Advocacy is Different](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/everyones-path-to-advocacy-is-different/) - A problem arises, someone complains, people say to fix things, and then it dies off somewhere. Rinse and repeat of this cycle are a common thing in society. But there are times when this cycle is broken by someone who is wanting to make a change and is willing to put in the sweat equity
- [Is Overcommitment Negatively Affecting Your Family?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/is-overcommitment-negatively-affecting-your-family/) - Does the thought of the school year exhaust you before it's even begun? I'm a recovering overcommitment addict and the mere mention of the academic year almost takes my breath away in a stress response. I spent much of my school years running from one activity to the next, and my family took a back
- [6 Helpful Back-to-School Tips for Returning to School With An IEP](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/back-to-school-tips-iep/) - As you sip your Starbucks and cruise the aisles of Target there is something very apparent - we have officially reached the end of summer. The "Dollar Spot" is filled with fall-themed décor and all the teacher essentials, from mini erasers to organizational caddies. If you can make it past the "Dollar Spot" without being
- [3 Opportunities for Milspouses Embarking on the Great Educational Journey](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/3-opportunities-for-milspouses-embarking-on-the-great-educational-journey/) - By Maya Yegorova The end of summer always causes a reflection in goal-setting as a new school year approaches for military families and students review what they wish to achieve in the upcoming year. While families prepare their children for academic success, it’s a perfect time for military spouses to advance in their own professional
- [Going Back to School the Homeschooling Way](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/going-back-to-school-the-homeschooling-way/) - It’s that time of year! Back to school is here! While many families across the nation get ready for the back-to-school shopping, remind their children that the alarm clocks will be going off early again soon, and make plans for school bus drop-offs and pickups, our family prepares for the season in a slightly different
- [Why Making New MilSpouse Friends Feels Hard Sometimes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/making-new-milspouse-friends/) - Every new station has a mix of activities to be done, paperwork to turn in, and rooms to unpack. There are also everyday items on the "New Base To-Do List," like making friends and finding a good Thai food place. Occasionally though, making friends feels challenging and exhausting. Let's explore why it's hard and what
- [Happy Birthday USCG: Why Some Claim the Coast Guard is the Oldest and Most Badass Branch](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/happy-birthday-coast-guard-2/) - From We Are the Mighty | Photo by Petty Officer 3rd Class Stephen Lehmann. August 4, 2022 marks the Coast Guard’s 232nd birthday. Over two centuries of continuous lifesaving, law enforcement and defense while proudly serving the United States looks good on the force. And despite the Army and Navy claiming to be the older service –
- [Where Does Your Money Go? Family Budgeting During Inflationary Times](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/family-budgeting-during-inflation/) - By CAPT Scott C. Gibney, US Navy (Ret.) Co-owner Gibney Solutions LLC (College & Career) Discussing a family’s budget is never at the top of the list of fun things to do! It is, however, an important component to ensuring a secure financial future. This is especially true in times of rising costs. Interestingly, although
- [Seize Every Moment of Summer Leave No Matter Where You’re Stationed](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/seize-every-moment-of-summer-leave-no-matter-where-youre-stationed/) - Limited time taunts us all, leaving us with the feeling of always waiting on the edge, as the unknown lurks directly around every corner. It is a familiar feeling known by all living the military lifestyle. It brings you to a firm realization that taking advantage of every second that time gives you together is
- [New Enlisted Leader Reflects on Coast Guard’s 232nd Birthday](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/new-enlisted-leader-reflects-on-coast-guards-232nd-birthday/) - When Master Chief Petty Officer of the Coast Guard Heath Jones enlisted in 1995, leading the service’s enlisted workforce was never on the radar. But on May 19, 2022, he took the oath and earned his third star above the hard-earned anchor. “Like a lot of people, I joined thinking I’d do four years, kind
- [How to Start Homeschooling When You Don’t Feel Ready](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/how-to-start-homeschooling-when-you-dont-feel-ready/) - The first year of homeschooling is completely overwhelming. Millions of thoughts race through the mind. Doubts and questions about curriculum choices, methodologies, and technology swirl around, causing mild anxiety and no shortage of stress. When I first became a homeschooling mom, the one question that flashed in my brain in neon lights was, “Am I
- [Dreamer, Believer, Fighter: Proud Navy Spouse, Girl-dad, and Country Music Star, Grayson Rogers is Making Life Extraordinary, One Note at a Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/grayson-rogers/) - Grayson Rogers is passionate about country music and building his career. He’s also a proud new girl-dad and Navy spouse, too. Rogers didn’t always want to be a country singer. In fact, it never even entered into his goal planning or dreams. Growing up, he had his heart set on becoming a professional football player.
- [Children’s Authors Draw on their Military Family Experiences in New Books](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/childrens-authors-draw-on-their-military-family-experiences-in-new-books/) - For aspiring book authors, the book publishing industry has been notoriously difficult. However, many military spouses have found success publishing a myriad of books in an array of genres. We discovered three published book authors who have drawn on their military family life experiences to write unique and touching children’s books for parents and young
- [Back-to-School? Now is the Time to Plan for Your Child’s Future ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/plan-for-your-childs-future/) - By CAPT Scott C. Gibney, US Navy (Ret.), Co-owner Gibney Solutions LLC (College & Career) Each year there are many back-to-school articles and checklists addressing those must-have supplies and clothing options. There are even meal prep examples to make the process easier. An overlooked area, however, is how parents—and students—can make decisions in elementary school,
- [Back to (a New) School Through the Eyes of a Military Teen ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/back-to-a-new-school-military-teen/) - By Abby Huisman, age 14 Most military families understand the struggle of moving, but how does it affect military kids, especially teenagers? As a military-connected teen, I’ve moved nine times in my life and attended six different schools. I’ve had my share of sitting alone at lunch and doing group projects by myself. Probably the
- [6 At-Home Activities for Curious Toddlers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/6-at-home-activities-for-curious-toddlers/) - By Jordan Benton Stay-at-home moms Brittany Henson and Ashley Oswald, both former elementary school teachers, detail their favorite DIY activities for stimulating your toddler’s brain at home. 1: Tracing with Buttons Grab some construction paper, a marker for drawing your child’s first initial on the paper, and either buttons, uncooked pasta, cotton balls or stickers
- [Small Town Strong: Breaking the Cycle of Addiction, Isolation and Despair](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/small-town-strong/) - Small Town Strong, a feature documentary from Vaughn & Violet Productions and Spartan Solutions Group is filming in Portsmouth, OH. The documentary follows Dale King, a former Army Intelligence Officer and proud Portsmouth native, who after serving two tours in Iraq, returns to his hometown in shambles amid the growing opioid epidemic. With no one
- [5 Ways to Rethink Saving: A Minimalist Approach That Can Save Big $$$](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/5-ways-to-rethink-saving/) - Budgeting is a concept going through many minds right now. As the economic climate is causing many to tighten their belts, it could very literally be valuable to find ways to save, especially now. You may look at that bank statement and not know even where to start to cut back. Everything seems like a
- [7 Practical Ways to Teach Your Kids to Budget](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/teach-your-kids-to-budget/) - I was very fortunate to have had all four of my grandparents and a slew of aunts, uncles, and cousins in my small town. During family get-togethers we often reminisce on the life lessons learned during those days. Reflecting on the ones that have impacted me the most, money undoubtedly is at the top of
- [When That Deployment "Nest Egg" Isn't There When They Come Home...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/money/when-that-deployment-nest-egg-isnt-there-when-they-come-home/) - During the first deployment of our marriage, my husband and I were not on the same page about the household budget. My husband’s military pay was our only income. I had quit my job for the previous PCS move, and stayed home taking care of a toddler and a baby while working on my master’s
- [3 Simple, Satisfying Summer Cocktails and Mocktails](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/3-simple-satisfying-summer-cocktails-and-mocktails/) - By CAPT (Ret.) Scott C. Gibney Warm temperatures. Sunny skies. Relaxing days. The perfect ingredients for a refreshing drink. Summer is a great time to experiment with different drink recipes, both with and without alcohol. Here are some easy to make, and great tasting, summer beverages. Enjoy! Classic Mojito The history of the mojito is
- [6 of the Best Summertime BBQ Hacks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/6-of-the-best-summertime-bbq-hacks/) - Building community is really at the center of how we, as an active-duty military family, maintain the status quo as we move as often as we do. We need a place to land, people to do life with, and plenty of opportunities to connect with others in meaningful ways. As a southerner, I know from
- [How a Foreign Spouse Celebrates the Fourth of July](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-a-foreign-spouse-celebrates-the-fourth-of-july/) - As a foreign military spouse, the Fourth of July has always held a special place in my heart, as it was on this specific day, several years ago, that I first moved to the United States of America, the country I now proudly call my home. Though I had seen people celebrating this famed holiday
- [4 Fourth of July Mocktail Recipes for a Star-Spangled Good Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/4th-of-july-mocktail-recipes/) - In the heat of the summer, having a refreshing drink in your hand can help set the mood and cool you off, but what do you do when you don't want to drink any alcohol? You decide to enjoy a fabulous mocktail. There are many reasons anyone may not want to drink: medicine, sobriety, recovery,
- [3 Festive Fourth of July Refreshments With A Little Buzz](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fourth-of-july-refreshments/) - Celebrate the Fourth of July with one or all of these refreshing drinks sure to bring about those cheerful summer vibes we all enjoy. Even better, each of these drinks can be spiked for a fun, adult version. Red, White and Blue Daiquiri Ingredients ¼ cup frozen raspberries½ cup halved frozen strawberries½ cup frozen blueberries1
- [Wise Advise + Assist Team is Leading the Way Toward Ending Milspouse Unemployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/wise-advise-ending-milspouse-unemployment/) - Diana Jaquith and Laura Early, two seasoned Army spouses, are leading the charge towards creating military spouse employment opportunities and finding creative solutions for small businesses, entrepreneurs, and corporate organizations. These two dynamic women co-founded Wise Advise + Assist Team, a virtual team of military spouses, veteran spouses, and veterans who help small business fulfil
- [InDependent Releases New Initiative to "Fuel the Homefront"](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fuel-the-homefront/) - With inflation tearing through the country, record breaking statistics show military families are struggling to put food on the table. Heather Campbell, a registered Dietitian and seasoned Air Force spouse, recalls a time when her family was directly impacted by food insecurity. The stress surrounding providing nutritious meals for their growing family became an extreme
- [This is What We Love About You, Military Dad: In the Words of Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/this-is-what-we-love-about-you-military-dad/) - Is there an amazing dad in your life? This month, we’re excited to recognize all the great military dads out there. Whether they’re the military member, the spouse, or even a father figure who’s come alongside to provide mentorship and support, we’re giving the awesome military dads in our lives some well-deserved praise! Dads, we
- [Park University - Transforming Lives Since 1875](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/park-university-transforming-lives-since-1875/) - Sponsored Founded in 1875 in Parkville, Mo., a suburb of Kansas City, Park University is a nonprofit, private institution that is a national leader in higher education. In 2000, Park achieved university status and currently serves more than 13,250 students at 41 campuses in 22 states and online, including Parkville, Independence and Kansas City, Mo.;
- [6 Questions to Ask Before Planning Your Perfect Wedding Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/6-questions-to-ask-before-planning-your-perfect-wedding-day/) - Getting married can feel like a whirlwind romance or a tornado, depending on the pressure and people involved. Add a dash of getting married while in the military, and it’s easy to wonder why you didn’t elope. Do you need real silverware? Do you want to get married in a church? There are hundreds of
- [Are Military Spouse Employment Programs Working?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/are-military-spouse-employment-programs-working/) - Military spouse employment has been a pain point for military families and the Department of Defense (DOD) for decades. While awareness of the issue has increased, DOD program funding has stagnated and spouse unemployment rates have continued to climb, leaving many to wonder if military spouse employment programs are a waste of resources. “I think
- [This Fourth of July, Target is saluting active duty, veterans & their families with a Military Discount!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/target-military-discount-fourth-of-july/) - Military Bridge Now there is even another reason to LOVE Target! Target just announced they will be honoring the military community again this Fourth of July with a special military discount. Target is proud to salute military service this Fourth of July with special savings for military members and their families. This discount is an opportunity for
- [9 Things Not To Say To LGBTQ+ Military Members and Spouses, and What to Say Instead](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/9-things-not-to-say-to-lgbtq-military-members-and-spouses-and-what-to-say-instead/) - June 1969 saw an uprising, known as the Stonewall Riots, that helped spark the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement, and what we now celebrate as PRIDE Month. As of September 20, 2011, the repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ meant that LGBTQ+ military members were able to serve their country openly. While these events have been
- [Green Beret Veteran Tackles Mental Health Through the Great Outdoors](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/green-beret-veteran-tackles-mental-health/) - Evidence based studies have long demonstrated the power of being outside in the sunshine and fresh clean air. And for those who raise their right hand, it may just be the key to deep healing. Retired Army Green Beret Travis Wilson spent 21 years on active duty – continuing to serve even after the devastating
- [5 Ways to Turn Your Negative Circumstances into Positive Opportunities](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-ways-to-turn-your-negative-circumstances-into-positive-opportunities/) - If military life hasn’t taught you this yet, it is only a matter of time before you realize that this life sure does have a way of throwing lemons right at you, when you least expect it and when your quota of lemons is already well met. As military spouses, we do not lack the
- [2016 Military Spouse Book Club!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/brand-new-military-spouse-book-club-launch-1/) - Photo Credit: Jayel Aheram, Flickr.com We are so excited to launch this new project, and are equally as excited about all the fascinating books we will read together! There will be a range of books, from blockbusters, to those written by military spouses, to those about the military or military spouse way of life, to just
- [Save the Date for the Next Summoned Event Coming to an Installation Near You!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summoned-event-series-2022/) - The Summoned Event Series kicked off at Olive Baptist Church - Warrington, right outside the gates of NAS Pensacola. On Saturday, April 30th, numerous military spouses, women in uniform, and community church participants came together for a one-day military women’s event. Co-sponsored by the Military Missions Network with Gary Sanders, Military Ministry at Olive Baptist
- [The Great Uncertainty of Retirement](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-great-uncertainty-of-retirement/) - There comes the point in one’s career where retirement becomes more and more real. It starts with realizing there are only a few years left and the conversations about where you will be when your oldest is nearing graduation within those few years. Next comes the emails notifying your service member of their retirement timeline
- [Your Milspouse 3-Step Fitness Challenge](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/your-milspouse-3-step-fitness-challenge/) - Are you feeling lazy? Do you feel like you are lacking energy, motivation, & drive? If so, rest just may be the last thing you need. With all of the emotional drain and situational strains of milspouse life, it can be easy to forget about YOU! It is easy and relatable to feel like it
- [Finding Joy When You Feel Left Behind](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/finding-joy-when-you-feel-left-behind/) - It started when you saw the boxes. You knew your friend would be moving, but it felt so far away. Now, the calendar page has flipped and you see your blank weeks. The realization is sinking in that the friend you share your days with will soon be gone and you will remain. Sometimes the
- [When Mountains Crumble: Rebuilding Your Life After Losing Someone You Love](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rebuilding-your-life-after-losing-someone-you-love/) - Danita Jenae is a Gold Star spouse, is an artist, an encourager, and author. Living through unimaginable heartache, everything she does is laced in the power of prayer, the intimacy of surrender, and the hope of redemption. Through her story, she hopes to illuminate the goodness of God in the face of the worst circumstances
- [Tips from Experienced Moms for PCS’ing While Pregnant](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcsing-while-pregnant/) - As if moving across the country with your active-duty spouse isn’t already a little stressful, how about doing it while also being pregnant? Military spouses, Sofia Temple and Mandy Truesdale, share their advice from first-hand experience to better guide other pregnant milspouses during their own journeys. Temple was in her first trimester of pregnancy with
- [Special Olympics: The Greatest Games on Earth](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/special-olympics-the-greatest-games-on-earth/) - This May, Keesler Air Force in Biloxi, MS hosted the 2022 Special Olympic Mississippi Summer Games. The mission of the Special Olympics is to provide year-round sports training and athletic competition in a variety of Olympic-type sports for children and adults with intellectual disabilities, giving them continuing opportunities to develop physical fitness, demonstrate courage, experience
- [PCS Like a Pro: Your Guide to Navigating Your PCS as Painlessly as Possible](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-like-a-pro/) - Megan Harless is a seasoned military spouse, a fierce PCS reform advocate, and the host of the “PCS Like a Pro" Show. She is definitely a professional mover and shaker. I met Megan Harless years ago, as she was serving the military community through education, advocacy, and raising awareness. Her Facebook page, “PCS Like a
- [The PBS National Memorial Day Concert is Back!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-pbs-national-memorial-day-concert-is-back/) - On the last Monday in the month of May we, as a nation, take a moment to honor and remember all of the men and women who gave their lives in service to our country. More than just a long weekend, or time to spend with family over a barbeque, this day is an opportunity
- [Student Denied Valedictorian Status Because of PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouse-student-denied-valedictorian-status-because-of-pcs/) - By Brianna Cooley Dear, friends, My name is Brianna Cooley and I would describe myself as a driven and determined person. For the entirety of my high school career, I have dedicated myself to achieving my highest potential. My parents have always encouraged me to do the best I can and to be proud of
- [Mental Health Awareness is Critical to Our Survival](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/mental-health-is-critical-to-our-survival/) - Life changes at the drop of a dime, and, in most cases, without fair warning, these changes may come in blessings and difficulties. Amid our challenges, can we even thrive as we learn to process situations that may be formidable? Many may choose to keep pushing through life while holding their survival mechanisms on high
- [Military Appreciation Month Giveaway 🇺🇸](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-month-giveaway/) - This month (and every month) we honor military service members, veterans, spouses, and families. To thank you, we're sharing the Military Appreciation Month Giveaway! Every Friday in May, we'll be sharing one milspouse-owned and one veteran-owned business who are offering gifts to our milspouses and veterans! The giveaway will run through the whole month - we'll
- [Military Appreciation Month Giveaway 🇺🇸 Day Four](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-month-giveaway-day4/) - Military Spouse brings you the FINAL DAY of the Military Appreciation Month Giveaway. Today is sponsored by TWO milspouse-owned businesses, Nomades and Charliemadison Originals, and TWO veteran-owned businesses, Mutt's Sauce and Naturally London! We'll also be drawing our GRAND PRIZE winner today - one lucky military spouse will win one item from every business in the Military
- [Military Appreciation Month Giveaway 🇺🇸 Day Three](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-month-giveaway-day3/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Three of the Military Appreciation Month Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Daisy Faye Designs, and veteran-owned business, STZY Socks! It’s SO easy to enter! Just like the Giveaway post each day and tag a friend on Facebook or Instagram (bonus entry if you tag a friend on both!) Share your email here. We will choose a winner each day. Enter
- [2022 Nationwide Military Discounts & Freebies](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/nationwide-military-discounts-freebies-2022/) - From Militarybridge.com FEATURED--SPONSORED WORX: Worx is proud to offer a 10% Military Discount for active duty & veterans. In partnership with MilitaryBridge, WORX is giving away two wonderful prizes in salute of military service. Be sure to enter our giveaway below! GET THIS DEAL MyProtein: Enjoy a 41% off RRP exclusive Military Discount from MyProtein!
- [The Military Spouse of the Year Program Does It Again!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-of-the-year-2022/) - Every year, a swarm of military community members streams into Washington D.C. for the annual Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year (MSOY) Awards. This program, owned and sponsored by Armed Forces Insurance, is one of the most impactful initiatives the military spouse space has ever seen. Because of this program, military spouses all
- [Military Spouse, Oh, the Places You'll Go](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-poem/) - If you walked through the front door of our whitewashed brick home, nestled among the loblolly pines of North Carolina, eight maps from cities across America would catch your eye. These are the places the military has sent us to serve and live. Some of them we called home for a mere three months, and
- [Military Appreciation Month Giveaway 🇺🇸 Day Two](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-month-giveaway-day2/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Two of the Military Appreciation Month Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, MadyonMainStreet, and veteran-owned business, MilSO Box! It’s SO easy to enter! Just like the Giveaway post each day and tag a friend on Facebook or Instagram (bonus entry if you tag a friend on both!) Share your email here. We will choose a winner each day. Enter before 5
- [Dimes for Disney: Little Chores Add Up to Big Adventures](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dimes-for-disney/) - If every good deed your child did was worth one dime, how long would it take them to save up for a trip to Disney? A year? Five years? Never? I can tell you from experience that it only takes seven months of chores for a child to earn enough dimes to pay for a
- [Airman's Attic: This Spouse is on Mission to Meet the Needs of Young Air Force Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/airmans-attic/) - It may come at a surprise to many that a lot of young Air Force families live paycheck to paycheck and often times go without basic household items as a result, which affects their overall wellbeing—mind, body, soul. A young Airman Basic makes $21,999.60 annually, and at Kessler the housing supplement is $13,104 with dependents.
- [Let’s Not Return to the “Freedom Fries” Era](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/the-freedom-fries-era/) - The girl was clearly foreign. When she spoke, her accent gave her away. She was from the country that had just invaded a much smaller nation. She represented the country that just started a war. When she walked down the street, some people ignored her, while others gave her dirty sideways glances. But some bold
- [Military Appreciation Month Giveaway 🇺🇸 Day One](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-appreciation-month-giveaway-day1/) - Military Spouse brings you Day One of the Military Appreciation Month Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Southern, Sweet & Sassy Coffee, and veteran-owned business, Fire Department Coffee! It’s SO easy to enter! Just like the Giveaway post each day and tag a friend on Facebook or Instagram (bonus entry if you tag a friend on both!) Share your email here. We will choose a winner
- [Sharing Stories in Sterling Silver: Jewels and Charms for the Military Community](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/nomades-sharing-stories-in-sterling-silver/) - Spouse entrepreneurs design jewels and charms for the military community. Never underestimate the power of a story shared... Recently, I had the pleasure of interviewing Christy Dewitt, the director of business development and sales for Nomadés LLC. She is a pastor’s kid turned military spouse with an amazing entrepreneurial journey. Christy is one of four
- [Military Family Building Coalition Partners With WINFertility to Serve Those Who Serve](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-family-building-coalition-winfertility/) - Creating a family can be challenging for everyone, but most especially for our active-duty military families. From trying through the separation of deployment to needing fertility support not paid for by TRICARE, it is not always easy to start a family. The Military Family Building Coalition (MFBC) and WINFertility are working together to support military
- [Healing After Trauma is Possible for All People](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/healing-after-trauma-is-possible-for-all-people/) - How one milspouse found her calling serving others in health care. “We all need someone to listen to us, to believe in us, and to be fully present when life is unpredictable. This is especially true when we are hurting or grieving. Being vulnerable to the pain of hurting, fear, and worry can be challenging.
- [Trending Home-Based Business Strategies for Entrepreneurs in 2022 ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/trending-home-based-business-strategies-for-entrepreneurs-in-2022/) - If we have learned anything from the past, change can happen instantly. We see this being true by living, working, and shopping. Since the pandemic, retailers have made approximately $10 billion in e-commerce investments, acquisitions, and partnerships. Website Consumer Experience How are you creating an intentional relationship-driven environment for your consumer? As many navigate their
- [Fixing the Plastic Problem: One Military Spouse is Saving Our Oceans One Toy at a Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fixing-the-plastic-problem-rogue-wave-toys/) - When talking about her journey to entrepreneurship, Kate Reimann says it happened completely by accident. As an accomplished writer in the political and private sectors, Reimann never saw herself starting a company. “I studied Spanish and political science in college,” she said. “I got my master’s in education and married my husband, who was an
- [From Phone Trees to FaceTime: A Multi-generational View of Communication in the Military from 1978 to Present](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/from-phone-trees-to-facetime/) - Over the past few decades, technology has evolved and completely changed how we communicate. Beginning with the initial letters sent during basic training, communication in the military community is a vital topic. I had the pleasure of interviewing a mother/daughter duo who have both had the experience of being military spouses: Julie Terry, a spouse
- [Domestic Abuse in the Military: Is There a Culture of Tolerance?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/domestic-abuse-in-the-military-2/) - Since 2015, the Department of Defense (DoD) has poured over $1.5 billion dollars into a program designed to detect, prevent, and promote awareness around domestic abuse in the military. This program is called the Family Advocacy Program (FAP). According to the DoD website, the program exists to “directly provide or coordinate a range of services
- [Aid for Afghans: Military Community Forms ReactDC to Provide Resettlement Assistance to Refugees.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/aid-for-afghans-reactdc/) - We all remember where we were and what we were doing when gut-wrenching headlines started flooding the media: “United States Declares End to 20-Year War in Afghanistan.” Kabul was in chaos and many of us were glued to our television screens, helplessly watching the terror unfold while we sat in tears. While emotions ran high
- [Spouse Kickball League: Celebrating Our Wins On and Off the Field](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spouse-kickball-league/) - By Rachel Pitts We had just landed in Yuma, Ariz., instead of the location we were promised. I was pregnant, unemployed, and didn’t know a soul. My husband told me about a spouse gathering and in my starvation for social interaction, I jumped at the chance. The other spouses were welcoming and friendly and several
- [6 Practical Coping Skills to Handle Your Stress](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/coping-skills-to-handle-stress/) - Military life is a stressful ordeal for even the most resilient of spouses. We are expected to be resilient, adaptable, and patient, not to mention hold down the fort when our spouses are told to leave at the drop of a hat. If you ask me, that’s a lot of pressure. That pressure is something
- [5 Questions to Ask as You Process Your PCS Stress](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/questions-to-process-pcs-stress/) - Stress isn't just a mood. Stress creates a direct response in your body, leaving you irritable, tired, and wired. During a Permanent Change of Station (PCS), your stress levels can go through the roof. Let's look at five ways to help you process your PCS stress. What can you control? Identifying what you can change
- [USO Recruits Bachelor Matt James, Servicemembers, and Military Spouse for Boston Marathon® Team](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/uso-boston-marathon-team-matt-james/) - On April 18, 2022, approximately 30,000 people will lace up their sneakers, grab their energy gels, and head out to the streets of Boston to run 26.2 miles. Four of those individuals are Derek Melendez, an Army medical recruiter, Jennifer Racine, an Army reservist and high school teacher, Matt James, famous for being The Bachelor,
- [Summoned Series Event Serves Women in the Military Community](https://www.militaryspouse.com/events/summoned-series-event-serves-women-in-the-military-community/) - Does the task of disciple-making seem overwhelming, or even impossible? Do you feel anxious about sharing your faith or do the details of your own story make you feel disqualified from The Great Commission? Or, are you wondering what Christianity is all about- looking for answers you just can’t seem to find? After running on
- [Wandering Rose: Keesler AFB’s Favorite Little Coffee Camper](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/wandering-rose-keesler-afb-coffee-camper/) - Stephanie Rose, a seasoned military spouse and entrepreneur, had a dream to create a portable career and a sustainable income. With enough grit and grace to make it happen, she rolled up her sleeves to transform her 1965 Winnebago into a thriving business venture. After some hard work, a couple coats of paint, and an
- [How to Turn Your PCS into an *Affordable* Vacation](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/turn-your-pcs-into-a-vacation/) - It’s the year we have all been waiting for! With many Covid restricts gone or very limited, everyone is looking for a way to travel and enjoy their time as they get ready for a PCS. A favorite practice of many families is to turn your PCS into a vacation or some kind of family
- [The Small-Plate Solution for Fun Spring Entertaining](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spring-appetizer-ideas/) - Although winter snow has *hopefully* passed, spring brings new activities that cause our house to be a bit of a flurry. In the midst of a chaotic schedule, dinners become takeout, table settings become disposable, and entertaining with a four-course meal feels as far out of reach as the colorful leaves that once hung on
- [PCS Like a Pro: 5 MilSpouse-owned Companies to Help You Effortlessly Move](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/milspouse-owned-companies-pcs/) - PCS prep season is in full swing, and while you might be completing the great purge and figuring out your budget, it also feels like there is still so much to do! Is there enough time? How will this get done? Between new military spouses and seasoned PCSers, anything that can make the process easier
- [2022 Military Spouse Friendly Employers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/2022-military-spouse-friendly-employers/) - These organizations realize the value of hiring military spouses. They get it! Every year, Military Friendly® identifies organizations that understand a very simple business concept: Not only are military spouses NOT a liability because they move every couple of years, they are an asset because they know how to solve problems. They’re creative, adaptive, resourceful,
- [Guild Will Build: New App Sets Goal to Help Military Community Build Personal Wealth](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/guild-financial-app-person-wealth-building/) - Guild Financial App Sets Goal to Help Military Community Build Fifty Billion Dollars in Personal Wealth by 2032 There’s a new finance app on the scene and its founders have their sights set on making some pretty big waves. “Our mission is to help the military community save and invest fifty billion dollars over the
- [Military Teens Bloom Wherever They Are Planted](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/bloom-empowering-the-military-teen/) - Worlds apart, two friends create a space for military teens and give them a voice. Written by Jessica Manfre, Photographed by Benjamin Rusnak Advocacy regarding the military community’s pain points has become a hot topic in recent years. One noticeable gap was the ability to serve its youth, and two Army teens decided to fix
- [Veteran Air Force Flight Medic Receives Makeover in Honor of Her Service](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/veteran-air-force-flight-medic-makeover/) - Valerie Essman came from a long line of service to others. Deciding between entering the medical field or wearing a military uniform was hard, so she did both. “My great grandfather was what they called a ‘tank sealer’ who worked with aircraft fuel systems, more specifically he worked on the beginnings of Lockheed Martin’s ‘Skunk
- [What To Do When Your Family Is "In Limbo"](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/what-to-do-when-your-family-is-in-limbo/) - “Hurry up and wait.” Every military spouse is at least familiar with this phrase. The majority of us have actually lived it more than once. Between deployments, short-duty assignments, and PCS moves, it constantly feels as though the military keeps hurrying us and our families through another long (and often daunting) waiting period. When you
- [10 Things You Are Allowed To Do As a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-things-you-are-allowed-to-do-as-a-military-spouse/) - Have you ever felt like there were rules about what a military spouse "should and shouldn't do?" You don't want to forget OPSEC, but what about the rest of your life? Here are ten things you might not have realized you are allowed to do. 1. You are allowed to take time off of the
- [4 Things You Should Know Before a Rapid Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/before-a-rapid-deployment/) - With the world on the edge of their seats with the Ukraine-Russia conflict, more questions than answers have swept through our military spouse community. One of the things that we have seen in the past few weeks were rapid deployments as more troops headed towards eastern Europe in Germany and Poland. But even with the
- [Evolve Retreat: Navigate Your Personal Identity](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/evolve-retreat/) - If you’re a seasoned military spouse thinking about the future, raise your hand. If you are a military spouse who wants to grow as a person, raise your hand. And if you are a military spouse who would love guidance and community to reach those goals, join an upcoming event created by military spouses, for
- [Swing into Spring Giveaway Day Three](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/swing-into-spring-giveaway-day-three/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Three of the Military Spouse Swing into Spring Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Blackberry Valley Custom Creations LLC! Website | Facebook | Instagram “Blackberry Valley Custom Creations LLC is a veteran and family-owned business specializing in custom laser, Uv printing, and larger woodworking pieces. We provide realtor gifts, wedding, kitchen essentials, and can
- [Swing into Spring Giveaway Day Two](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/swing-into-spring-giveaway-day-two/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Two of the Military Spouse Swing into Spring Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Wander Love Soap! Website | Facebook | Instagram “I make handmade soap and bath and body products! Veteran and milspouse-owned!” Today's Gift: Self-Care Box "Self-Care Box" with a "Pink Mimosa" handmade soap, Lavender bath bomb, natural bath mitt, "Pink Mimosa"
- [Swing into Spring Giveaway Day One](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/swing-into-spring-giveaway-day-one/) - Military Spouse brings you Day One of the Military Spouse Swing into Spring Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Leave it to Lou! Website | Facebook | Instagram “I curate custom gifts for any celebration and budget. I personally shop for and assemble gift sets that are just as much of an experience opening as they are honoring the
- [Don't Let Lack of Cash Money Keep You From Making Your Wildest Dreams Come True](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouse-entrepreneurship-part-1/) - When asking military spouses what the biggest barrier is in their business, the number one answer is funding. Funding is holding military spouses back from starting and running their business. It’s always funds, funds, funds. I remember starting my first business as a blogger in 2014 and bootstrapping to get a website built for my blog.
- [Military Spouse ~ Swing into Spring Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/swing-into-spring-giveaway/) - It's almost Spring (woohoo!) The Military Spouse Swing into Spring Giveaway runs Friday March 18th - March 20th (the First Day of Spring!) It’s SO easy to enter! Just like the Giveaway post each day and tag a friend on Facebook or Instagram (bonus entry if you tag a friend on both!) Share your email
- [Military Community Reacts to Ukraine](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-community-reacts-to-ukraine/) - On February 24, 2022 our nation woke to the news that the Russian military crossed the Ukrainian boarder with the goal overthrowing the government and to make Ukraine a part of Russia in the hopes of re-establishing the Soviet Union. For many, this came as terrifying news, and created a ripple of concern throughout our community.
- [Meet Jazmin Gates, The Tidy Minimalist](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-tidy-minimalist/) - Jazmin, who has been a minimalist for years, is a one-woman wonder. Working as a doula, she serves military families through providing support through childbirth and postpartum. Armed with knowledge and experience around bringing children into the world, she makes all the difference when it comes to labor and delivery. Jazmin and I have known
- [Military Spouse, I See You](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-i-see-you/) - By Laura Schofield One of my comfort movies is “Shall We Dance” with Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez. Besides the amazing soundtrack and fairly mellow plot, one of my favorite cinematic lines ever is said by Susan Sarandon’s character: “We need a witness to our lives…in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything -
- [If You Hate Your Duty Station, You Are Not Alone...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/i-hate-my-duty-station/) - By Laura Schofield We were exploring a new-to-us museum at a new-to-us duty station when I first found the letters. My kids were pressing every button they could find and using the microscopes to examine all the local wildlife specimens. My husband was watching an informational video, and I was wandering somewhat aimlessly. Tucked among
- [Stitch it or Ditch It: Bring Back the Sleeves from the 80's or is it Time to Say Goodbye?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/stitch-it-or-ditch-it/) - What should you do with all of your old prom dresses, military ball gowns, and formals? When Spring Cleaning season rolls around, many spouses are wondering if they should save their dresses for future generations or donate them. As a mom of a teenager, the feedback I have gotten has been pretty humorous. “Wow, Mom.
- [5 Winter Travel Tips: Don't Let the Cold Stop You From Traveling AND Enjoying It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/winter-travel-tips/) - As a girl who was born and raised in Florida, the shock of true winter in some of our duty stations has been breathtaking (literally). But I refuse to allow the cold to prevent me from new adventures and exploring with my family. And you shouldn’t either. Winter travel obviously requires a bit more planning
- [The Surprising Connection Between Your Vision Health and Overall Health](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/vision-health-and-overall-health/) - Sponsored Eyes are used for so many things. There’s nothing more priceless than being able to see your spouse and family to cherish every moment with them; especially for military families that aren’t always together. Did you know that your vision health goes beyond just being able to see clearly? Those with a serious vision
- [5 Soft Skills You Need to Work from Home](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-soft-skills-you-need-to-work-from-home/) - Rachelle Chapman Meet the new boss—it’s you. No new parking spot, pay raise, or executive washroom key. But in the brave new world of remote work, the manager scowling over your shoulder is yourself—if you’re doing it right. In the old office-bound days—before we all migrated to New Zoomland—we had the physical presence of bosses,
- [How One Milspouse Spent His Life Savings Creating the Ability to Keep in Touch With the Kovii App](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/kovii-app/) - By Bethany Wallace It’s a good time. That’s the tagline for Matthew Shanks’ app, Kovii. A free platform, the app allows users to notify others when they’re available to speak on the phone. It creates real, personable connections where you can hear each other’s voice and truly connect. “If someone has a free moment, they
- [Grow With Google: Free Certifications for Military Spouses on the Move!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/grow-with-google-free-certifications-for-military-spouses-on-the-move/) - When I got out of the Navy, I had a career plan. Well, I actually enlisted with the post-Navy career plan in mind. I enlisted to pay for school so I could go get another degree in order to be able to earn my teaching license. I busted my butt while I was active duty,
- [America Through the Eyes of a Black Veteran](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/america-through-the-eyes-of-a-black-veteran/) - By James Payton Jr. IN THE SUMMER OF 2020, I WROTE A PIECE FOR G.I. JOBS about the dueling dualities that black veterans such as myself experience on a daily basis. At the time, our country was feeling the effects of the murders of Breonna Taylor and George Floyd. Fast forward to 2022, and more
- [Ohio Is For Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/ohio-is-for-families/) - Sponsored Did you know that Ohio is home to over 730,000 veterans? Our military community is strong—and that includes our military families. We know that military families are a crucial part of the success of active-duty military members and that support doesn’t end post-military career. But as the veteran in your family transitions to a
- [Join More Than 100 Vets at Verizon!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/join-vets-at-verizon/) - Sponsored Verizon’s Hiring Our Heroes Corporate Fellowship Program provides seamless members with management training and hands-on experience for a smooth transition into a civilian career. Join Auxtyne Omoregbee and the more than 100 vets who have found successful opportunities with Verizon. Learn More
- [Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway/) - The ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway runs February 10th - February 14th! It’s SO easy to enter! Just like the giveaway post each day and tag a friend in the comments on Facebook or Instagram (bonus entry if you tag a friend on both!) Share your email here and you'll be entered
- [Day 4: Military Spouse ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway-day-four/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Four of the Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Kid's Cake Boxes! Website | Facebook | Instagram Perfectly sized cake kits for one-on-one time with your mini baker. Don’t let busy schedules and activities get in the way of making memories. Our cake kits
- [Day 5: Military Spouse ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway-day-five/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Five of the Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Sweet Pineapple Shop! Website | Facebook | Instagram Sweet Pineapple Shop is a veteran and family-owned business specializing in woodcrafts, personalized gifts, military items, bulk realtor/wedding items and laser engraving. We also provide items for
- [Day 3: Military Spouse ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway-day-three/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Three of the Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Body Batter by ME! Website | Facebook | Instagram Body Batter by ME curates affordable natural ingredient skin care products, inspired by our dry skinned kiddo and encouragement from family and friends, that nourishes the
- [Day 2: Military Spouse ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway-day-two/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Two of the Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, BEAUTÉNOTIONS! Website | Facebook | Instagram BEAUTÉNOTIONS® is Redefining Beauté®. We believe every woman is uniquely beautéful, and most beautéful when she is comfortable in her own skin. This beauté should be enhanced and celebrated,
- [Day 1: Military Spouse ❤️ V-Day Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/military-spouse-valentines-day-giveaway-day-one/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day One of the Military Spouse ❤️ 5 Days of Love ❤️ V-Day Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Berry Couture Sprinkle Shop! Website | Facebook | Instagram “My business was launched while our family was stationed in Hawaii in 2014. At that time I strictly sold Chocolate Covered Strawberries. Through all of our
- [Veterans & Military Spouse Designers Go Virtual for Year Two of Fashion Week Show ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-spouse-virtual-fashion-week-show/) - January 28, 2022 (Barksdale AFB, LA) — B. Carroll Events LLC presents GY6, a fashion showcase of veteran and military spouse designers and brands. The show is led by two Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year Program Award recipients, Bree Carroll and Latoya Scott. Together they bring back the virtual runway event that highlights
- [Valentine’s Day: Taking the Focus Off Yourself Really Makes You Happier](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/valentines-day-2022/) - When my husband and I dated as teenagers, he was a master romancer. He courted me with strewn pink rose petals, trails marked off by silver-wrapped chocolate candies, original love songs played on the piano, and sparkling cider under the stars. Of course, some women don’t care for all that, but I lived for it!
- [Score Big With 4 Easy Super Bowl Recipes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/4-easy-super-bowl-recipes/) - Are you feeling overwhelmed by “Easy-Just-20-Steps-and-Three-Hours-of-Effort” Super Bowl recipes? Me too. So here are 4 *really* simple recipes that will be a great play on game day. Are you feeling saucy about your team not making the cut? Make Spicy Buffalo Chicken Dip. For this dip, you’ll need: Two packs of cream cheese 1/2 bottle of
- [Protect Your Tangible Memories Wherever You Move](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-tips-logsa-mil-moves/) - If you have moved with the military at any time, then you know how chaotic and stressful the process could be. After jumping through what feels like flaming hoops of a circus ring for medical clearance, EFMP, finding a new house and school, and then scheduling your move, you often feel on the brink of
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- [You’re Worth It: The Power of Togetherness](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/youre-worth-it/) - By: You’re Worth It Conference Team The Inspire Up “You’re Worth It” conference was more than a self-development weekend for military, veteran and first responder spouses. It was a space to breathe, feel loved and get permission to fill your cup. We’d prayed to have the ability to make a difference, but never expected how
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- [A Marine Veteran and Military Spouse’s Journey to Advocate for Herself and Her Service Dog](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/paws-with-purpose/) - As both a Marine Corps veteran and a military spouse, Jessica Rudd empathizes with the two passionate communities, building bridges of understanding between them. Named the 2017 Armed Forces Insurance Marine Corps Spouse of the Year, Rudd has a new mission: service dog advocacy. Rudd’s recently trained service dog, Chloe, helps her navigate challenges associated
- [From the Air Force to Verizon Incident Command](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/military-and-verizon/) - Sponsored At Verizon, Rebecca Newman-Mahoney and her team know how to protect, defend and run to a crisis. Rebecca found many parallels between the military and Verizon, including teamwork and development. Learn how Rebecca’s experience prepared her for a #cybersecurity career at Verizon here.
- [PCS Across America: Chapter 1](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-across-america-chapter-1/) - A Man, A Plan, An R-Pod Scroll down for all the highlights from our PCS Across American on video! Chapter 2 | Chapter 3 | Chapter 4 Ambition isn’t hard to find in my family. We revel in taking on big projects and pride ourselves on professional success. When we got orders to move from
- [PCS Across America: Chapter 2](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs-across-america-chapter-2/) - Murphy’s Law is a Law for a Reason Scroll down for all the highlights from our PCS Across American on video! Chapter 1 | Chapter 3 | Chapter 4 Over three weeks, I crossed the country with 2 toddlers while towing a small travel trailer. (Read Chapter 1 here!) Along the way, we experienced: 5,000+ Miles 19 states
- [PCS Across America: Chapter 3](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-across-america-chapter-3/) - It’s Not a PCS Without a Trip to the ER Chapter 1 | Chapter 2 | Chapter 4 Roadside assistance is miraculous. And time consuming. After accidentally draining our car battery and needing a jump, we got a late start leaving West Memphis. As a result, we had to stop at a hotel the following
- [PCS Across America: Chapter 4](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs-across-america-chapter-4/) - The Promised Land Chapter 1 | Chapter 2 | Chapter 3 Mount Rushmore is just okay. I said it. If you’re in the area, make the stop. But in my opinion, it’s not worth an extra trip. We realized we were passing close to it so we took a detour on our way to Grand
- [Goodbye 2021, You Won't Be Missed](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/goodbye-2021/) - Coming out of the lock downs of 2020 many had looked to 2021 to bring better times for our country. As 2020 ended with a newly elected President and the promising look of a Covid vaccine to curb rising numbers, it appeared that 2021 would be the year we all needed. But as the year
- [Steps You Can Take to Refresh Your Financial Strategy](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/refresh-your-financial-strategy/) - Sponsored As the year winds down and a new one approaches, many people take the time to think about New Year’s resolutions or ways they could change their habits to meet a personal goal. Often, people select goals that could have a lasting impact on their finances, from improving their credit score to creating and
- [Operation GivingTuesdayMilitary Continues with a Christmas Take Over](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/operation-givingtuesdaymilitary-christmas-take-over/) - The Inspire Up girls are at it again. This time, they brought a Christmas explosion to the Marines of Camp Lejeune. Earlier this year, we all took some time to reflect after the gate bombings in Afghanistan. These Marines stationed at Camp Lejeune were among those impacted by immense loss and grief. Thus, this holiday
- [When You Can't Travel Home for the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/when-you-cant-travel-home-for-the-holidays/) - One harsh truth I have learned about military life is that it isn’t always possible to go home for the holidays. Whether it’s because we can’t afford it, we can’t find care for our pets, my spouse is deployed, or he can’t get leave to go, I have found that it can be difficult to
- [Hawaii Water Crisis on Base: What's In Our Water?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/hawaii-water-crisis-on-base/) - By Dani Valdez Before we went to bed on Saturday, November 27th, we took some time to smell our water. I know that sounds extremely weird but please bear with me. Earlier that night many of our neighbors were complaining of a gas-like smell coming from their sinks, our community’s social media page started going
- [Bullets VS Bands: An Open Letter to Representative Martha McSally](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/bullets-vs-bands-an-open-letter-to-representative-martha-mcsally/) - I appreciate the difficult decisions that our nation’s elected officials are faced with, but the ‘Bullets VS Bands’ approach is still not going to work.
- [The Courage to Say No](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-courage-to-say-no/) - As military spouses, we know time is limited –– maybe more so than our civilian counterparts, because we see how precious it can be. It’s a recognition which can take your breath away if you think about it too long. We only get to live in duty stations, build friendships, or even be with our
- [4 Holidays to Celebrate This Season Besides Christmas](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/4-holidays-to-celebrate-this-season-besides-christmas/) - The holiday season is here, and, for most of us, that means we are preparing for Christmas, and shortly after, a brand new year. While the majority of U.S. citizens celebrate Christmas, there are many who celebrate other holidays, too. The United States is made up of people of many different races, belief systems, and
- [It's Time to Trade In "Mental" Holiday Traditions for Seasonal Peace](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/mental-holiday-traditions/) - It’s that time of year again. That time that is supposed to be filled with love, joy, peace & giving, yet all too often brings about moments of chaos, disappointment, awkward conversations and even for some, an emotional rollercoaster. Without even realizing it we may have a set of mental holiday traditions. We picture in
- [Celebrating the Holidays When You're Geographically (and Emotionally) Far From Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/holidays-far-from-family/) - As a military family, many times we do not have the opportunity to go home when the holidays roll around. It can be hard not seeing our families again regardless of it being physical or emotional distance that separates us, but that doesn’t mean that the holidays still cannot be a special and magical time
- [Just Announced... Walt Disney World Armed Forces Salute Military Discounts for 2022](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/disney-world-armed-forces-salute-military-discounts-2022/) - By Military Bridge Members of the U.S. Military Enjoy Specially Priced Theme Park Tickets & Hotel Rates in 2022 at Walt Disney World At Walt Disney World Resort in Orlando, Florida –Members of the U.S. Military: Enjoy Specially Priced Theme Park Tickets in 2022 Eligible Members* of the U.S. Military are honored with special ticket
- [How to Have the Life Insurance Conversation with Your Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/how-to-have-the-life-insurance-conversation-with-your-spouse/) - Sponsored Your spouse is one of the most important people in your life — someone you love, trust, and rely upon every day. When it comes to life insurance, your spouse plays an even more important role than you may realize. Spouses of servicemembers are often in charge of the “home front” – you may
- [10 Gift Ideas for Your Deployed Servicemember](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/gifts-for-deployed-servicemember-2/) - Not sure what to give your deployed loved one for the holidays this year? Here are ten different ideas to send a Christmas care package they'll be sure to love. 1: Mini Tree Sand may be everywhere, but the visual of pine can be present in the version of a mini tree. Send a string
- [Why Your Kids Don’t Want Toys for Christmas](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/why-your-kids-dont-want-toys-for-christmas/) - Picture that gift that you've really been wanting for Christmas this year. That one thing you’ve been eyeing and hoping to find wrapped on Christmas morning. Now try really hard to be honest with yourself and ask yourself why it is you want it. Maybe it could make your life a bit easier, make you
- [5 Ways to Give Back to Your Military Community During the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/give-to-military-community/) - Holidays can be a time filled with the bustle of food, activities, and planning for the new year. Still, it is an invitation to slow down and look around at what you can give to make your community a better one. Your tree may already be up, but if you haven't found a way to
- [Give the Humble Gift of a Meal This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/give-a-meal-cup-of-tea-fitness/) - It is true what they say, that giving can fill the heart much more than a gift ever can. Year after year my husband and I have given to the remote village he grew up in back in Kenya. Around Christmas time, we would round up all the funds we could to help provide Christmas
- [5 Gift Ideas for the Kids Who Are About to PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/gift-ideas-for-milkids/) - 'Tis the season of planning Christmas AND looking ahead at an upcoming PCS. Knowing you have a move coming up soon always creates a struggle when it comes to gift giving. You want to get your kids something they like, but also something that has some functionality to it as well. With a PCS in
- [How to Get on the Career Path You Deserve](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/military-spouses-career-path/) - By Erica Beal As a Navy SEAL spouse of more than 16 years, maintaining a meaningful career while our family endured nine combat deployments for my husband has proven to be the most challenging aspect of military life for me, personally. Like so many fellow military spouses, I not only wanted to contribute to my
- [Comparing Term and Permanent Life Insurance](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/comparing-term-permanent-life-insurance/) - Deciding whether term or permanent life insurance is a better fit for your family comes down to a combination of factors, namely desired price point, policy duration, the insured’s age, and your family’s circumstances. Both types of policies have unique features that can make them a good fit for your situation. Some situations may make
- [4 Creative Ways to Connect to Your Deployed Spouse During the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/connect-deployment-during-the-holidays/) - Deployment during the holidays is not a new concept for military families. Instead of wallowing in sorrow at the thought of being alone, however, military families have found creative ways to stay connected to their loved ones. Handwritten letters, emails, virtual face-to-face calls, and care packages filled with reminders - and tastes - of home
- [8 Ways to Improvise the Holidays While Living Out of Suitcases](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/holidays-living-out-of-suitcases/) - Being in a Temporary Lodging Facility or TLF can be an adjustment during a regular PCS, but moving during the holidays can add extra stress. You might feel let down because instead of decked-out halls, you are deck-less, sharing a wall with two loud chihuahuas. Here are eight ways you can celebrate while living out
- [Giving Tuesday Military: A New Wave of Kindness is Here](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/giving-tuesday-military/) - Giving Tuesday Military (GTM) is happening on Tuesday, November 30th and it's bigger than ever. New team members are joining in, participation is growing, and a wave of kindness is coming soon! There’s a new girl on the block for the Giving Tuesday Military movement and her name is Brittany Raines. Brittany Raines is the
- [These Companies Want to Hire Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/companies-hiring-military-spouses/) - Sponsored G.I. Jobs presents the very special Military Friendly® Virtual Recruitment Event. This Expo will feature both companies AND schools who are recruiting YOU! Submit your resume or application and get real-time feedback. Research these companies and schools ahead of time so you know exactly what you're applying for at the expo before you show up. Know your stuff and come to impress! Here are
- [3 Lifestyle Changes That Can Make You Wealthy](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/3-lifestyle-changes-that-can-make-you-wealthy/) - We all work hard for our money—40, 50, even 60 hours or more per week. But most people spend very little time understanding how to make that money work for them. There are many reasons why money management is overlooked or even dismissed. “I don’t like to talk about money,” is a common refrain. “It’s
- [2021 Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway/) - Enter to win gifts from 15 amazing milspouse-owned and veteran-owned businesses! The tree is lit and snow fills the air—’tis the season of cookies and giving and care. On you and your milfam good tidings we pour, but that’s not enough—we want to do more! So what do we want this time of year, but
- [How Much is Too Much to Tell Your Spouse During Deployment?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/what-to-tell-your-spouse-during-deployment/) - To tell or not to tell? That is the question. Picture this. The day starts bright and early, which seems to be the normal state of events during long seasons of separation. Your spouse has had boots on the ground somewhere else for short while, but not too long. You begin the day’s preparation full
- [Irreverent Warriors Silkies Hikes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/irreverent-warriors-silkies-hikes/) - What do impossibly short shorts, hiking boots, and veterans have to do with each other? Well, if you are part of the community, you know. That is the preferred dress code for the Irreverent Warriors (IW) Silkies Hikes. These hikes are hard to put into words. Even for someone who makes a living using her words. I signed up
- [Hometown Hustle: How to Handle the "You Just Come See Us" Convos When Traveling Home for the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/traveling-home-for-the-holidays/) - The holiday season is gearing up and the hometown hustle is about to be in full swing. It is time to load up the car, all of the kids (plus all their gear), the family pets, and way too much luggage for the great exodus back home. For military families, holiday travel can sometimes prove
- [How to Love Your Socially Anxious Friend](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/socially-anxious-friend/) - “It is way too ‘people-y’ in here.” A good friend of mine found herself completely overwhelmed by the intensely large group of people who we were hosting in our home. Every Sunday, we open our home to grill or BBQ for our community group at church. Sometimes it is a small and intimate gathering and
- [Day 15: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-fifteen/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Fifteen of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Nomadés! Website | Facebook | Instagram Our charms have made their way around the world, from the desert sands of Central Asia to the sunny Pacific Ocean and all the places between. We have seen
- [Day 14: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-fourteen/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Fourteen of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Brave Crate! Website | Facebook | Instagram For military spouses, counting down to being reunited with their deployed service member can feel like a never ending journey! That's why each month Brave Crate sends a
- [Day 13: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-thirteen/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Thirteen of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Sea La Vie Living! Website | Facebook | Instagram Sea La Vie is a small gift and decor shop inspired by all the places we have lived and traveled. The shop has been primarily online
- [Increasing Educational Opportunities for all Military Caregivers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/increasing-educational-opportunities-for-all-military-caregivers/) - I am a Post-9/11 Military Caregiver and represent the state of Ohio as the 2020 Elizabeth Dole Fellow. I provide care for my husband Robert who served as a Military Police Officer in the Ohio National Guard. He returned home in 2004 from service in Operation Iraqi Freedom. Soon after his return home, I realized
- [Family Fave: Grandma’s Thanksgiving Pumpkin Cake](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/grandmas-thanksgiving-pumpkin-cake-recipe/) - If eating cake is wrong, I don’t want to be right.”- Lorelai Gilmore, Gilmore Girls I can distinctly remember falling in love with cake baking. I couldn’t have been older than 5 or 6 years old. I was visiting my grandmother in her quaint country home in a small town in Louisiana. My grandma, who
- ["You’re Worth It" Conference by Inspire Up Changed Lives](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/youre-worth-it-conference/) - A few days ago, over 100 military and first responder spouses came together in Lenexa, KS for an event which was the first of its kind. The Inspire Up Foundation, founded by Jessica Manfre, Samantha Gomolka, Maria Reed, and Stacy Bilodeau, produced one of this community’s premier events focused upon one thing - a loud
- [Day 12: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-twelve/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Twelve of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Tiny Troops Soccer! Website | Facebook | Instagram Here at Tiny Troops Soccer®, we promise to provide an affordable, close-to-home soccer program led by experienced coaches who are specially trained in age-appropriate techniques. Tiny Troops
- [Day 11: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-eleven/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Eleven of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Spouse-ly! Website | Facebook | Instagram Spouse-ly is the only online marketplace that offers quality products and services from military spouses, veterans and first responder families. Spouse-ly is a community championing and supporting one another
- [Day 10: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-ten/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Ten of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Magical Order of Brave Knights! Website | Facebook | Instagram The Magical Order of Brave Knights was created with the intent to help develop strategies to conquer separation anxiety and nighttime fears and replace it
- [Day 9: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-nine/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Nine of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Kids’ Cake Boxes! Website | Facebook | Instagram Perfectly sized cake kits for one-on-one time with your mini baker. Don’t let busy schedules and activities get in the way of making memories. Our cake kits
- [ACP Partners With BMS to Help Military Spouses Transition to the Corporate Sector](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/acp-partners-support-military-hiring-initiative-help-military-spouses/) - Bristol Myers Squibb (BMS) seeks to hire those who want to change lives and the company is looking at the opportunity to hire former service members and military spouses. The organization wanted to increase its visibility as a veteran-friendly employer, so in 2013, BMS partnered with American Corporate Partners (ACP). ACP is the only nationwide
- [Day 8: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-eight/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Eight of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Charliemadison Originals! Website | Facebook | Instagram We're a community of gals who love wearing meaningful everyday reminders of the things we cherish most! We believe that important moments shouldn’t be overshadowed by hectic days.
- [2021 Veterans Day Meals, Deals, and Perks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/2021-veterans-day-discounts/) - Brought to you by MilitaryBridge FEATURED DISCOUNTS & GIVEAWAYS UNDER ARMOUR: In honor of Veterans Day, UA is offering a 40% Military Discount (on top of most sales) for a limited-time for active duty, veterans, and their families! Perfect for holiday shopping! Learn more on how to grab this fantastic deal here. BURTONS: Burtons Snowboard brand
- [Day 7: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-seven/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Seven of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Modern Rosie! Website | Facebook | Instagram Modern Rosie sells home decor, accessories, and original art featuring the designs of Illustrator and Navy spouse, Becky Litton. We celebrate the strength, creativity, and camaraderie of military
- [Day 6: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-six/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Six of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, BEAUTÉNOTIONS! Website | Facebook | Instagram BEAUTÉNOTIONS® is Redefining Beauté®. We believe every woman is uniquely beautéful, and most beautéful when she is comfortable in her own skin. This beauté should be enhanced and
- [Day 5: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-five/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Five of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Tuli! Website | Facebook | Instagram Tuli is a fair trade jewelry brand that fights poverty by creating sustainable jobs in East Africa. Every piece is made using recycled materials and empowers the artisans
- [Day 4: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-four/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Four of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by veteran-owned business, The Jewelry Republic! Website | Facebook | Instagram Whether you are looking for the perfect gold or silver jewelry item for yourself or someone else or you're designing a custom military signet ring, The
- [Day 3: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-three/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day Three of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, 27 West! Website | Facebook | Instagram The mission at 27 West is twofold. First, we strive to provide quality clothing at affordable prices with excellent customer service. Our second mission is to provide
- [Female Military Members No Longer Have to Choose Between Career and Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/female-military-members-no-longer-have-to-choose-between-career-and-family/) - WINFertility Empowers Female Naval Aviators’ Choice to Pursue Career and Family, in Partnership with Military Family Building Coalition WINFertility (WIN), the nation’s leading fertility benefit management company with the largest portfolio of employer clients, empowers female Naval Aviators’ choice to pursue career and family, in partnership with Military Family Building Coalition (MFBC) under the AVIATRIX
- [New Year, New Mentorship Tips](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/new-year-new-mentorship-tips/) - The end of another year always prompts reflection and the re-evaluation of goals, as people review those they set at the beginning of January and deliberate their next steps. As you begin to think about your dreams and expectations for the new year, it’s worthwhile to place participating in a career mentorship at the top
- [How to Stretch Your Retirement Savings](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-to-stretch-your-retirement-savings/) - Sponsored Getting to retirement is both exhilarating and scary. It is exciting to have free time to spend with your family, traveling, and on your hobbies. However, it can be scary to think about the fact that you are no longer working and earning money, and that the savings you have in retirement accounts and
- [Day 2: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-two/) - Military Spouse brings you Day Two of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by veteran-owned business, Sweet Pineapple Shop! Website | Facebook | Instagram Sweet Pineapple Shop is a veteran and family-owned business specializing in woodcrafts, personalized gifts, military items, bulk realtor/wedding items and laser engraving. We also provide items for
- [Day 1: Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/giveaways/2021-holiday-giveaway-day-one/) - Military Spouse brings you the Day One of the Military Spouse Holly Jolly Holiday Giveaway. Today is sponsored by milspouse-owned business, Westhouse! Website | Facebook | Instagram Westhouse is an online boutique and corporate gifting service helping military-connected people give gifts purposefully to grow meaningful connections and stronger communities. We are committed to providing a
- [Micro Wedding Winners: Meet the Groom](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/micro-wedding-winners-meet-the-groom/) - The countdown has begun. In just a few days, Sarah and Adam will be standing at the end of the aisle saying their vows. Many of you are wondering what dress won last week, the Aspen, South Hampton, or the Brighton? November 10th we will all find out! I know the anticipation is killing you,
- [Meet the Micro Wedding Winners and VOTE for Their Wedding Designs!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/micro-wedding-winners-2021/) - In May of this year we spoke of the trending micro wedding that is surging the nation. For military families, this has been part of our traditions for generations. To continue this celebration, Moving With The Military decided to add a micro wedding to the list of home makeovers they do for military families. Over
- [Can You Conquer a "No Screens November" Challenge?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/no-screens-november-challenge/) - I have challenged myself to a “No Screens November” this year, and instead of going off the grid quietly as I’d originally planned, I decided to share this idea with my community of readers in case anyone else is feeling a similar distaste for the consuming nature of technology in their own life! I thought,
- [Three Steps to Increase Financial Readiness Among Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/increase-financial-readiness-military-families/) - By Mark Steffe, President/CEO of First Command A recent report found that a majority of Americans (56 percent) are living paycheck to paycheck, indicating a clear struggle with financial literacy that the pandemic has amplified. Challenges related to financial literacy, which is defined as having skills and knowledge to make informed decisions about monetary matters,
- [The Great Resignation: Best Thing Ever for Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/covid-military-spouse-employment/) - By Rachelle Chapman If April showers bring May flowers, what do May flowers bring? I hesitate to tell you the punchline of my son’s favorite riddle—fine, it’s “pilgrims.” But consider that April 2021 brought a historic shower of its own: The Great Resignation, or as it’s sometimes known, The Big Quit. In a single month,
- [4 Tips and Tricks to Launch Your Freelance Writing Career](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/launch-your-freelance-writing-career/) - My very first freelanced article was published right here at Military Spouse magazine—a place that holds special real estate inside my writer’s heart. Really, freelance writing was where I discovered my love for the written word and my skill in storytelling began to take shape. I was connected to this publication through another military spouse
- [5 Things You Need to Have in a Home-based Business](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/home-based-business-needs/) - Every business is different, but they all have the same basic needs to thrive. Here are a few simple things to get you started on the road toward owning your own home-based business. 1: Be legit. Too legit to quit. What will be your business name? Make sure that your name isn’t already taken to
- [How to Avoid Being Invisible Even While Working From Home](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/avoid-being-invisible-working-from-home/) - How can you climb the ladder and not become "out of sight, out of mind"? Maintaining a stable career while moving with the military is a dilemma for many spouses. Scoring that portable job can be a huge win. But once you are working from home, how can you ensure you remain visible? After marrying
- [What Does it Really Look Like to Homeschool as a Military Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/homeschooling-in-the-military/) - Recently, perched on the edge of a comfy couch, I sat with some newly acquainted friends. Most of us were new to the area and screening for a new community. We were sharing our goals, interests, and hobbies when I began telling my new friend group about our homeschooling journey. “I could never do that”
- [The Reality of Reintegration in GIFs](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/reintegration-in-gifs/) - I could hear the excitement in my children’s voices. As they tore through my house, running and giggling, and I too began allow my spirits to lift. We had made it to the end of an unimaginably long season and they were celebrating. The 365-day short tour had officially come to a close and we
- [What to Do for Your Mental Health When You Can't Get In-person Help](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/help-for-your-mental-health/) - When your mental health is suffering, you may feel like a live wire. Military families have an extra layer of stress, so if you are finding yourself in between appointments or waiting to get a therapist appointment, especially during a pandemic, here are some tips for tending to your mental health. 1: Channel The Emotions
- [Military Spouses Treated to VIP Experience at New York Fashion Week Presented by InstaSleep Mint Melts. ](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-spouse-vip-experience-new-york-fashion-week/) - New York Fashion Week (NYFW) included some very special and unique guests this year. These VIPs weren’t the usual A-list celebrities of the fashion industry, mega-socialites, or entertainers that typically grace the front rows at the world’s most prestigious fashion shows. Instead, these special guests included successful entrepreneurs, a notable vocal artist, and a runway
- [Taking Care of Your Family Starts with Taking Good Care of Yourself](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/take-care-of-yourself/) - Sponsored The writer Anne Lamott once said, “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.” But sometimes unplugging is easier said than done, especially for military spouses who bear so much responsibility on their shoulders. Unplugging may feel aspirational, like something you might be able to do in another
- [Spooky Moves: PCS Horror Stories](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-horror-stories/) - Most military families are familiar with moving, but some PCS situations are more stressful than others. Movers stealing, flight delays, and insurance evading claims are just a few of the PCS horror stories gathered below. 1: What are the odds of Florida snow? "We were in Florida about to make our big fight to Italy.
- [Spouses Say Military Life & Employment Don’t Go Together](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/spouses-say-military-life-employment-dont-go-together/) - A new survey shows a majority of military spouses believe being married to a service member has hindered their ability to be employed.
- [The Nitty Gritty Details of Starting Your Own Business](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/starting-your-own-business-details/) - By CAPT Scott C. Gibney, US Navy (Ret.), Co-owner Gibney Solutions LLC (College & Career) Are you dreaming of starting your own business? Many people have visions of being their own boss or working for themselves to achieve financial freedom. They sit around the dinner table discussing a great idea, or explain to friends a
- [The 5 Best Military Friendly® Work From Home Occupations for Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-5-best-military-friendly-work-from-home-occupations-for-military-spouses/) - If you’re a military spouse looking for a career that can PCS with you wherever you go, remote work may be exactly what you’re looking for. Now more than ever, industries are looking for individuals with the flexibility and talent to make things happen outside an office. Can you imagine having the career of your
- [Rethinking Flexibility for Today’s Workforce](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rethinking-flexibility-for-todays-workforce/) - Military spouses have long been at the forefront of employment challenges. However, the pandemic laid bare that the need to effectively employ human capital for a global workforce is at a critical junction, now more than ever. Especially for women. Women, particularly those with children, have been disproportionately impacted by the pandemic, with a loss
- [3 Work-from-Home Success Stories from Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/remote-jobs-for-military-spouses/) - These Military Spouse Friendly Employers® offer WFH careers ideal for the military lifestyle. We reached out to the 2021 Military Spouse Friendly Employers® to get their insight into the work-from-home jobs available for military spouses, and here is what a few of them had to say! 1. What work from home jobs does your company
- [Military Spouses of the Year® Weren’t Slowed by COVID](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouses-of-the-year-werent-slowed-by-covid/) - By Rebecca Alwine, 2014 AFI Fort Huachuca SOY It’s been far too long since we’ve gathered as military spouses for the Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year® (AFI MSOY) Town Hall, but we were so excited for that gathering in September this year. We used the time together to heal and move forward
- [Is Having a Family a Right or a Luxury?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/is-having-a-family-a-right-or-a-luxury/) - If the military wanted you to have a family... Is having a family in the military a right or a luxury? This is a question one group seeks to answer in its pursuit of advocating for family building, the idea that a family is not always just made, but it is built, through adoption and
- [10 Mistakes You Don't Want to Make as a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-mistakes-you-dont-want-to-make-as-a-military-spouse/) - Being a military spouse can be a whirlwind of acronyms, deployments, and emotions, and knowing which way is up can be tricky, so here are ten mistakes to avoid as a military spouse. 1: Write in pencil, not pen. Our world is ever-changing and flexibility is the order of the day. Act as if orders
- [5 Ways to Prioritize Mental Health as a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/prioritize-military-spouse-mental-health/) - By Colleen Marchi The cost of freedom and defense of our country lands on the shoulders of the brave men and women who choose to serve our country. As military spouses, our role in helping our service members fulfill the mission often renders in the form of a silent support system to our spouses and
- [5 Best Pets for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/best-pets-for-military-families/) - Military families are not just military members and their loved ones; they also often include a pet. Below are five different pets to help you find the best fit for your family. Cats Cats are amazing for military families because of their flexibility in being low maintenance and can bathe themselves. Cats can easily fly
- [The Hidden Scars of Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-hidden-scars-of-military-spouses/) - Military families are no strangers to mental health issues. The recent events in Afghanistan, coupled with the 20th anniversary of 9/11, further fuel the anxiety, depression, and fear already exacerbated by the military lifestyle. Are we currently doing enough to talk about and address such issues? As a military spouse who struggles with my mental
- [Is One Life Insurance Policy Enough?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/is-one-life-insurance-policy-enough-2/) - Sponsored Military members are automatically enrolled in Servicemembers’ Group Life Insurance (SGLI) when they join the military, for up to $400,000 of coverage. Those with dependents will receive Family SGLI coverage (up to $100,000 for a spouse and $10,000 per child) as well. Many civilian employers offer group life insurance coverage in the amount of one
- [Extra Housing Allowance for 200K Troops: Here Are More Details About Getting the Money](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/extra-housing-allowance-for-200k-troops/) - MilitaryTimes For the approximately 200,000 service members who may be eligible for extra cash in their housing allowance through the end of the year, military officials have provided more details on eligibility and how to apply. Defense officials announced Sept. 24 that the temporary higher rates for Basic Allowance for Housing will take effect Oct. 1 in
- [Why You Should Send Your Husband on Vacation Alone](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/why-you-should-send-your-husband-on-vacation-alone/) - When we moved to Fort Bragg, North Carolina, my husband moved into mythical creature status. Many mornings he sneaks out in the black of the early morning for physical training. Most nights, his chair sits empty at our white farm table. Pilot training, aerial gunnery, field exercises, and work exercises take him away some weekends
- [The Power of Surveys](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-power-of-surveys/) - By Carla Wyrsch Surveys are everywhere. Just when you finish taking one, another pops up. But don’t get burnt out! Surveys are the way that military and congressional leadership make decisions that affect your life. Partners in PROMISE is asking military families who have Exceptional medical or learning needs to take 15 minutes to tell
- [Red Thread Encourages Women to Explore Their Own Womanhood](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/red-thread-military-spouse-book/) - Imagine being a military spouse looking for community in a time of strife, and you wind up finding not only your tribe, but your greatest passion, too! That’s exactly what happened to Aj Smit. When she found Red Tent, a movement dedicated to providing sacred spaces for all women to share, discover, and be their authentic
- [Retired Air Force OSI Agent Reflects on 20 Years of Service and Endless Wars](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/air-force-veteran-reflects-on-endless-wars/) - Retired Air Force MSgt. Adam Boccher was fortunate to walk away from war after 20 years of faithful service. A deployment to Afghanistan would make sure it followed him home. Boccher enlisted into the Air Force in 1999 hoping to serve something bigger than himself. The attacks of 9/11 two years later would ensure it.
- [Suicide Prevention: Don’t Just Talk About It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/suicide-prevention-dont-just-talk-about-it/) - September is national Suicide Prevention Month and now more than ever, participating in or supporting the campaign needs to be more than words. Lives depend on it. As recruits and cadets begin their initiation processes, a suicide prevention module will be part of it. Though some of it may be absorbed, more often than not,
- [Temporary Hike in BAH Imminent - Families Caught in Housing Crunch](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/temporary-hike-in-bah-imminent-families-caught-in-housing-crunch/) - From militarytimes.com Military members and families affected by surging housing costs in 56 areas around the country may soon get relief through a temporary hike in their Basic Allowance for Housing. DoD officials had not officially confirmed the initiative to Military Times by publication time, but the start is imminent, according to a Pentagon source with knowledge
- [What NOT to Say to a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-not-to-say-to-a-military-spouse/) - Being a military spouse means we hear all the things. Our life experiences are very unique - it's like taking all of those random things that our civilian counterparts experience and shoving into a fishbowl that we get dropped in to experience it all at once. Sometimes it's fun, other times we want to pull
- [Fall Décor and Fresh Friendships](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/fall-decor-and-fresh-friendships/) - In hopes of bringing in some seasonal cheer, I spent the last weekend sauntering through my local craft stores and bargain shops. The mission consisted of one thing: buy all of the Fall décor. The holiday season is my absolute favorite time of year. It’s like my own personal super bowl. Right around the middle
- [I Promise She Is a Gift:  A Letter to my Firstborn](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/a-letter-to-my-firstborn/) - To my firstborn, I promise you, she is a gift. I know you were confused when we brought her home; why my belly that you loved resting your head upon was gone, just like that; why we stopped looking at you as much, holding you. We keep telling you you’re a big brother now--and while you
- [What If I Don’t Want To Go Back to ‘Normal’ After the Pandemic?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/back-to-normal-after-the-pandemic/) - Before the pandemic, if I asked you what normal life looked like, what would be the first thing that came to your mind? Would it be going to the store without having to wear a mask? Going to Target and walking aimlessly up and down the aisles, buying things you don’t really need? Going to
- [How Long Will Your Retirement Funds Last?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/how-long-will-your-retirement-funds-last/) - Sponsored Since you began working, even if you were just a high school student at the time, you have likely been saving for retirement – at least in the form of Social Security. As you get older, your options to save may expand. Through military or federal government employment, your spouse gains access to the
- [Is One Life Insurance Policy Enough?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/is-one-life-insurance-policy-enough/) - Sponsored Military members are automatically enrolled in Servicemembers’ Group Life Insurance (SGLI) when they join the military, for up to $400,000 of coverage. Those with dependents will receive Family SGLI coverage (up to $100,000 for a spouse and $10,000 per child) as well. Many civilian employers offer group life insurance coverage in the amount of one
- [Four Life Insurance Mistakes to Avoid](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/life-insurance-mistakes-to-avoid/) - Sponsored Life insurance protects your family from feeling the full financial impact of one’s passing. It is a product that you purchase now to protect your loved ones in the future. And while the process of purchasing life insurance and maintaining coverage is straightforward, there are a few pitfalls to be avoided. 1. Not keeping your beneficiaries
- [9/11: We Remember...Together](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/september11th-we-remember-together/) - As we remember the 20th anniversary of Sept. 11, 2001 and how two decades of war have impacted our military families, we are in awe of how multiple generations have been impacted. Especially in light of the recent, magnanimous decision to withdraw from Afghanistan, we asked our Military Spouse magazine contributors how their families have
- [20 Years After September 11th: Finding Resolve Again](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/20-years-after-september11/) - When terrorists attacked America on 9/11, everything changed. We’d turn the page to a new chapter in our country’s story which caused a ripple effect felt across the world. My memories of the day are so clear. I walked into my journalism class two decades ago as a 16-year-old girl still trying to figure out
- [In-person, You're Worth It Conference from Inspire Up™](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/inspire-up-youre-worth-it-conference/) - Calling all military spouses looking to boost your confidence, build up your emotional well-being tool kit, and broaden your network of connections…there is a conference coming just for you! The Inspire Up team is bringing you the You’re Worth It Conference in Kansas City, KS this fall! Join them November 4-6, 2021 for three days of
- [Homeschooling Headache: Why More Military Families Are Choosing to Homeschool](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/homeschooling-headache-military/) - Public or Private? Homeschooling or not? Military families are constantly faced with the difficult choices surrounding education options all the time. The primary concern for most families is providing a quality, consistent education for their military children. Homeschooling in the military community has rapidly increased - and not just because of COVID-19. But now, a year
- [The Key to Making Your MilKid Feel Loved in the Crazy PCS Shuffle](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/making-milkid-feel-loved-during-pcs/) - Last summer, we moved our eight-year-old daughter into her eighth house—a move she did not want to make. Before relocating to our newest post, the Army stationed us in "Mayberry," the perfect nickname for Fort Leavenworth, Kansas. We lived in a tiny cul-de-sac that somehow housed 18 children among four sets of parents, the elementary
- [All In the Verizon Military Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/all-in-the-verizon-military-family/) - Sponsored Meet the Orecchios who’ve persevered as a military family and moved their careers forward together as part of the V Team. Raising a family in the military has always been a challenge for those who serve our country but the Orecchios have stood by each other every step of the way. From college sweethearts
- [#WFHQueen: Moni Jefferson Inspires Spouses to Be Anything They Want to Be](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/work-from-home-queen-moni-jefferson/) - “Only a life lived in the service of others is worth living.”- Albert Einstein I first met Moni Jefferson at the 2017 Military Influencer Conference, an event founded by Army veteran Curtez Riggs. The room buzzed with the sound of new connections being made and the low hum of conversations. Moni was easy to spot.
- [Deployment Survival - Sleep, Shower, Shave, Repeat](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/deployment-survival-tips/) - There’s nothing in the world like a huge bowl of Blue Bell Homemade Vanilla ice cream after a hellish day in the trenches of deployment or long separations. You guessed it. Ice cream sundaes are my “go to” for a quick pick-me-up when joy feels too far gone. We’ve all heard of self-care and the
- [When You're Feeling the Retirement Anxiety](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-retirement-anxiety/) - Some folks will join the military as a way to pay for college or get some experience. There are some who join as a lifelong dream to someday retire from the service in a high ranking place of honor. Others will decide to take it enlistment by enlistment, promotion board by promotion board or duty
- [Prepare for What’s Next With a Business Degree](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/university-of-wisconsin-business-degree/) - Sponsored Now more than ever it’s critical to have a solid understanding of finance, project management, sales, and other business skills. Being able to apply these skills in innovative ways will always be essential. The University of Wisconsin-Parkside Bachelor of Science in Business Administration degree can help you equip yourself to get the job you
- [MyCAA Offers Tuition Assistance for Career Prep](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/mycaa-tuition-assistance-for-career-prep/) - Sponsored Get the credentials that will help you get the job — with a boost from the Department of Defense. If you’re seeking a way to fund your education or advance your career, take advantage of the My Career Advancement Account Scholarship program. Eligible military spouses can receive up to $4,000 in tuition assistance to
- [Digital Dunkirk: Marine Corps Spouse Shares Unity Amidst Heartbreak](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/digital-dunkirk/) - By Laura Schofield I expected the communal grief. I felt it myself. These past few weeks have been heavy with the weight of what is currently happening in Afghanistan. I knew my circle of Marine Corps spouses would be feeling and processing very similar emotions to mine. What I didn’t expect, though, was how I
- [2021 Military Spouse Holiday Photo Contest!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2021-holiday-photo-contest/) - Share your holiday and winter-themed photos to be featured on the cover! Share your high-quality, professional, holiday-themed photos to be featured on the cover of the 2021 November/December issue of Military Spouse Magazine. We’re looking for thanksgiving joy, holly jolly families, Santa’s little helpers, festive fur babies, or the perfect winter scene you’re just waiting
- [The B Word: 5 Ways to Set Boundaries in Military Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/set-boundaries-in-military-life/) - Sometimes military life can feel like juggling a bunch of different balls that are all on fire. Ultimately, you can hit a wall. But much of this stress (and drama!) can be mitigated by communicating boundaries with your active duty spouse and those you love. It’s essential not only for a military spouse’s well-being, but for sustaining
- [The Beacon of Hope Overcome by Darkness](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/the-beacon-of-hope/) - Hope is the foundation of everything. It keeps us firm in our faith and brings some type of understanding to our journey in life. Military families have thrived off hope for centuries as our service members repeatedly shipped off to war. A hope that they make it home alive and if they did, they were
- [Special Edition: Afghanistan Through a Gold Star's Eyes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/afghanistan-through-a-gold-stars-eyes/) - Corie Weathers offers words to encourage those who are struggling.
- [Wrestling With Afghanistan?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/wrestling-with-afghanistan/) - Corie Weathers offers words to encourage those who are struggling Corie Weathers is the spouse of an Afghanistan veteran. She is a licensed counselor and was the 2015 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouse of the Year. We asked her to share a few words of advice for military families who are struggling with the situation
- [5 Ways That Your Spouse Can Still Be an Involved Parent While They Are Deployed](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/spouse-parenting-during-deployment/) - My husband and I co-parent well, and we have always been present as a team when it comes to our kids. Our two younger children were born when my husband was in a nondeployable position, and had never experienced a deployment before last year. So when my husband deployed at the beginning of 2020, normal
- [Celebrate Military Marriage Day and Help Your Marriage Thrive](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-marriage-day/) - There is World Marriage Day, National Spouses Day, and even Military Spouse Appreciation Day. Still, there has never been a day to recognize the particular relationship that is a military marriage. Bree Carroll, the 2020-2021 Armed Forces Insurance Air Force Spouse of the Year, is looking to highlight those relationships on August 14th, Military Marriage
- [43 Easy Steps to Plan Your Next PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/43-easy-steps-to-plan-your-next-pcs/) - If you’re gearing up for your next PCS, we’ve compiled a list of "easy" steps to follow! Happy PCS! via GIPHY Learn you are PCSingSubmit your wish listResearch possible locationsReceive ordersResearch a new location not on previous listsSet up move on DPSFind HouseSubmit rental application #1Start to clean out the closetTell kids you are moving
- [3 Helpful Hacks for Slaying Sleeplessness During Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/sleeplessness-during-deployment/) - Another sleepless night was in the books. Nearly a year had passed and I still barely slept through the night. Before you ask, there was no newborn baby or boogey man that robbed me from some shut eye. Nope. The culprit was simply the absence of my better half. Being unable to sleep because of
- [5 Books by Military Spouses You Have to Read](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-books-by-military-spouses-you-have-to-read/) - We just celebrated Book Lovers Day, so it only seems fitting to find a few new books to read! Here are six books from 2021 written by military spouses you will want to put on your shelf. Where You Go, I Will Go: Lessons from a Military Spouse by Victoria Terrinoni This book is perfect
- [Your Cup of Tea Fitness: You Are Already Enough](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/cup-of-tea-fitness/) - US Army 1st Lieutenant and professional Track & Field Runner, Sam Chelanga and his Military Spouse, Marybeth Chelanga, have teamed up to create a fitness program accessible to just about anyone who wants to pursue fulfilling fitness. They have created CupofTeaFITNESS.com with the sole aim to bring uplifting and encouragement to everyone that they can.
- [Why I Hired My Military Retiree Husband Before Other Companies Could](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/why-i-hired-my-military-retiree-husband/) - My husband has proudly served in the US Air Force for 20 years and the same day he retired he secured a job as Project Manager at The Military Editor® Agency, a rapidly growing writing and editing agency catering exclusively to military authors and military-related manuscripts. And I am the owner and CEO of the
- [5 Types of Milspouse Friends You Make on a Base](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/types-of-milspose-friends-you-make-on-a-base/) - August 1st is National Friendship Day, and as military spouses, we make so many different friends throughout our time at various bases and places. Here are five types of friends you might make during your duty station! The "You Too?" Friend via GIPHY You lock eyes across the room at the Family Readiness Center's welcome
- [9 Things Your Milspouse Friend with ADHD Wants You to Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouse-friend-with-adhd/) - I’ve always known I was different. Growing up, I was always baffled at how easily my peers did “normal” things, like paying attention in class, remembering names, and - most importantly - making friends. Even as an adult, I was still amazed by how other adults were ‘adulting’. How they remembered everything and how clean
- [One New Spouse Builds Hope for Others in the Midst of Her Own Darkness](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/new-spouse-builds-hope-in-darkness/) - By Rachel Crist In The Beginning I know I know “not another military spouse blog, please!” I was also one of those, until I realized my story could help others. Within my four years of being a military spouse I have gone through: military spouse bullying, my husband going viral, 2 deaths within 6 months,
- [MilHousing Network and the Movie Night In, has Done It Again](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milhousing-network-movie-night-in/) - The Movie Night In is a free event hosted by the MilHousing Network community. It first debuted at the beginning of the pandemic as the brain child of Lindsey Litton and Karina Gafford, Co- Founders of the MilHousing Network. The MilHousing Network connects military families with military real estate experts throughout the United States in
- [Hurry Up and Wait: The Dreaded PCS Build Up](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-build-up/) - Spring is always a fun time as we see many of our friends come down on orders and prepare for their moves. Sometimes we are envious of them as they receive orders to dream locations, while other times we are thankful to be at our current location. Unfortunately, as our friends are moving this cycle,
- [Milkid Mailkit: Bringing Back the Lost Art of Pen Pals](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milkid-mail-kit/) - One military spouse created a way to connect military kids the old fashion way through a mailbox and handwritten letters. The art of letter writing is a dying practice, especially with young Americans. With the ever increasing dependence of instant communication like email, texting, and social media - handwriting letters seem laborious and outdated. But one
- [3 Keys for a Balanced Life as a Working Mom](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/balanced-life-as-a-working-mom/) - Balancing life as a working mom has its difficulties, then you add the military lifestyle into the equation, and it's even harder. So, how do we find the time to be more intentional in all those areas of our life? How do we effectively carry out such tasks and feel accomplished at the end of
- [Here’s What’s Happening to Help Military Families Hit Hard by Housing](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-housing-update-military-families/) - Militarytimes.com Relief may be coming for service members and families struggling to find housing and to get their household goods moved, as they try to get to their next duty station this summer. Some steps have been taken, as some service officials have added flexibility to dates for service members to report to that next duty station. The
- [Advance Directives: Living Wills and Health Care Proxies](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/living-wills-and-health-care-military-families/) - Sponsored The importance of being prepared, no matter the situation, cannot be overstated. Preparedness helps avoid confusion, split-second decision making, and “what if” scenarios. It is especially important to be prepared when it comes to your health and any medical emergencies that may arise. Because you could experience a medical crisis at any age, it’s
- [Wills and Trusts: Best Practices for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/wills-and-trusts-military-families/) - Sponsored To safeguard your family’s financial future and to prevent your estate from getting tied up in the court system, you need to have a plan for what you want to happen to your assets after you pass away. Servicemembers face a heightened level of risk in their everyday lives compared to the general public
- [Shop With Purpose: Macy’s Salutes Those Who Serve](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/shop-with-purpose-macys-salutes-those-who-serve/) - During the month of July, the iconic red star in the Macy’s logo goes blue—figuratively speaking of course. Macy’s has once again chosen Blue Star Families and Bunker Labs as the beneficiaries of Macy’s Salutes Those Who Serve campaign. Since 2018, $2.6 million has been raised for Blue Star Families and Bunker Labs as a
- [Macy's Stores That Give Military Discounts](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/macys-military-discounts/)
- [You Can Pave the Way for the Next Woman](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/you-can-pave-the-way-for-the-next-woman/) - According to The New York Times, U.S. entrepreneurship had increased by 24 percent during the coronavirus crisis, which has been the most significant increase recorded. With this in mind, the entrepreneurship world may feel more competitive than ever, everyone striving for financial gains and social media fame. Now there's nothing wrong with having ambition, but
- [How to Grow a Garden in Base Housing](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-to-grow-a-garden-in-base-housing/) - You might not have the garden of your dreams in base housing, but you can still have a garden! You don't have to wait until you live in a place all your own. Here are five ways you can have a garden while you live in base housing. Kiddie pools aren't just for swimming Have
- [Educational Resources and Discounts for Active Duty Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/educational-resources-and-discounts-for-active-duty-military-spouses/) - As a military spouse, your educational aspirations are an important part of who you are. If you’re an active duty military spouse and are considering going back to school or starting a new degree, license or certification, there are a lot of viable options out there for you. Many institutions offer discounted tuition to active
- [5 Must-watch Military Shows for This Summer](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/must-watch-military-shows/) - All caught up on your favorite shows after being stuck at home and wondering what to watch next? Here are five military shows to watch this summer! Army Wives Army Wives is one of those shows you watch when you want even more melodrama—it even includes a touch of fantasy when the spouses on the
- [Guilt-driven Parenting and the PCS Free-for-All](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/guilt-parenting-during-pcs/) - For most Americans springtime means the time of year when new things pop up out of the ground and life starts again. For military families, orders pop out of the system and new duty stations call. It’s time to pack up our lives and start anew. Some look at this situation and see possibilities. Others
- [10 Ways to Help You Stop Missing Your Deployed Spouse So Much](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/stop-missing-your-deployed-spouse/) - By Marybeth Chelanga with Erin Stewart It’s that time again. With that hard knock on the front door, I was immediately bombarded with all of the emotions. It feels almost like you have stopped in time. Frozen, it is almost impossible to even give a heartfelt goodbye. You feel helpless as you watch your spouse
- [Why the Air Force Needs to Adopt the Family Readiness Group Model For Deployment Support](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/air-force-needs-family-readiness-group/) - Deployments are a hardship that military families endure on a regular basis. If you belong to a military family, whether you are the member, spouse, child, parent, or a sibling, you either have experienced, or will experience a deployment. Chances are that you will not always have the support of your family nearby when they
- [5 Popular Majors for Military Spouses in 2021 (and the Jobs That Go Along With Them)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/popular-majors-for-milspouses-jobs/) - The path to education is always evolving, especially majors for military spouses. With more accredited majors being offered digitally, spouses have more opportunities than ever to pursue their educational goals. Many military spouses are still unsure of which major may be good for them and their on-the-go lifestyle. That’s OK! We’ve compiled a list of
- [The PCS Burnout is Real](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/the-pcs-burnout-is-real/) - Every year thousands of military families will embark on a PCS to a new location. Sometimes it is a fun adventure, sometimes it is to a place where you are already counting down your days to leave before you even arrive. One thing that military families have become great at is knowing how to PCS.
- [Army Offers Helpful PCS Resources as COVID-19 Creates Household Goods Shipment Delays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/pcs-resources-covid19-household-goods-shipment-delays/) - From Army.mil The COVID-19 pandemic has put strains on many aspects of normality around the world, and the large numbers of service members completing a permanent-change-of-station, or PCS, move this summer are seeing delays in household goods shipments due to private-sector shortages in labor, equipment and supplies. To alleviate as much of the uncertainty as
- [New Sesame Workshop Resource Helps Diverse Military Families Talk Openly About Race](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/new-sesame-workshop-resource-diversity-race/) - Created with support from USAA, an original music video, interactive game, printable activities and more will help military and veteran families build racial literacy. Sesame Workshop, the nonprofit educational organization behind Sesame Street, today, with the support of USAA, released a new collection of resources to help military and veteran families tap into the rich
- [Yes Day: The Most Fun Way to Help Your Family Reconnect](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/yes-day-military-family/) - Anyone else in need of some good ol’ family fun? As a military family, we incur a tremendous amount of stress on our relationships. I discovered that I needed to be intentional about combating that tension with fun to maintain a healthy balance in my marriage and parenting. After my husband returned from field training,
- [10 Ways to Welcome New Families on Base After a PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/welcome-new-families-on-base/) - When my husband and I moved into our first home, a 1970's lake cottage near Fort Hood, Texas, two people knocked on our door amid the mayhem of strewn cardboard boxes. Wally and Bunnie Montgomery—angels sent from above who taught us what it looks like to show up, to welcome a new family, and to
- [The Cure: Your Mental Health Needs a Boost After a Long Year of Lockdowns](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/covid-cure-get-outside/) - Let’s face the cold, hard truth; many of us were stagnant during this past year’s barrage of lockdowns! We became accustomed to staying home, following a mundane schedule, binge watching Netflix, and resolving ourselves to this new lifestyle. The news pounded our eyes and brains with the horrendous woes of COVID as the CDC gave
- [What in the PCS is Going On with Moving in 2021…](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-moving-issues-2021/) - Even if you are not PCSing this year, you have either heard from a friend or seen it in a spouses' Facebook group about how difficult this year really is. Coming out of last year which gave us stop movement orders and exception to policies, many had hopes that this year would be better and
- [10 Fun Ways to Make New Friends After Your PCS Move](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/make-new-friends-after-pcs-move/) - PCS Season is in full swing and many of us will soon find ourselves rowing steadily down the stream of finding new friends. We’ve been here before. It’s time for awkward coffee dates, stale friend dinner dates, and round after round of forced interaction. But does it have to be this way? Could we find
- [2 Insanely Simple Summer Recipes for When Your Socializing is Back and You Are Not Ready...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/insanely-simple-summer-recipes/) - Get-togethers can be a time of grand celebration or add to the compounding feelings of loneliness on a deployment. Whether you are celebrating with friends or with your family for the first time in awhile or prepping for some mandatory fun, here are 2 insanely simply summer recipes you can make this summer whether you've
- [5 Brilliant Benefits of MWR to Take Advantage of This Summer](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/benefits-of-mwr/) - One of the best things about being military-related is having access to MWR: Morale Welfare and Recreational resources. If you’ve ever walked into the on-base gym, or the on-base pool, the on-base golf course, bowling alley, or the library (including the awesome digital resources from the library like ancestry.com or access to The Great Courses),
- [Military Spouse Thrives After Her (Free!) Career Mentorship Program](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-career-mentorship-program/) - One of the biggest misconceptions about mentorships is that you have to have a plan or direction going into them. Though this thought has merit, it’s not entirely true. Mentorships can set you on the right track to not only achieving your professional and academic goals, but setting them in the first place. A mentorship
- [5 Motherhood Life Lessons from a Veteran and Mama](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/motherhood-life-lessons-from-a-veteran/) - I was a single 22-year-old mother of three when I enlisted in the Army, longing for stability, security and strength for our little family of four. My kids were six, three, and nine months old when I shipped to basic training—similarly, to motherhood, I had no idea what I was getting into when I joined
- [Charting Our Course: Your Guide Through Troubled Waters](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/charting-our-course/) - Our guide to keep us on course no matter what storm comes our way. By ADM Craig and Martha Faller We want to highlight the benefit of developing a Command Charter to provide service members and their spouses with both a course and a compass throughout life and their military career. We use the charter
- [4 Ways to Handle Stress-Attending a Baby Shower While You're Hurting](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/baby-shower-while-youre-hurting/) - Baby showers are beautiful gatherings for moms-to-be to feel supported by their friends, but they can be emotional events to attend. Maybe you are someone who can't have children or who has decided not to have any. Perhaps you recently lost a child, and the joy that surrounds a baby shower feels suffocating. I struggle
- [3 Military Kids Share Their Thoughts on PCSing to a New School](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/military-kids-pcsing-to-a-new-school/) - When we think of PCSing, we usually think of finding a new home and moving our things from one place to another. Sometimes lost in the mix of everything is our military kids. While we try to make the transitions easy on our children, sometimes the transition between schools can be difficult. When kids are
- [5 Military-Affiliated Non Profits You Need to Know About This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2021-military-affiliated-nonprofits/) - Are you looking for a non profit or other organization to support, volunteer with, or donate to? The military community has no shortage of organizations, but here are the top ones making a name for themselves: 1: The Bautista Project Founded by Army Spouse Marla and her husband, The Bautista Project is the one of
- [8 Most Important Things You Need to Do to Get the Job](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/most-important-things-need-get-job/) - Getting hired in a typical year is hard enough. Finding a job in our world as we navigate our way out of a pandemic brings its own set of challenges in addition. Here are eight tips to make the most of finding a job that works for you right now. 1: Craft a resume with
- [Financial Education for Our Milkids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/financial-education-for-our-milkids/) - By Anna Blanch Rabe What is your earliest memory relating to money? Did you ever visit a bank to make a deposit with your own parents? Or go to the grocery store? Did your parents ever discuss their budget with you? We often learn lessons about money and finances without even being aware. Research shows
- [Why "This Is What You Signed Up For" is Nonsense](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/this-is-what-you-signed-up/) - Most military spouses can remember sharing life-altering news when "You knew what you signed up for!" is said with a mix of oblivious-dismissiveness. Although it might sound like a helpful reminder of your chosen path, it's often not the whole truth. The next time someone says this to you, here is how you can reframe
- [This Spouse's Side Hustle Turned Into an Amazing Career](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spouse-side-hustle-turned-career/) - Don’t automatically dismiss what may seem like a step backward. By Rachelle Chapman Maybe this is the pandemic talking, but the 1980s have been everywhere lately. In between binging Cobra Kai and waiting for Top Gun: Maverick, do you ever think about those “Choose Your Adventure” books? If one mirrored my life, the chapter “Fell
- [Before You Hitch That Trailer: 7 Planning Tips for Your DITY Move](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/dity-move-planning-tips/) - When it comes to military moves, generally you have the option of a full household goods (HHG) move, a do-it-yourself (DITY) move – or a combination thereof, with a partial-DITY. However, staffing shortages with moving companies and short, last-minute orders are pushing more families to reconsider doing a full DITY move, particularly if relocation schedules
- [5 Official Changes Have Been Made to Improve Your PCS Process](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/official-changes-to-pcs-process/) - Every year Transcom will implement new changes to the DoD Personal Property Relocation program. Over the past few years the PCSing process has had more scrutiny as families complained. Those at Transcom took notice and began working to make sure changes made to the program focused on improving the process for the families. Past initiatives
- [Grit, Grace, and Gumption: How A Tribe of Military Spouses Is Changing Education](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/grit-grace-and-gumption-military-spouses-changing-education/) - By Carla Wyrsch For as long as I can remember, I wanted to work in the field of education. I always felt a calling to educate and advocate for children, especially those with disABILITIES. Some of my early memories include playing school for hours, pretending to be my beloved second-grade teacher Ms. Miller, right down
- [Is There a Way for Male and Female Spouses to Be Friends?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/male-and-female-spouse-friends/) - Gone are the days of early morning runs as I watch the sun peek its head above the horizon. I recently retired from the Army, and I thought my time around military installations was a thing of the past…thought! Today, I find myself on another Army post hearing the upbeat tune of reveille in the
- [OCONUS PCS: What Should I Put in Long-term Storage?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-oconus-long-term-storage/) - Each PCS comes with its share of planning and packing, but an OCONUS (Outside the Continental United States) PCS is a bit more complicated. Along with several additional considerations in the packing process, these moves also tend to limit what you are allowed to transport into a foreign country. Here a few things to consider
- [The Sensational Six: Where Are They Now?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/msoy-sensational-six/) - We loved following up with the 2020-2021 Armed Forces Insurance Military Spouses of the Year® to see what their award year looked like during a global pandemic, how the pandemic affected their platform and ability to make a difference in their communities, and what their plans are for the next year. Yvonne Coombes - 2020-2021
- [You Might Be a MilSpouse If...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/you-might-be-a-milspouse-if/) - You might have seen Jeff Foxworthy's "You might be a redneck if..." bit he does. What would that sketch be like if it was about military spouses? I've assembled a few for your enjoyment below. You might be a MilSpouse if... You find little colorful numbered stickers on your furniture years after a move. How
- [Work From Home Jobs for Military Spouses are Booming  (Like These!)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/work-from-home-jobs-for-military-spouses-are-booming-like-these/) - At this point in the year, the world is finally starting to feel normal. Restaurants are booming once more, music venues and concert halls are opening their doors and most children will be back in school at 100% capacity come September. But there is one space of post-pandemic society that seems to be re-evaluating what
- [Inspire Up Foundation, Black Rifle Coffee Co, and More Rally the Community for Wounded Airmen](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/inspire-up-foundation-black-rifle-coffee-co-wounded-airmen/) - From We Are The Mighty Military relief organizations typically focus on their own service members and families. But on June 4, 2021, many of those organizations went all-in for wounded Airmen, instead. In 2019, the Air Force saw unprecedented suicide numbers within their active duty force. It prompted a branch-wide stand down to address the
- [The Perks of Living On-Post](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/perks-of-living-on-post/) - It’s June--the beginning of summer and what is known in the military world as “PCS season.” As my husband and I wrap up our time here at Fort Hood and consider new housing options at our future assignment, we have found ourselves reflecting lately on why it is that we have loved our experience living on-post
- [Creative New Wedding Traditions During a Global Pandemic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/creative-new-wedding-traditions-during-a-global-pandemic/) - This past year was anything but normal. And our engaged friends really had to get creative with their wedding plans. We asked our audience to share their COVID wedding stories. We’ve got it all—the good, the bad, and the…strange. “I got married July 4th, 2020, in Texas when cases started going up again. We went
- [How OUR MILITARY KIDS is Bringing Fun Back to Our Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/our-military-kids/) - Empty dance studios. Darkened classrooms and gyms. Quiet soccer fields. These are unexpected consequences of the pandemic and the extracurricular activities families enjoyed pre-pandemic. But for National Guard and Reserve families with deployed service members, the closure of school would signal the beginning of what would be a long year alone and without the extras
- [4 Sassy Spring Cocktails to Brighten Up Your Week](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/4-sassy-spring-cocktails-to-brighten-up-your-week/) - We are all having a lot more nights-in these days and most of us probably aren’t professional mixologists (but coolest job title ever, right?). However, we still want something fancy to sip on to spice up a Friday night every now and then! I’m sharing four aesthetically pleasing (i.e. Instagram-worthy) and satisfying cocktails with you.
- [What You Are Really Saying as a Military Spouse When You Say “I Do”](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-marriage-vows/) - Wedding vows often say something along the lines of promising to be there for one another. The two who are about to marry look one another in the eyes and agree at that moment to become one and be there for each through thick and thin. It is often difficult for any of us to
- [Types and Features of Annuities](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/types-and-features-of-annuities/) - Sponsored Most people want to live comfortably in retirement. Annuities allow you to achieve that goal through the accumulation of assets on a tax-deferred basis and the receipt of a guaranteed income stream for a set amount of time. With increasing life expectancy and fewer Americans receiving pensions, annuities can act as a hedge against
- [Is an Annuity Right for You?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/is-an-annuity-right-for-you/) - Sponsored An annuity is a contract that allows you to invest a sum of money with a life insurance company in exchange for a guarantee of future fixed income over a set period or even a lifetime. Annuities are typically used to accumulate assets for retirement purposes or generate income during your lifetime or the
- [15 Military Spouse Influencers To Watch in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-influencers-2021/) - These are the military spouses to watch in 2021. They create, share, give, advocate, educate and love—all online and on social media. They interact with thousands of military spouses and families daily. From sharing a journey of recovery to providing a creative space for families, these military spouses and their projects are worth watching closely
- [What I Wish I Knew: An “Older” Spouse’s Encouragement for the First Few Years of Marriage](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/older-spouses-encouragement-for-the-first-few-years-of-marriage/) - Once upon a time, I was a brand, spankin’ new military spouse - young and full of hope. It was in the early 2000s that I would be swept off my feet by a stunningly handsome young man in a blues uniform (that’ll do it every time). My first few years as a milspo were
- [Big Bend National Park: A Texas Duty Station Bucket List Item (and How we did it with a Toddler)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/big-bend-national-park/) - Back in early May, my little family of three (soon to be four) sat packed in a full car headed out to West Texas for the long-awaited adventure my husband and I had hoped to take prior to having children: Big Bend National Park. The stars hadn’t aligned until now, and sometimes as a military family
- [A New Way to Wed: Are Micro Weddings Here to Stay?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/micro-weddings-here-to-stay/) - Written and photographed by Chandee Ulch Let’s face it—2020 duped all of us. The unexpected seemed to be around every corner. Especially for those who were planning their “Big Day.” Couples either had to postpone their weddings or rethink how it was going to get done. Which is why micro weddings began to trend. For
- [6 Ways to Keep Your Military Wedding Under Budget](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-wedding-under-budget/) - We are right around the corner from the summer wedding season. The various tv shows will dazzle us with million-dollar weddings, brides having multiple outfits, and a destination some can only dream of. With everything that families have experienced in the past year, many are looking to have their wedding on a budget. Here are some
- [Gold Star Spouse Finds Refuge](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/gold-star-spouse-finds-refuge/) - In January of 2020, Tarah McLaughlin’s husband, Staff Sgt. Ian P. McLaughlin, was killed when his vehicle struck an IED in Kandahar, Afghanistan. Ian was assigned to the 82nd Airborne Division, so his wife and three children lived at Ft. Bragg, North Carolina. Tarah immediately left for Dover Air Force Base for the dignified transfer
- [What I Wish I Would Have Known When I Married into the Military](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-marriage-what-to-know/) - With wedding bells ringing and rose-colored glasses firmly on, it can feel strange to imagine the road ahead being more winding than you expected. Here are a few things other military spouses and I wished we knew before we married into the military. 1: You'll both change, so grow together intentionally. My grandma told us
- [Super Creative Tips to Find a Rental Home in a Hot Market](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/find-rental-home-in-a-hot-market/) - Chances are, if you’re PCSing anytime soon – you’ve already seen a deluge of headlines regarding the challenges of the current housing market, both in attempting to buy a home and finding a great rental home. But fear not; though the rental and home-buying markets may be fierce, we military spouses are the textbook-example of
- [5 Ways to Work the $$ System During Your PCS](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-budget-save-money/) - Peak season 2021 has officially kicked off! This year up to 350,000 service members and families will embark on a PCS to their next adventure. While some will have known of this PCS for a while and have been able to save and prepare, others will be given surprise orders. Regardless of where you fall
- [Military Parents Will Get 12 Weeks of Leave to Care for New Children](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-parents-paid-leave-new-children/) - From Militarytimes.com All military parents would get 12 weeks of family leave to care for a new child and would see increased flexibility in how they use that time off under a new legislative proposal introduced on Tuesday. The Servicemember Parental Leave Equity Act, backed by bipartisan group 31 House members, would cover both primary and secondary
- [Resilience Is a Skill, Not a Label](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/resilience-is-a-skill-not-a-label/) - I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I don’t like the word resilient. It is often used to label military spouses and children, intended to evoke feelings of pride. While the skill of resilience is lifesaving, the label can undermine even the best of intentions. At its best, the label feels patronizing, at its
- [Military Appreciation Month Discounts, Freebies & Giveaways for 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-appreciation-month-discounts-freebies-giveaways-2021/) - This Military Appreciation Month will continue to be different than years past. Due to limitations on gatherings, this month, we will not be able to enjoy many of the free weekends to amusement parks, tourist attractions, zoos or restaurants. We will not be able to enjoy the large celebrations such as Fleet Week or the
- [Under Armour Launches 40% *Limited Time* Military Discount](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/under-armour-military-discount/) - UNDER ARMOUR: Under Armour Launches 40% Limited-Time Military Discount in Honor of Military Appreciation Month! This offer is available from May 27-June 2, 2021. This is an AMAZING deal. Not only is this 40% military discount available to active duty, guard, reserve, retirees, veterans and their families, it is also stackable on top of sale
- [Ex-military Spouse Tells Congress Her Story of Domestic Abuse, Revealing Cracks in Military’s Response to Incidents](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/ex-military-spouse-tells-congress-her-story-of-domestic-abuse-revealing-cracks-in-militarys-response-to-incidents/) - From Stars and Stripes |BY: SARAH CAMMARATA Amy Logan first experienced physical abuse three years into her marriage to a sergeant major in the Army. Logan was away from friends and family once she moved to a new military base, similar to many military spouses who are isolated and unaware of resources available to them.
- [The Basics of 529 Plans](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/529-plans/) - Sponsored A 529 plan, also called a qualified tuition plan, is a tax-deferred savings and investment account that is designed to help provide funds for qualified educational expenses. The money put into such an account may be used to help fund the postsecondary education of a designated beneficiary. The beneficiary can be anyone the account owner selects;
- [What Happens When You File a Life Insurance Claim](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/file-a-life-insurance-claim/) - Sponsored As the beneficiary of someone’s life insurance policy, you understand that at some point, you may have to file a claim. Navy Mutual understands that it can be difficult to take action while you are mourning the loss of someone that you love and our Claims and Beneficiary Services representatives are here to provide
- [Choosing Beneficiaries](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/choosing-beneficiaries/) - Sponsored An important part of applying for a life insurance policy – and maintaining it once it’s active – is designating who you want to be the beneficiary (or beneficiaries) of your policy. The primary purpose of most life insurance policies is to cover any final expenses after your passing and provide for loved ones
- [Purchasing Your First Life Insurance Policy](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/first-life-insurance-policy/) - Sponsored Life insurance, at its simplest, is a risk management strategy, similar to car insurance or homeowner’s insurance. But while nobody thinks twice about their need to purchase home or car insurance – in most states it is mandatory – when it comes to life insurance, people are a little more hesitant to take the
- [Urban Apologetics: Restoring Black Dignity with the Gospel](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/urban-apologetics/) - I first became aware of Dr. Eric Mason, and his deeply insightful theological work, in 2016. He, along with several other pastors, were part of a racial reconciliation panel that was held during that summer’s Acts 29 Retreat. This Retreat held by the Acts 29 church planting organization occurred hot on the heels of some
- [Blue Star Families, Operation Gratitude, and Starbucks Team Up to Support Mental Health](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/blue-star-families-operation-gratitude-and-starbucks-team-up-to-support-mental-health/) - During this symbolic month of May, and in response to current times, we’re on a mission to do everything possible to give military families and veterans the support, information, tools, and, most importantly, a place to belong as we wade through unchartered territory, together. By: Kathy Roth-Douquetand Kevin Schmiegel We don’t have to tell you
- [Surviving Solitary: Moving OCONUS During a Global Pandemic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/surviving-solitary-moving-oconus-during-a-global-pandemic/) - By: Kori Yates Facing our first OCONUS orders, we were a family of four in one barracks room for two weeks. Arriving in our new country, quarantine was expected, but the schedule and accommodations were a surprise. Scouring Facebook, the go-to platform for military communication, we read all the guides, asked all the questions, and
- [Transitioning Families, Give Yourself Grace](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/transitioning-families-grace/) - Dropping my separation paperwork was a rush of excitement, immediately followed by crashing waves of competing emotion. I hadn’t expected that leaving the military would at times feel exhilarating, only to have fear and panic rush in on the coat-tails of excitement. If you, or your family are facing a transition from military life, take
- [Geeky Milspouses Need Love, Too](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/geeky-milspouses/) - One of my favorite things about military life is meeting new people. I have friends from all over the world, and I have learned so much from them. We all have different personalities, hobbies, and interests. Take me, for example. While I’m not the biggest fan of Target (I know, my basic card was revoked
- [5 Stages of PCS Grief](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-stages-of-pcs-grief/) - We've all heard about the Five Stages of Grief, but what about the Five Stages of PCS Grief? Moving is a part of military life, but that doesn't mean it's always smooth sailing. Here are the five stages you may go through as a military family facing a PCS. Nerves via GIPHY Much like pirates
- [Why I Took a Solo Vacation 30 Days Before My Spouse Deployed](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/solo-vacation-before-my-spouse-deployed/) - By Maralis Self I can imagine much of the population reading this would scoff at the idea that a military spouse would have the gall to leave their departing spouse for five days to take a vacation alone to a tropical location. I also know that there are some military spouses who think, “Gosh, I
- [Dear Spouse, You're More Important Than You Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dear-spouse-youre-more-important-than-you-know/) - Written for Military Spouse Appreciation Month It is often that I hear military spouses expressing various frustrations related to feeling a lack of purpose as they follow their servicemember here and there, continually putting their ambitions and careers second. I use to work as a school teacher, but now I am now a stay-at-home mom. This
- [The Surprising Key to Ending Your Resentment Toward the Military](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/end-resentment-toward-the-military/) - By Ashley Ashcraft When I married my husband at the West Point Cadet Chapel twelve years ago, I had no idea the challenges we would face as a military couple. Neither of us did. No recruiter tells the seventeen-year-old kid how signing up for the Army will affect his or her future family. As a
- [How to Set Goals for Your Next Duty Station](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/duty-station-goals/) - When you are part of the military family, time moves a little differently for you than civilians. You count time by base stations versus year by year, saying, "Oh, 2015 was Hawaii!" and, "That happened during my Texas years." A duty station becomes a marker for time. So let's set some goals for your next
- [The Loneliness of Being Left Behind by Your Friends at Your Duty Station](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/left-behind-at-your-duty-station/) - By: Anonymous Last spring, my husband, son, and I sat happily in a meadow of bluebonnets overlooking Stillhouse Lake, smiling for the camera, trying our best to capture some candid family moments enjoying what we thought to be our last spring in Texas. Over a year later, due to some potential changes in my husband’s
- [It's Not Too Late to Dream for a Better 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dream-for-better-2021/) - Setting and following through on goals is challenging in a regular year. 2020 was a year full of surprises and life-altering events. 2021 has already had some bumps along the way, and it can be tempting to throw our goals aside because the first few months haven't been as perfect as you'd like. Here are
- [Mom (or Dad) is Getting That Master’s Degree](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/mom-or-dad-masters-degree/) - The time had come to celebrate. I ordered an entire case of confetti poppers to shoot off when I finally finished all of my required course work. I survived. I graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Ministry Leadership from Moody Bible Institute. I managed to finish my degree through two PCS relocations and two
- [These 12 Companies Want to Hire You](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/these-12-companies-want-to-hire-you/) - Sponsored Are you struggling through the job hunt? Not sure what your next move is? Can’t find the right career for your unique skillset?We’ve got your six.Come get hired at the next Virtual Career Fair on May 26th. Explore hot jobs, chat with recruiters, and apply for positions. These employers know the value they are getting by bringing
- [Top 10 Perks of Being An Air Force Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-perks-for-the-air-force-spouse/) - The Air Force life is not an easy one. The constant moves, deployments, North Dakota. But there are some key perks that your civilian friends are simply missing out on.
- [Top 10 Perks of Being a Navy Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-branches/navy/top-10-reasons-to-love-being-a-navy-spouse/) - Because even on the bad days of being a Navy spouse, it's good to remember the benefits and those cool things about being married to a sailor!
- [Top 10 Perks of Being A Marine Corps Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-top-10-perks-of-being-a-marine-corps-spouse/) - So if you are having an "Oohrah, I love the Marine Corps" kinda day, tuck this away for one of those "I never wanna hear that stinkin' Marine Corps Hymn as long as I live" kinda days. 'Cause I promise, one might be right around the corner.
- [Top 10 Perks of the National Guard Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-perks-of-the-national-guard-spouse/) - The National Guard could very well be the most mysterious of the services...
- [Top 10 Perks of Being a Coast Guard Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-perks-of-coast-guard-life/) - COAST Guard, get it? We are always near water. Well, there are a few who are not, but the majority of us can drive to a beach from home.
- [Top 10 Perks of Being an Army Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/top-10-perks-of-being-an-army-spouse/) - Deployments, moving, nights in the field, hardship tours - there are lots of reasons to hate the Army. No one promised that Army life would be easy, in fact, everyone said it would be hard.
- [The Military Spouse Group Survey](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-spouse-group-survey/) - Jennifer Barnhill Military Family Reporter and Researcher Chief Operating Officer, Partners in PROMISE Data-informed storytelling is the key to solving the problems faced by military families. Reports are released featuring military spouse unemployment numbers, child care capacity data, and reports of substandard housing. But there is little data collected on how military spouses connect both
- [4 Reasons Healthcare Careers Are Perfect For Military & Civilian Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/healthcare-careers-military-civilian-life/) - By Stephanie Lee, enrollment manager, CareerStep Military life and Civilian life. Sometimes it feels like there’s a massive disconnect between the two. For military families, this sense of division adds to a long list of unique challenges that specifically impact the men and women who sacrifice so much for our country. And these challenges, all
- [Children’s Financial Literacy](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/childrens-financial-literacy/) - Sponsored Your children’s financial literacy starts with you. By teaching them to form good money habits when they are young, you will set them up for success later on. No matter what ages your children are, you can instill lessons about finances and money management that are relevant to them. There are three main lessons
- [A Note from Your Friendly Neighborhood Teacher in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/teaching-in-2021/) - If you recall, last spring the internet was FULL of memes about how teachers should be paid more, how parents were learning to appreciate what teachers actually do all day, and how teachers needed to be on the list as essential workers. By the end of the school year, that appreciation had started to drift
- [Celebrating the Average Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/celebrating-the-average-military-spouse/) - I am asking a favor of everyone: Can we finally celebrate the average spouse? Military spouses are special people. I know that and you know that but we forget the basic premise behind it all. We have said, “I do” to a person who has raised their hand and sworn an oath to defend the
- [Military Spouse Advocacy Network Launches the First Military Spouse Leadership Development Program](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/msan-military-spouse-leadership/) - San Antonio, TX- Military Spouse Advocacy Network (MSAN) announces the launch of the first Military Spouse Leadership Development Program (LDP). The LDP is a global virtual four month training program focused on providing military spouses with an opportunity to learn the fundamentals of Leadership, Service, Advocacy, and Mentorship. This program will serve as a catalyst
- [Mama Bear and the IEP Meeting](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-iep-meeting/) - You want to know what a mama bear protecting her cubs looks like? Just watch a mom entering an IEP meeting and you will see...only a bear might be a little gentler. Seriously, though. Anyone who has navigated the IEP (Individual Educational Plan) process knows that it can not only be stressful, but also emotionally
- [Summoned: Answering a Call to the Impossible - Released on May 4th](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/summoned-book-review/) - My journey into ministry to women began nearly seven years ago. After being inspired by another military spouse to open my home and invite women in to share the Scriptures together, the Lord began to show me how fiercely He is in pursuit of the women in the active-duty military community. With no workbook or
- [Redefining Resiliency Through Real Self-Care](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/redefining-resiliency-through-real-self-care/) - By Barbara Logan Resiliency. We use that word a lot in the military. When we think about resiliency, we often associate resiliency with one’s ability to adapt. However, even though we can adapt to our situations doesn’t always mean we are resilient to what we are facing emotionally or mentally. Redefining resiliency is moving beyond
- [Get Ready for the Homeschool Hustle for the 2021-22 School Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/homeschooling-2021-2022-school-year/) - Hallelujah. The bells have rung and the clock has run out on the 2020-2021 scholastic school year. Good job, moms and dads. You’ve made it. The first (or maybe more) season of the homeschooling hustle is over for you. Before we know it, the time for planning and purchasing will be upon us again. How
- [Dear Military Spouse: You Are Enough](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dear-milspouse-you-are-enough/) - Dear Milspouse: You are enough. Even if you’re a stay-at-home mom/dad whose primary goal is to make sure the kids survive the day. Even if you’re a working mom/dad who is too tired to do anything else, like volunteer with your local spouse’s club or FRG. Even if you’re “only" going to school right now.
- [Dear Parents, You're Good Enough for Your Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/good-enough-parents/) - Every. Single. Time. I hear the, “I’ll be deploying,” my brain automatically unlocks the compartment I’ve preserved for these moments, the, “Okay, here’s what I need to do, prepare, and accept…” but somewhere in a hidden corner of that cognitive chamber is a little neon sign that switches on right before I go to bed
- [ABA Therapy - A Military Mother’s Lifeline](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/aba-therapy-military-mom/) - By Cara-Lee Alford Military children face unique challenges that require further consideration by the Department of Defense (DoD) when deciding the future of the critically needed coverage of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA). As a military spouse of 17 years, and mom of two children on the spectrum it was deeply upsetting to me to learn
- [5 Things I Have Only Done Once as a Military Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-things-i-have-only-done-once-as-a-military-spouse/) - 1. Lived on the Third Floor When my spouse was at BOLC at Fort Benning we rented this AMAZINGLY beautiful 1-bedroom luxury apartment off-base. It was affordable, in a safe neighborhood, had hardwood floors and the newest appliances. The catch? It was three floors up. No elevator. You ever try to take a Sam’s Club
- [5 Books Everyone Should Read](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-books-everyone-should-read/) - We can all agree that reading is important. But in our current times where it seems as if we are living a mew historical event every other month, it can be important to remember the events before us. History doesn’t have to be boring with what we learned in textbooks during high school. Here are
- [5 Things About Spouse Clubs You Never Knew](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spouse-clubs-2/) - Sometimes Spouse Clubs get a bad rap. One unfortunate experience or horror story can ruin the desire to get involved at future bases, but Clubs are more than the stories. Here are five things you might not know about Spouse Clubs. There are no 'picture perfect' requirements. You don't have to wear a 1950's dress
- [Just Like Dad](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/just-like-dad/) - It’s April, my favorite month here in Texas…when the bluebonnets take over highway medians and hilltops, the month we go strawberry picking, the month that’s never too hot or too cold, and the only month of the year my husband has consistently been home with us since we married. April is also the month devoted
- [Purple Up During a Pandemic: Celebrating Military Kids During COVID](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/purple-up-during-a-pandemic/) - April 2021 brings new hope to the end of the global pandemic, but for most schools, this month is still strained with restrictions and safety protocols in the classrooms and at home. Life in the school or office buildings hasn’t returned to normal, so celebrating Purple Up across the country will need to be more
- [Answering the Military-ish Questions in Your Job Interview Without Blowing It](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/answering-the-military-ish-questions-in-your-job-interview/) - Once you’ve gotten past the military elephant in the room, consider these general interview recommendations.
- [5 Things You Must Do Before Attending A Job Fair](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/job-fairs-and-transitioning-events/) - The same goes for job fairs and transitioning veteran events. Avoid going in there blindly and do homework ahead of time so you maximize your time during the event.
- [10 Power Questions You Should Ask During An Interview](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-power-questions-you-should-ask-during-an-interview/) - Nothing you can tell the interviewer will ever equal the impact of what you can ask. YOU CAN TELL PEOPLE ALL DAY LONG HOW QUALIFIED YOU ARE, HOW TALENTED YOU ARE AND WHAT A TREMENDOUS ASSET TO THE COMPANY YOU WOULD BE. But no statement is ever as impactful as a well-timed, well-executed question. If
- [3 Practices For Raising Resilient Military Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/3-practices-for-raising-resilient-military-kids/) - “Military kids are resilient,” a proclamation echoed throughout our community to describe the most vulnerable among us. Resilience is a topic that has long been discussed within the military community and has been applied not only to military kids, but spouses, and service members alike. The ability to “bounce back,” is the common ideology used
- [The Strength of My Military Child with Autism](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-child-with-autism/) - Military children are some of the strongest, most resilient people on this planet. Every April, we pay homage to military children and their strength, bravery, and sacrifice. Many of these children also face another unique circumstance - autism. Not only is April the Month of the Military Child, it is also Autism Awareness month. My
- [5 Celebrities Who Were Also Military Kids](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/famous-military-kids/) - We all know that military children are phenomenal. They adapt to constant changes between moving, new schools, new friends, deployments and endless TDY’s. But did you know that there are many military children who have hit the big leagues and made a name for themselves in Hollywood? Here are some of our favorites: Bruce Willis
- [Thoughts From a Military Kid Left Behind](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-kid-left-behind/) - By Hannah Brown Nearly six months ago, my dad left for a short tour in Korea right after we moved from Georgia to Mississippi - a place we had been stationed before. Three weeks after my father flew away, my best friend, whom I’ve known for over half my life, moved away. Even before that, everyone
- [Spring Cleaning's Effect on Your Mental Health](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spring-cleaning-mental-health/) - It is close to the end of winter, and what does that mean? It signals the moments of new beginnings. The months after summer is packed with holidays, and that tends to have us packing things in every nook and cranny of our homes and garages. By the time spring knocks on our doors, our
- [Why I Won't Take a Solo Vacation Ever Again](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/solo-vacation/) - Call it a girl’s weekend. Or call it a guy’s weekend. You can even call it a mini-vacation. Any way you slice it, I’m not doing one again. I totally agree that as a military spouse, we need some time away. Heck, any stay-at-home parent could use a break. But when it comes to getting
- [Our Savvy Financial Advice for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/financial-advice-for-military-families/) - The thought of finances can make even the most savvy spouse shudder, but making an effort now can pay off big time in the long run. Lauren Silbert, vice president and general manager of The Balance, sat down with Military Spouse to share the best tips for financial success for military families. 1: Invest early.
- [I’m Too Tired to Make New Friends](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/too-tired-to-make-new-friends/) - “There’s not a word yet for old friends who’ve just met.”Jim Henson There is no “tired” like the exhaustion you find yourself in after a fresh PCS, save maybe the extreme sense of emotional upheaval after the arrival of a newborn baby. Nonetheless, it could easily be true that a cross-country move, plus an empty
- [Can We Break the Stoic Silence and Advocate for Our Servicemembers Before Disaster Strikes?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/advocate-for-our-servicemembers-before-disaster-strikes/) - This is about a military spouse's role, voice, or ability to advocate for their sailor. What agency do we have, when we as spouses know something is not normal?
- [Military Housing Tenant Bill of Rights: 3 of 18 Provisions Have Yet to be Implemented.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/military-housing-tenant-bill-of-rights/) - See this and more inside the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! By Anne Blanch Rabe They say that learning how laws are made is like watching sausage being made; we really don't want to see how it's done. However, military families need to understand the political and legislative process to advocate most effectively for
- [Hawaii is the Ideal Destination for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/hawaii-for-military-families/) - See this and more in the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! Dreaming of sand between your toes in paradise? When it’s safe to do so, we will all be in need of a little R&R! From the swaying palm trees to warm ocean breezes, there is nothing quite like a Hawaiian vacation. Hawaii has
- [Gold Star Children Write Book About Losing Their Parent](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/gold-star-children-write-book-about-losing-their-parent/) - See this and more inside the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! “A Hui Hou, Until We Meet Again.” This is the title of a children’s book that three Gold Star siblings, Isabel, 6, Hudson, 4, and Adeline Bugge, 2, penned with the help of their mother, award-winning memoirist Ashley Bugge, to help other children
- [My Firsthand Experience with Suicide and Depression](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-firsthand-experience-with-suicide-and-depression/) - See this and more inside the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! By Aleha Landry Being married to a military member struggling with mental health issues is hard, to say the least. Not knowing what to expect takes a toll and is a heavy burden to carry, especially if that spouse goes it alone. I
- [Take 10: One Activity for Mamas to Do to Avoid Burnout](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-mamas-avoid-burnout/) - See this and more inside the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! By Patience Riley What is today’s date? Is life ever going to return to normal? When is this going to end? If you have found yourself sitting with your head in your hands and your mind consumed with a whirlwind of thoughts like
- [Milspouse, Inventor, Mom: Don’t Let Just One Label Define You](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/milspouse-inventor-mom/) - See this and more in the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine! April Mitchell is a Marine Corps spouse and homeschooling mom of four kids. But she doesn’t let those labels define her. These days, she is also proud to be called an inventor and entrepreneur. This busy mom has a background in education and
- [Divorce and the Survivor Benefit Plan](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/divorce-and-the-survivor-benefit-plan/) - Sponsored Nobody gets married with the intention of getting divorced at a later point, but still, divorce happens. The process of splitting assets and determining alimony and child support payments is not easy, but it’s important that you work with a lawyer or representative to ensure that you and your soon-to-be-ex-spouse reach an agreement that
- [What is Dependency and Indemnity Compensation?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/dependency-and-indemnity-compensation/) - Sponsored Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) is a tax-free monthly benefit paid to the eligible survivors of servicemembers who died in the line of duty or of veterans who died as a result of a service-related injury or illness. DIC rates are protected against inflation with an annual cost-of-living adjustment. How is eligibility determined for
- [When You're Homesick at Your New Base](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/homesick-on-base/) - Moving to a new base can be a grab bag of emotions. You may wonder, "Will I make friends? Will I belong? Where will I work?" Sometimes fear can keep you in your home on a new base, and you start getting homesick for places of your past. Here are my favorite tips for growing
- [Civilian Life is a Dream Just Out of Reach](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/civilian-life-is-a-dream/) - If you take full advantage of every opportunity, this life can consume you with adventure! You could find yourself traveling around the world, getting to experience places most people only dream of! You will meet people from all backgrounds and cultures. Becoming quite worldly as you add traditions discovered along your journey and making up
- [It's Your Turn to Choose! Have You Considered This For Your Forever Home?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/choosing-your-forever-home/) - For some military members and their families, the concept of “forever home” is already a well-established sign post on the horizon. As that final date of separation, or retirement draws near, the exit sign beckons, “Forever Home – Straight Ahead!” But for many, the idea of settling somewhere permanently is a bit nebulous. For the
- [10 Best Deployment Homecoming Signs](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/best-homecoming-signs/) - One of the best parts about a deployment homecoming is making a homecoming signs to go with it! Some folks will get really creative and elaborate while others will be sweet and simple. Here are the 10 best homecoming signs we’ve seen! 1: Welcome Home From Prison Deployment Dad! 2: The Hands That Prayed For
- [The PCS Purge: It's Time to Clean Out](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/pcs-purge/) - Many families are coming down orders for an upcoming PCS this summer. If you have your official orders in hand, make sure you go set up your move on DPS. Once your move is set up, you may be trying to figure out what else you could do to prepare. This is the time that
- [An Asian American Response to the Atlanta Massacre](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/asian-american-atlanta-massacre/) - "We are living through a global pandemic and racial unrest. The level of rest we need to give ourselves right now should be high -- higher even than before. Listen to your body. Take care of yourself. Because the work ahead is long and we must persevere."Michelle Reyes, PhD and Vice President of the Asian
- [Find Out the Top Issues for Military Families in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/blue-star-families-top-issues-for-military-families-in-2021/) - Blue Star Families Unveils 11th Annual Military Lifestyle Survey with “Path to Recovery” Event Featuring Members of Congress, Defense Leaders, and Experts Discussing Top Issues Impacting Military Families Virtual panels to discuss race & diversity; housing issues; female military experience; and children’s mental health following largest survey of its kind with more than 10,000 respondents across
- [Mealtime for the MilSpouse: Simple, Speedy, Hearty, & Delicious Recipes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/mealtime-for-the-milspouse-delicious-recipes/) - Mealtime can be without a doubt a hectic time of the day. All we really want is delicious and healthy food that we can whip up quickly without too much difficulty and fit in our budget. These 5 recipes can provide just that. Each recipe can easily be adapted and altered based on what you
- [Struggles from a Military Spouse Whose Love Language is Quality Time](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/struggles-from-a-military-spouse-whose-love-language-is-quality-time/) - I’ve always had my own theories about the five love languages. I think this is because I’ve never felt consistent with which type of love I speak or receive best; rather, I’ve observed my preferred love language to change with the different people I’ve dated. I always feel my strongest love language to be the one that
- [What This Thirty-Something Spouse Has Learned From Her Twenty-Something Spouse Friends](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/thirty-something-spouse-advice/) - Some days, it’s hard to believe I’ve been a military spouse for over ten years - and a significant other for longer. One minute, I was a brand-new military spouse in her early twenties, excited and optimistic for the adventures that lay ahead with the man I have loved since high school. Now, I’m in
- [These Are the Companies Looking to Hire Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/hire-military-spouses-virtual-career-expo/) - Sponsored The next VIRTUAL CAREER EXPO is on March 24th! Register here. Come connect with Employers, Schools and Franchises. MARCH 24th, 2021, 12-4PM EST The March 24th Virtual Career Expo will feature keynote speaker Gordon Logan, Founder & Chairman of Sport Clips and Air Force Veteran!
- [Army Investigates Claim That Children Were Mistreated at Vilseck Day Care Center](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/children-mistreated-at-vilseck-day-care-center/) - By Karin Zeitvogel | For updates and corrections visit Stars and Stripes Army officials in Bavaria have asked law enforcement to investigate allegations that children at the Child Development Center at Vilseck have been mistreated by staff members. “We take these allegations very seriously and, in accordance with Department of Defense policy, have engaged the
- [From Idea to Retail: Free Live Event with Milspouse Inventor](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/free-zoom-live-event-milspouse-inventor/) - If YOU Don’t Invent It, Somebody Else Will Join our FREE Live Zoom Q&A with Milspouse Inventor, April Mitchell, on March 18th at 7pm EST! April invented the “Right Height,” to make our lives easier while living in military housing (read all about her journey in this issue of Military Spouse Magazine!) Now, she is
- [These Companies Want to Hire Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/these-companies-want-to-hire-military-spouses/) - Virtual Career Expo | MARCH 24, 2021, 12-4PM EST Register now. Space is limited! FIND THE POSITION YOU WANT AT THE VIRTUAL CAREER EXPO This Virtual Career Expo online chat will connect you directly with organizations from the comfort of your home, office, smartphone or tablet. Our online, cloud-based platform makes it easy and fun for you
- [Sex After Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/sex-after-deployment/) - Deployments are stressful before and during, but isn’t reuniting supposed to be glorious? Maybe in movies, but not always in real life. Everything from realigning schedules, jet lag, and experiences while apart can have ripple effects when a couple comes back together in bed. Here are four things to keep in mind as you navigate
- [4 Things to Consider if You Become a Landlord During the Pandemic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/landlord-during-pandemic/) - Being a landlord has never been easy - but the current pandemic restrictions can challenge even the most seasoned of landlords. As the summer PCS season approaches, if you are thinking about converting your home into a rental property, it will be well worth it to mull over the following considerations, to determine if landlording
- [7 Urban Dictionary Phrases That Hilariously Describe Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/7-urban-dictionary-phrases-that-hilariously-describe-deployment/) - What started out as a joke between friends sent me down one of the most hilarious rabbit holes I have traveled through to date. It was late one evening, while on a video call with two of my closest friends, when we began discussing the difficulties of deployment. During this conversation, we started looking up
- [Why You Need Life Insurance Beyond SGLI](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/why-you-need-life-insurance-beyond-sgli/) - Sponsored It’s easy not to think too much about life insurance when your spouse is in the military, since their coverage is automatic. In fact, the military ensures that all servicemembers are covered from day one – with $400,000 of Servicemembers’ Group Life Insurance coverage (SGLI) and up to $100,000 in Traumatic Injury Protection (TSGLI)
- [After Historically Long Deployment, Nimitz is Almost Home](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/nimitz-deployment/) - From Navytimes.com After heading over the horizon last April, just as the COVID-19 pandemic was beginning to upend life across America, the aircraft carrier Nimitz and its strike group are heading home, completing the Navy’s longest deployment since the Vietnam War. The carrier arrived in San Diego Friday to drop off Carrier Air Wing 17, its crew
- [Life Insurance Basic Training](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/life-insurance-basic-training-n-m/) - Learn the basics of life insurance and find out if additional coverage is right for you and your family.
- [The 8 Best (Socially-Distanced) Trips for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/best-socially-distanced-trips-for-military-families/) - My family loves to travel. Heck, if we could, we would be on the road all year long, exploring and taking in all of what the world (or perhaps, just our area) has to offer. But, we relegate ourselves to one trip every few months or so, depending on both our regular family schedule and
- [Try the New TAP Workshops for Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/tap-workshops-for-military-spouses/) - The transition from military life to the civilian workforce can be challenging for the 200,000 women and men who leave US military service each year. Thousands of military spouses also face career transitioning issues during this time. Read more of this in the March/April issue of Military Spouse Magazine. Recognizing this, the Department of Labor’s
- [Milspouse Unity Despite the Nation’s Divide](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouse-unity-despite-the-nations-divide/) - The impact from turbulent riots and divide across the nation has been felt by everyone. But there is a group which seems immune from the divide and anger in this country. Milspouses look to be the only group holding it together. Bonded over deployments and long workdays, milspouses tend to toss their social and racial
- [10 Etsy Milspo Products that are Totally a Mood](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-etsy-milspo-products-that-are-totally-a-mood/) - Nothing eases the tension of military spouse life like a little bit of good humor. We, in solidarity, have a shared sacrifice. We move at the drop of a hat, rebuild lives with a quickness, and weather life’s storms with grace and fortitude. Ok. Let’s be honest, I maneuver long separations and deployments with about
- [Dear Spouse, Your Feelings Matter, Too.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dear-spouse-you-matter/) - To my fellow military spouses, The ones who keep their families stable and grounded while their spouse deploys, often neglecting themselves in the process. The ones who attend every official event, despite only getting a few hours of sleep the night before because the baby was up all night. The ones who juggle, and sometimes
- [Online Harassment of Rachel Lindsay Condemned by 'Bachelor' Franchise Producers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/rachel-lindsay-harassment-bachelor-producers/) - From CNN.com The executive producers of the "Bachelor" franchise have Rachel Lindsay's back. They posted a statement on Twitter supporting the first Black "Bachelorette" after she received harassment online following an interview with the franchise's host, Chris Harrison. "As Executive Producers of the Bachelor Franchise we would like to make it perfectly clear that any harassment directed towards
- [Why a Stay-at-Home Parent Needs Life Insurance](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-stay-at-home-parent/) - Sponsored People don’t often think about the dollar value of their everyday household contributions, especially those who do not hold traditional jobs or act as stay-at-home parents. But, according to a Salary.com study in 2018, the contributions of a stay-at-home parent top $160,000 per year. Given this number, we recommend that stay-at-home parents seriously consider
- [Why You Should Buy Life Insurance When You Are Young](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-buy-life-insurance-young/) - Sponsored Life insurance is rarely a concern to those who are young, healthy, single, and without children, and why would it be? Young, healthy people do not spend their time thinking about death, and those who are single and without kids generally do not think about any burden on those they would leave behind, since
- [What Happens to Email Accounts When Someone Dies](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-email-accounts-after-death/) - Sponsored It’s hard to imagine a world without email. We use it to communicate with our colleagues, set up appointments, and keep in touch with friends and family. Billions of emails are sent every day. But what happens to an email account when someone passes away? Life is not a science fiction movie, and accounts
- [Life Insurance for Children](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/navy-mutual-life-insurance-for-children/) - Sponsored When people think about life insurance, they often think about protecting their families from financial hardships that might accompany their passing, but it’s not just the family breadwinner(s) who should consider insurance coverage. In fact, more and more people are starting to think about juvenile life insurance. According to LIMRA’s 2020 Insurance Barometer Study:
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- [Choosing the Right Life Insurance Policy for Your Needs](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-life-insurance-policy-for-your-needs/) - Sponsored Most people can benefit from the peace of mind that life insurance provides. It is a promise that you make now to protect your loved ones in the future. While it can be tough to think about life’s inevitable end, doing so now will save heartache and ensure your family is supported financially after
- [Budgeting Basics](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-budgeting-basics/) - Sponsored At the beginning of a new year, people have goals and aspirations, often to do with health and wellness. Saving money and budgeting are financial goals that also frequently top the list. You might think that they are one and the same – and they do often go together – but there are some
- [Annuities: The Unsung Heroes of Retirement Planning](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-annuities-retirement-planning/) - Sponsored There are many ways to grow your savings when it comes to retirement planning. A retirement account, like a 401(k) or TSP, allows the owner to contribute a set amount of money from their paycheck to their account each year – and hopefully to take advantage of a company match. An IRA lets the
- [The Anatomy of a Last Will and Testament](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/navy-mutual-last-will-and-testament/) - Sponsored The reading of the will makes a great scene in movies and television shows, with the family gathered around in an office hoping that their long-lost uncle remembered about them and bequeathed them money or diamonds. But as of 2020, fewer than one third of adults say that they have a will prepared. If
- [Hundreds of Helpless Cold-stunned Sea Turtles Rescued by Navy Pilots and Pickup Trucks](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/sea-turtles-rescued-by-navy-pilots/) - From Stars and Stripes | For Updates and corrections visit Stars and Stripes Will Bellamy spotted two injured birds along the Texas coast earlier this week, and the self-described animal lover delivered them to conservationists for care. But the conservationists had a message themselves, he said: watch out for distressed sea turtles. The deadly winter
- [Military Spouse Compassion Fatigue](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-compassion-fatigue/) - When it comes to military spouses giving too much too often, the result is a recipe for compassion fatigue.
- [5 Kitchen Must-Have Devices for Healthy Living](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-kitchen-must-have-devices-for-healthy-living/) - As a certified fitness trainer and nutritionist always looking to create nutritious, delicious, and easy meals, there are a few kitchen must-haves that I lean on. Time and time again, it’s been proven that cooking at home typically results in healthier foods, overall more adaptive wellness habits, and more money saved. Having the right equipment Plus, quarantine life has indicated that being able to whip up meals at home is essential. Check out these items that have been put to the test and are in regular use in our kitchen:
- [The Moment I Fell in Love with His Military Side](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/falling-in-love-with-his-military-side/) - He was Clark Kent, hiding his “S” under his button-down shirt...if the “S” was actually tattoos of dog tags and Iraq. To me, it was simply implied that his Dress Blues were hanging dutifully in a phone booth somewhere...
- [When You're Counting Down the Days Until You Move Again...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/counting-down-the-days-until-pcs-move/) - PCS time... Every few years you pick up your life leaving your friends and all that has become familiar to follow the love of your life to a new duty station.
- [My Military Divorce Taught Me 7 Important Lessons](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-military-divorce-important-lessons/) - Throughout the most stressful six-month period in my life, I learned some important lessons about military divorces.
- [50 Things Dating a Service Member Has Taught Me](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/50-lessons-dating-a-service-member-has-taught-me/) - The question? "What is one thing you have learned from dating a military service member?" What would you add to this list? Lessons that Dating a Service Member Taught Me
- [10 Things NOT to Write in a Deployment Letter to Your Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/10-things-not-to-write-in-a-deployment-letter-to-your-spouse/) - Here are a few things to remember NOT to write about to your spouse in a deployment letter...
- [COVID-19 Motivates States to Loosen Occupational Licensing Requirements](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/covid19-occupational-licensing-requirements/) - By Capt. Scott C. Gibney, US Navy (Ret.), Co-owner Gibney College Solutions LLC The life of a service member and their family frequently involves change-of-station orders that can mean disruptions as they move from state to state or overseas. Every few years, boxes need to be packed, goodbyes said, and a household established in a
- [13 GIFs Showing What It's Like to be a Military Spouse with ADHD](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-with-adhd/) - “You have ADHD? No way. You don’t LOOK like you do!” I can’t count on two hands how many times I’ve heard this. In their defense, they are most likely basing their assumption of what ADHD looks like on what society (and Hollywood) has taught them about the condition. According to the stereotype, ADHD is
- [What Does it Take to be a Good Military Parent?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-does-it-take-to-be-a-good-military-parent/) - What Does it Take to be a Good Military Parent? It's impossible. Here's why.
- [That Remote Assignment Isn’t So Bad](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/remote-assignment-isnt-so-bad/) - When PCS season comes around, its always a fun to see where everyone has orders too. Some friends may be heading off to those dream locations, while others are going towards those big installations with the high op tempo and frequent rotations. Every now and then you friend or even yourself with orders to that
- [5 Ways Military Couples Can Reboot Their Disconnected Relationships](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-ways-military-couples-can-reboot-their-disconnected-relationships/) - If your solo efforts to reconnect are not producing your desired results, get professional guidance from a licensed therapist or clergy. Continue to work on your relationship and surround yourself with positive influences.
- [Love Actually: Imperfectly Perfect Engagement Stories](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/love-actually-imperfectly-perfect-engagement-stories/) - Love really isn't always dignified or newsworthy. It’s those moments we will never forget, no matter the circumstances surrounding them....share your military engagement story.
- [35 Common MilSpouse Mistakes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/35-common-milspouse-mistakes/) - No matter how much many of us knew about the military prior to marriage, sometimes we get things wrong simply because we are not aware of how they are done.
- [I Didn’t “Lose” Myself, I Found a New Me](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-identity/) - Sometimes, the best made plans don’t turn out the way you imagined they would. When I was younger, I had my entire life mapped out. I knew what I wanted to be when I grew up (lawyer!), the ivy-league college I wanted to attend, the city in which I wanted to live, and what I
- [Brave Little Heart: One Air Force Family Navigates the Unthinkable](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/brave-heart/) - Danielle was pregnant with their second child, they learned their unborn son suffered from a rare, serious heart defect called hypoplastic left heart syndrome.
- [Texas Water Shortage Adds to Power Crisis as New Winter Storm Moves In](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/texas-winter-storm/) - From NBCnews.com Scores of Texans were urged to boil tap water before drinking it after days of record low temperatures damaged infrastructure and froze water pipes. As large parts of Texas woke up Thursday to another day of a power crisis amid extreme winter weather, issues with water systems added to the misery for much of the state's
- [Spouses of Deployment: We Are On The Same Voyage](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/spouses-of-deployment-we-are-on-the-same-voyage/) - So to all you spouses out there, crack some champagne on the bow and don’t forget to pour some in your glasses. “All Aboard” the USS Deployment. Spouses of Deployment
- [The Unicorn Tribe: The Vivid Hair Trend](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/unicorn-vivid-hair-trend/) - I remember watching “The Wizard of Oz” for the first time as a child. There was awe and wonder beaming from my face as a I stared at our television screen. Out of all the amazing people and places featured in the film, my absolute favorite is still the horse of a different color. What
- [What Does a Military Kind of Love Look Like?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/what-does-a-military-kind-of-love-look-like/) - However you imaged love to be, chances are your definition has changed since being a military spouse. What does a military kind of love look like?
- [Take Out, Binge Watching, and Other Strange Deployment Habits](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/strange-deployment-habits/) - “Hey, Sweetheart. We need to have the talk.” My husband’s kind, but firm, tone of voice on the other side of the phone let me know that he had seen the bank statement. I knew what was coming. The unending charges to my local Chickfil-A, Panda Express, and Five Guys Burger and Fries had raised
- [What I Saw When I Stopped Looking at My Life Through My Phone](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/life-through-my-phone/) - The Realization A few weeks ago, I sat in the pediatric clinic at Darnall Army Medical Center, waiting to be called back for my son’s two year checkup. My son sat in the chair beside me munching on Pirate’s booty, his favorite snack I often keep in the diaper bag for times such as these.
- [Meet the 2021 Military Spouse Friendly Employers®](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/2021-military-spouse-friendly-employers/) - Sponsored Find the companies that are hiring military spouses where you live. Military Friendly® is pleased to present 95 Military Spouse Friendly Employers®. The list is one in a series published annually by Military Friendly® identifying those employers and schools that do the most for veterans and military families. The companies on the Military Friendly® Military Friendly® is pleased to present 95 Military Spouse Friendly Employers®. The list is one in a series published annually by Military Friendly® identifying those employers and schools that do the most for veterans and military families. The companies on the Military Friendly® list represent a diverse field of industries, including insurance, retail, finance, health care and more. Save this list! Perhaps you will find the company that will be your next employer.
- [5 Ways to Spread the Love This Valentine's Day](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spread-love-valentines-day/) - Are you wondering what you'll do this upcoming weekend for Valentine's Day? Here are five different ways to share love without having to borrow Cupid's bow. Volunteer the Love Part of what makes our military strong are the communities we build around it. Where are you involved? If you don't have a place you volunteer,
- [Becoming Whole Again After Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/becoming-whole-again-after-deployment/) - He left and each day felt like an eternity. I became so tense I couldn’t breathe without hurting. I berated myself for being so weak. Brian was the one at war, and I was here falling apart...
- [UN-Geobaching: Learning to be a Family Under One Roof](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/un-geobaching-learning-to-be-a-family-under-one-roof/) - MilSpouses facing the possibility of geobaching ask me all the time what it’s like, and whether I’d do it again after "UN-geobaching." Honestly, for our family, the choice wasn’t really a choice.
- [For Those Broken Valentine Hearts](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/broken-valentine-hearts/) - Roses are red, Violets are blue, & love is found within YOU! February 14th is known much for its flowers, hearts and chocolate boxes. It is often associated with romance and most importantly love. It is a celebration of that deep and meaningful four-letter word. It could be argued, though, that a majority of people
- [Redeployment: A Perspective from the Homefront](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/redeployment-a-perspective-from-the-homefront/) - Deployment: But now I know how to be both mom and dad, how to cry without a shoulder, and have finally mastered falling asleep effortlessly in an empty bed."
- [Military Melting Pot: Cookbook Shares Stories of American Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-melting-pot-cookbook/) - See this and more inside the Jan/Feb issue of Military Spouse Magazine Our grandmas always said, “The way to the heart is through the stomach.” I don’t know about you, but good food with great friends will fill my heart every time. Driving home from a long day of shopping for the next makeover, Maria Our grandmas always said, “The way to the heart is through the stomach.” I don’t know about you, but good food with great friends will fill my heart every time. Driving home from a long day of shopping for the next makeover, Maria Reed (creator and host of “Moving With The Military”) and I (producer) started talking about all the different military potlucks that forced us to scramble something together last minute.
- [20 Ways To Stay Strong On The Homefront](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/20-ways-to-stay-strong-on-the-homefront-during-a-deployment/) - I stood outside the airport and watched his car pull away; it felt as though the world was spinning around me and I was standing still. How can I stay strong on the homefront?
- [MilHousing Network’s Movie Night: It’s a Wrap!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milhousing-network-movie-night/) - Lindsey Litton and Karina Gafford, Co-Founders of MilHousing Network, are bringing joy and excitement to the milspo masses through their quarterly movie night. At the beginning of the Covid-19 pandemic, we were all in need of a break. With everyone stuck inside, Lindsey and Karina had the idea to get socially distanced together. It was
- [The Orders I Do Not Want](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/bad-pcs-orders/) - Many families across the service will be receiving their next set of PCS orders in the coming weeks. For some it will be expected for their normal PCS cycle, for others it will be a surprise. For some it will be the orders they knew, for others it will be orders to a location they
- [Hiring Our Heroes Identifies Mental Health Link in Military Spouse Unemployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/hiring-our-heroes-mental-health/) - Purpose and mental health wellbeing have long been connected by indisputable evidence and research. The U.S. Chamber of Commerce Foundation’s Hiring Our Heroes (HOH) took it a step further by proving that unemployment in itself significantly and negatively impacts the military spouse. On February 4, 2020 HOH in collaboration with Starbucks and the Institute for
- [Reclaim Your Mental Health With Meaningful Military Spouse Employment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/military-spouse-employment-hiring-our-heroes/) - “I’m sorry, you’re not qualified,” or, “I’m sorry, you’re over-qualified,” seem to be the normal responses milspouses receive when they're trying to find employment Hiring Our Heroes, Starbucks, and Syracuse University teamed up to conduct research on the negative mental health implications on milspouses who are unemployed or underemployed, and shared their results on February
- [What’s The Best Age To Buy Life Insurance – And Why?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/life-insurance-usba/) - Sponsored There are several benefits of buying life insurance at a younger age, starting in your 20s and 30s. But first, why would you even want or need life insurance now? The answer is pretty simple. Buying life insurance when you are young not only offers you the benefit of access to lower premium rates,
- [5 Must-know Interview Tips That Will Get You Hired](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/5-things-to-do-to-prepare-for-a-job-interview/) - Be sure to sign up for the upcoming G.I. Jobs Virtual Career Expo, where you can chat one-on-one with recruiters looking to hire veterans. Registration is free, but seats are limited, so be sure to reserve your spot at the link below today!
- [What a CEO is Looking For: Nailing a Job Interview](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/ceo-nailing-a-job-interview/) - This strategy can help land you a job at the upcoming G.I. Jobs Virtual Career Expo, where you can chat one-on-one with recruiters looking to hire veterans.
- [How to Dress for Success at Work and Job Interviews](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/dress-for-success-at-work-job-interviews/) - Great pieces for professional dress for success, when asking what to wear to an interview, or what to wear to work for be professional.
- [Women and Military Spouses Have Been Instrumental for the USO Over the Last 80 Years](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/uso-celebrates-80-years/) - by Megan O’Keefe,Internal Communications Specialist Women and Military Spouses - Instrumental in the evolution of USO’s mission delivery. From combat zones, natural disasters and pandemics, to baby showers, coffee hours, and concerts, the USO is there for service members, military spouses, and their families. Since 1941, the USO has supported the military community by providing
- [3 Ways to Make an Impact at Your New Duty Station](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/new-duty-station/) - "There's no shortage of opportunities to serve on a military installation. You can be a part of an ever-evolving community of leaders and make an impact where you live." As a military spouse, moving to a new duty station can be the fresh start you need to reignite your creativity and wellness. New people, new
- [Is Cheating More Common in a Military Marriage? And Other Infidelity Answers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/is-cheating-more-common-in-a-military-marriage/) - Who falls into infidelity more in a military marriage- the spouse or the service member? And other military infidelity questions answered.
- [Military Spouse Imposter Syndrome](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-imposter-syndrome/) - "After checking out, she said, 'I gave you the 20% military discount.' I left thinking once again, 'Wait, do I really deserve it?' Yes, I did just say that my husband was retired military, but we met as he was exiting his 24-year career. I did not suffer through the long deployments nor did I move with him 11 times around the country for his service."
- [35 Things We Want Civilians to Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/35-things-we-want-civilians-to-know/) - We have all had experiences with "civilians" who mean well, but in the absence of understanding may do or say something that can be hurtful or leave us scratching our heads in confusion.
- [5 Words To Live By for a Better Year in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-words-for-2021/) - For many, the year of 2020 felt like driving around a small bumper car at a fair. Just when you felt like you were about to muster up some momentum and go somewhere, you would be bashed from the left and the right. When you were finally able to break free from the wreck, you
- [Roadmap to Employment Stability for Military Spouses from NMSN](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/roadmap-to-employment-stability/) - The National Military Spouse Network (NMSN), the premiere organization supporting the professional and personal growth of the nation's military spouses, today released its third annual National Military Spouse Network White Paper presented by USAA. The latest report, "Roadmap to Employment Stability for Military Spouses," includes priority recommendations for addressing financial insecurity in the country's military spouse community,
- [Ponytails and Lipstick: Sweeping Changes to Army Grooming Standards Are Coming](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/ponytails-and-lipstick-army-grooming-standards/) - From Armytimes.com | photo: A female fire support officer with 4th Infantry Division conducts a call-for-fire during an artillery shoot south of Kandahar Airfield, Afghanistan, in August 2014. (Staff Sgt. Whitney Houston/Army) Soldiers of all genders will be allowed to have highlights that blend with uniform colors; women can wear long ponytails during training or
- [5 Tough Conversations To Have BEFORE Deployment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/five-tough-conversations-to-have-before-deployment/) - It's news that you dread. Your spouse is deploying to a war zone. Emotions are running high, lists are made, gear is packed...you are both preparing for the deployment in your own way.
- [Armed Forces Entertainment Launches 70th Anniversary *Virtual* Concert Series](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/afe-virtual-concert-series/) - Past Musicians Return for Virtual Performances San Antonio, Texas, Jan. 22, 2021 (GLOBE NEWSWIRE) -- On September 13, 1951, the Armed Forces Professional Entertainment branch was established as a division of the Department of the United States Army. The Mission? Reaching military personnel and their families at military bases around the world with entertainment. Why? Help them have
- [17 Military Spouse Podcasts You Should Listen to ASAP](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-spouse-podcasts/) - Do you know about the many podcasts created both for and by military spouses?
- [The Coronavirus Didn't End My Career](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-coronavirus-didnt-end-my-career/) - At the end of 2019, like most entrepreneurs, I said that 2020 was going to be “my year.” At the time, I was working as a communications director specializing in small business communications and my “anchor” client was a local real estate brokerage in Jacksonville, Fla.
- [I Was a Teenage MilSpouse...and We Survived!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/teenage-milspouse/) - Getting married young in military culture isn’t all that uncommon, but the odds were against us from the start...
- [I Have Friendship PTSD](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/friendship-ptsd/) - We all have “that one” friendship. You know, the one where it is difficult to mention the other person by name without getting a shiver down your spine. Things went south and there was no hope of recovery.
- [The Complicated Relationship Between Female Service Members and Female Military Spouses](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/female-servicemembers-female-military-spouses/) - When, at a ceremony or event, an emcee asks that all active military, veterans, and spouses stand together to be recognized, there is not a distinction between the groups.
- [8 Things We Wish Our Servicemembers Knew](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/8-things-we-wish-our-servicemembers-knew/) - In military marriages, some subjects are difficult to talk about and some feelings are hard to express. In a realm of honesty, here's what we wish you knew.
- [Let's Not "Crush It" This Year: Celebrate the Small Wins](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/lets-not-crush-it-this-year-celebrate-the-small-wins/) - “New Year, New You, huh?” I thought to myself as I rolled out of my vegetative state on New Year’s Day. Donning my favorite pair of sweatpants, I settled into my well-worn spot on my comfy couch. The leather squeaked and squealed as I shuffled to grab my phone. With a hot cup of coffee
- [5 Things to Remember During a Deployment Fight](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/5-things-to-remember-during-a-deployment-fight/) - We always have the best of intentions before our spouse leaves for a deployment, don’t we? BUT, here are the Things to Remember During a Deployment Fight when it happens...
- [Balancing Career and Motherhood: Can Military Spouses 'Have It All?'](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/balancing-career-and-motherhood-can-military-spouses-have-it-all/) - A look at balancing career, motherhood and life as a milspouse.
- [9 Realistic Resolutions Military Spouses Can Make (And Keep!) in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/9-realistic-resolutions-military-spouses-can-make-and-keep-in-2021/) - Read this and more inside the Jan/Feb issue of Military Spouse Magazine! 2020 has been a whirlwind. As a new year approaches, many of us are hoping for a fresh start, one in which the worldwide pandemic ends and a new era of normalcy begins. But what is it we want to achieve in 2021? But what is it we want to achieve in 2021? Should we make any resolutions, or should we just hope that the world doesn’t end and call it good? If 2020 has taught me anything, it’s that if I do make a resolution, it needs to be realistic, achievable, and less broad than in the past. Here are some resolutions that we milspouses can make and achieve in 2021:
- [5 Unsexy But Serious Problems No One is Fixing for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-unsexy-but-serious-problems-no-one-is-fixing-for-military-families/) - Military leaders - These military family issues aren’t sexy. They aren’t discussed in most places devoted to solving our problems. But these are the things we need a HERO to solve.
- [Finding Balance in the Social-Media-Spiraling Society](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/escape-social-media-spiraling-society/) - When was the last time your mind was so at rest that you found yourself gazing out the window and listening to the soft breeze blowing through the tree line? As hard as it is to believe, that time was much too long ago for many. With smartphones and social media right at the fingertips
- [Military Families and the Mold-filled Battle Within Their Homes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-families-and-the-mold-filled-battle-within-their-homes/) - Who should be the one to determine what living conditions in military housing are acceptable on a moral level?
- [Army Investigating Death of Soldier’s Spouse at Schofield Barracks in Hawaii](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/death-of-spouse-schofield-barracks-hawaii/) - By WYATT OLSON | For updates, visit Stars and Stripes FORT SHAFTER, Hawaii — The spouse of a soldier living in post housing at Schofield Barracks, Hawaii, was discovered dead Wednesday morning by military police, the Army said in a news release. The police were conducting a welfare check that had been requested by a family member,
- [You Got PCS Orders, So Now What Do You Do?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/what-to-do-after-pcs-orders/) - This time of year, we see many service members and their families come down on orders and await their next PCS. If it is your first PCS, or if it has been a while you may be trying to figure out what comes next. Do movers just show up at my home or are there
- [Making Mental Health a Priority During the Pandemic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pandemic-mental-health-priority/) - If you find yourself struggling with your mental health during this pandemic, you’re not alone. A recent study published by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention indicated that 31% of adults have been experiencing depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and thoughts of suicide during the pandemic. As if that wasn’t bad enough, the pandemic has
- [5 Best Industries for Military Spouses to Work In](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/best-industries-for-military-spouse-jobs/) - Let’s take a look at five promising industries that military spouses should consider for employment.
- [Dear New Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dear-new-spouse/) - Dear New Spouse, Welcome to one of the biggest and best families you will ever be a part of. I cannot promise you that you will love every place you live at, or that it will not be without tears, stress, or sacrifice. But what I can promise you is that you will find some
- [Craftsy Quilters: A New Take on an Old Craft](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/craftsy-quilters/) - I was 26 when I first faced the realities of deployment. My husband was stationed remotely near Wright Patterson Air Force base as a recruiter and we had three small children. After he deployed, I found myself extremely lonely and longing for a way to connect. Because we lived about an hour away from a
- [Lessons We Learned from #GivingTuesdayMilitary 2020](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/givingtuesdaymilitary-2020/) - #GivingTuesdayMilitary is out to change the world as we know it - one act of kindness at a time. On Dec 1st 2020, millions of people responded to the call to be kind. Last year’s inaugural event of #GivingTuesdayMilitary challenged the military community to commit to 1 million acts of kindness on Giving Tuesday -
- [21 Things to Start or Stop to Honor Yourself This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/21-things-you-may-want-to-start-or-stop-this-year/) - 2020 has challenged us as military spouses, unlike ever before. Yes, we're used to being separated from extended family, but this year was intense, even for us. We've experienced the loss of some of our most loved family and friends, isolation during childbirth, quarantine after redeployment, and the cancellation of life's most memorable events. Throughout
- [What If I Don't Want a "New Year, New Me?"](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/no-new-year-new-me/) - Already, this year has had us holding our hats and wondering what 2021 has in store. We don't have crystal balls, but we do have our willingness as military spouses to do our best. Our usual tackle-it-all-with-a-smile-gusto works for PCS lists and making friends, but what if you are fresh out of football-offensive-linemen-energy? What if
- [Deployment #2 (or 3 or 4!) Is Hard Too!](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/deployment-2-or-3-or-4-is-hard-too/) - Not only the first deployment is hard. Once you've lived through a deployment and reintegration cycle, it's almost scarier because you know what to expect.
- [5 Ways To Guarantee Fitness Success In 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/fitness-success-2021/) - #post_excerptFitness goals and aspirations are often set in people’s hearts with a high hope mentality that “this will be the year.” Why then does year after year go by with so many unreached aspirations?
- [Making Your Family Finances a Priority in 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/first-command-family-finances/) - Sponsored By First Command President/CEO Mark Steffe Happy New Year! I know many of us have been waiting to say those words for quite some time. With our lives upended in 2020, it’s a relief to see hope on the horizon for an end to the global pandemic. Not only can we start to look
- [Spouse Confessions: My Experience with the Military and Child Abuse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/confessions/spouse-confessions-military-child-abuse/) - "My husband is serving time in one of the military brigs for sexually abusing my daughter. Today I read an article about the military and childhood sexual abuse. I sat in disbelief as I read accusations of the military trying to sweep a problem under the rug. In my experience none of these are true."
- [These Companies Are Looking to Hire Military Spouses on January 13th](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/january-virtual-career-expo-hire-military-spouses/) - It's almost here! We're getting ready for you to join us at the first Virtual Career Expo in 2020 where companies are ready to hire military spouses. Stay safe at home & STILL get hired. Come "walk around" and get "face-to-face" with these schools ready to educate, franchisors ready to sell to, and employers ready
- [Petition Calls for Chick-fil-A to Come to U.S. Military bases](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/petition-chick-fil-a-come-to-us-military-bases/) - Emily Carby, a senior airman at Colorado’s Buckley Air Force Base, is all for eating more chicken. Chick-fil-a
- [Why Dry January is More Important Than Ever This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dry-january/) - Wine at Thanksgiving. Eggnog through the Christmas season. Champagne on New Year’s Eve. And more wine and whiskey through the fall teaching term that I would like to admit. Looking back at the past year I can’t help but cringe a little at the amount of alcohol I purchased. Currently there are 3 bottles of wine I know 2020 was one for the record books, but I didn’t intend to set drinking records along the way! Especially when I had started out with Dry January!
- [How Military Friendships vs. Civilian Friendships Are Very Unique](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/civilian-friends/unique-military-friendship/) - While all friendships are special in their own way, there is something especially unique about those military friendships.
- [How My Dog Helps Me Survive This Crazy Military Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/how-my-dog-helps-me-survive-this-crazy-military-life/) - How could I – someone prone to homesickness – fare for 6 months while my husband was deployed?! Without a doubt one “person” helped me survive – my dog Boozer.
- [2020 in Review: WTF Happened and Where Do We Go From Here?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2020-in-review/) - While many years or even decades can be marked by a single event, 2020 will be marked by so much more. Many came into this year looking forward to the hope and magic this year was to provide. Exceedingly early and very quickly, 2020 showed us that this year would be different, and it would
- [5 Lessons Military AND Civilians Learned in 2020](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/5-lessons-military-and-civilians-learned-in-2020/) - Oh, what a year, my friends! 2020 was not at all the year we expected or the year that we would have hoped for after leaving behind 2019. But, perhaps it was the year that we needed to teach us some of those life lessons that we often try to just brush off as we
- [Costco Sells 7-Pound Buckets of Nutella and People Are Understandably Excited](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/costco-sells-7-pound-buckets-of-nutella/) - But every once in a while, something comes along that fires up diehard Nutella fans everywhere. And this time, it’s seven-pound buckets of Nutella at Costco.
- [11 Valuable Tax Tips and Benefits for Military Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/tax-tips-and-tax-benefits-for-military-families/) - Taxes are overwhelming and complex, but there are numerous tax benefits for military families, so it is important to understand the basics.
- [The Great Church Hunt](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-great-church-hunt/) - We were looking for a church that would be welcoming to a military family, but also one that was dedicated to the things we valued.
- [Shades of Green, a Magical Military Resort Destination](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/shades-of-green-magical-military-resort-discounts/) - Imagine Staying right in the middle of the Disney World Magic at a military resort with great rates!
- [Should I Move Home During Deployment?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/should-i-move-home-during-deployment/) - Deployment is looming, the baby is coming, you miss your family and friends; is moving back home for family support the right decision for you?
- [Deployment Prep: What You Should Really Focus On While You Still Have Your Spouse in Your Arms](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment-prep/) - Every so often my Facebook feed explodes with photos of friends saying see you later, as their spouse embarks on another deployment.
- [Tricare? Get the Care YOU Deserve](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/family/tricare-get-the-care-you-deserve/) - I learned two important lessons from the games we had to play with Tricare to get everything covered and make sure my son had the best care possible.
- [She Loves Out Loud: A Movement for All](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/she-loves-out-loud/) - I will be leading prayer, alongside She Loves Out Loud President, Diane Strack, Priscilla Shirer, Sheila Walsh, Carol Kent, and many other gifted women, to cover our country in prayer.
- [Second Lady Karen Pence: Her Mission Continues for Military Spouse Employment](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/second-lady-karen-pence-military-spouse-employment/) - Catching up with Second Lady Karen Pence on her efforts to advocate for military spouse employment.
- [More Than a Third of Military Families Said They Have No One to Ask for a Favor, Survey Finds](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/military-families-have-no-one-to-ask-for-a-favor/) - The Blue Star Families military life survey found that isolation from family and friends has grown as a key stressor, ranked even higher by military families than deployments.
- [Tears for My Undead Husband](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/tears-for-my-undead-husband/) - "He is my dead man, and he walks in his dying suit. Or rather a uniform that changes print every few years depending on which land threatens to steal him."
- [Parenting for Two: Single Parent During Deployment?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/parenting-for-two-why-i-am-not-a-single-parent-during-deployment/) - Single moms and military wives are some of the only women who can change a flat tire as efficiently as they put on their makeup, fix a clogged sink like a pro in the same amount of time it takes them to make dinner...
- [4 Responses When You're Criticized for Getting Married Young](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/4-responses-when-youre-criticized-for-getting-married-young/) - I’ve had to bite my tongue and listen to unsolicited opinions about my young marriage from a number of strangers, acquaintances, and yes, sometimes friends.
- [My Friend, The High-Ranking Officer Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/my-friend-the-highranking-officer-spouse/) - I am an Enlisted Spouse. I have a dear friend who is an Officer Spouse. A high-ranking Officer Spouse. And she has completely changed my view on how spouses who are married to folks of different ranks should behave and relate to one another.
- [I Can't Wait to Leave the Military and Have Better Healthcare...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-retirement-healthcare/) - When your spouse finally decides to hit the button and retire from the military, there are a mix of emotions that occur. I tell everyone I know that I am leery about a retirement ceremony because I am an emotional woman who cries at the drop of a hat.
- [5 Ways to Find Real Rest in the Flurry of December](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/rest-in-december/) - Creating space to get grounded could be as simple as play, journaling, or having sanctuary days.
- [25 Days of Holiday Memes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/25-days-of-holiday-memes/) - A laugh a day keeps the hectic holiday stress (at least some of it) away; think advent calendar for jokes. Here are the 25 days of holiday memes.
- [Keeping Promises: Moms Unite to Protect the Rights of Military Children in Special Education](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/partners-in-promise-moms-unite-to-protect-the-rights-of-military-children-in-special-education/) - Partners in Promise, is all-volunteer, “protecting the rights of military children in special education through educating and advising the legislative agendas of military service organizations, DoD, and public officials."
- [Now Hear This! Military Kid Writes Book About Her Hearing Loss Journey](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/now-hear-this-military-kids-book-about-her-hearing-loss-journey-inspires-others/) - The book continues to reach kids across the globe, encouraging them to not let their hearing loss stop them from reaching for the stars.
- [An Honest Military Spouse Christmas Poem for You](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/an-honest-military-spouse-christmas-poem-for-you/) - An Honest Military Spouse Christmas Poem for You from Military Spouse!
- [A Much Needed Mental Reset Before the Ball Drops for 2021](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/mental-reset-before-2021/) - How do we reset and go into the next year with a fresh outlook and a little bit of hope?
- [10 Little Things That Can Make a Big Impression With Employers](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/make-a-big-impression-with-employers/) - COMPETITION IS FIERCE AND SOMETIMES IT’S THE LITTLE THINGS WHICH WILL “MAKE OR BREAK” A MERE APPLICANT AND TURN THEM INTO A VIABLE CANDIDATE FOR A JOB.
- [Building Your Network: Making the Right Connections](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/building-network-making-connections/) - You can get the ball rolling at the upcoming G.I. Jobs Virtual Career Expo, where you can chat one-on-one with recruiters looking to hire veterans. Registration is free, but seats are limited, so be sure to reserve your spot at the link below today!
- [Pandemic Won’t Stop Americans from Adorning Veterans’ Graves for the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/wreaths-across-america-during-pandemic/) - Wreaths Across America: It provides a connection to Gold Star families as wreath layers say the veteran’s name and the place where they came from.
- [The Lost Military Kids: Educated in Isolation](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/educated-in-isolation-covid/) - Military kids and their parents share their school experiences during the pandemic.
- [Christmas Through the Eyes of a Military Child](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/christmas-through-the-eyes-of-a-military-child/) - I talked with many military children and their answers, for the most part, were just as predictable as any other child’s would be when discussing the holidays.
- [The Story Behind My Grandma’s Amazing Christmas Cookie Recipes](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/the-story-behind-my-grandmas-amazing-christmas-cookie-recipes/) - When I think about the holiday season, vivid memories of my grandmother in her kitchen come to mind.
- [5 Things Anyone Working on Base Will Know](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/5-things-anyone-working-on-base-will-know/) - Working on base has given me the chance to feel like a part of this base community in so many ways.
- [The Writer’s Secret Weapon](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/writers-secret-weapon/) - If you asked where my writing journey began, I would tell you it was inside of an old military hotel room, sitting at this coffee table with Kim.
- [Wake Up, Kick Ass, Repeat.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/wake-up-kiss-ass-repeat/) - 8-week study gives spouses tools for better social and emotional health.
- [Senators Call for Ft. Hood Investigation After Disappearance and Death of Soldier on Base](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/ft-hood-investigation/) - Senators called for an independent investigation into Ft. Hood after the disappearance and death of Brockton native Elder Fernandes, who died near the base in August
- [Christmas Eve in Bahrain](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/christmas-eve-in-bahrain/) - Photo Credit: Flickr user Brett Woodvine When you’re deployed for the holidays it doesn’t exactly make you feel festive. Despite the Christmas tree we drew on our office door and the lights strung around the water pipes, it wasn’t exactly homey. As soon as I found out we would be in port for Christmas week
- [5 Ethical Issues in the Fashion Industry](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/fashion/5-ethical-issues-in-the-fashion-industry/) - Businesses are increasingly recognizing the significance of corporate social duty and are making the necessary modifications to meet consumer’s satisfaction.
- [I'm Not JUST A Military Spouse...](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/im-not-just-a-military-spouse/) - Dependapotamus – According to Urban Dictionary: Traditionally a service-member’s dependent who is a "stay at home mom" that doesn't do a damn thing all day besides sitting on the couch looking remarkably similar to Jabba the Hut leaching off of military benefits and eating anything that gets too close.
- [How 2020 Showed The World What It’s Like To Be A Military Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2020-civilian-military-families/) - For decades, military spouses have struggled to explain the lifestyle to civilian friends and family.
- [Parents' Real Life Elf on the Shelf is Equal Parts Hilarious and Horrifying](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/parents-real-life-elf-on-the-shelf-is-equal-parts-hilarious-and-horrifying/) - After 11 days of shelf-ing alone, Megan decided to grab herself a lady elf costume to join in on the fun. And we’re glad she did, because all of it is incredible.
- [From Appetizers to Desserts, Add Flair to Your Holiday Table This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/holiday-appetizers-and-desserts/) - The holiday season and food go together. Hanukkah, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve are wonderful times to give thanks and celebrate with your family and friends.
- [6 Songs That Describe PCSing During the Holidays](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/6-songs-that-describe-pcsing-during-the-holidays/) - While most military families PCS move season is summer many families, have experienced a military move or two during the winter months or during the traditional Christmas season.
- [5 Key Takeaways from the 2020 Virtual Military Family Caucus Summit](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/2020-virtual-military-family-caucus-summit/) - On Oct. 9, military spouses and military family nonprofits proactively presented solutions to the problems faced within their own communities at the 2020 Virtual Military Family Caucus Summit.
- [The Story of Two to *Hopefully* Three](https://www.militaryspouse.com/relationships/family/the-story-of-two-to-hopefully-three/) - We are High School sweethearts who have tried for a family but to no avail. We know the military doesn’t cover anything for IVF, but you can get a referral for most of the testing.
- [4 Mistakes the PERFECT PCS'er Made on Her Latest Move](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/pcs/4-mistakes-the-perfect-pcser-made-on-her-latest-move/) - I want to share with you what I did wrong on my PCS. These things I didn't pack? Maybe you should.
- [I Have Finished an Idea for a Book. What Do I Do Next?](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/book-proposal-help/) - What is a book proposal? What is the first step when you are writing a book?
- [How 2020 Taught Me Not To Take Those I Love for Granted](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/taking-loved-ones-for-granted/) - "I barely ever accepted an invite to go out because, to me, it was never the “right time.” I always chalked it up to me being “bad at keeping in touch,” but the cold hard truth was, I was lazy."
- [2020 Holiday Photo Contest Giveaway](https://www.militaryspouse.com/discounts/holiday-photo-contest-giveaway/) - Win a $100 Amazon Gift Card! Plus, here are some of our favorite picks from our photo contest. Thank you to everyone for your submissions.
- [An Honest Reflection on 2020](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/an-honest-reflection-on-2020/) - As we all get ready to say good-bye to the chaos that was 2020, I can’t help but sit back and reflect on everything that happened this year. What a rollercoaster it has been!
- [6 Holiday Shopping Lessons from the Pandemic](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/6-holiday-shopping-lessons-from-the-pandemic/) - See this and more inside the December issue of Military Spouse Magazine: Without further ado, my 2020 tips to manage the holidays in a financially prudent way:
- [Holly Jolly Game Plan: Holiday Shopping With COVID-19](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/holly-jolly-game-plan-holiday-shopping-with-covid-19/) - Here’s how milspouses are mapping out their holiday game plan.
- [We Need More Military Spouse Authors](https://www.militaryspouse.com/education/we-need-more-military-spouse-authors/) - Military Spouses need to see ourselves in the culture AND in today’s literature."
- [How to Keep Your Business Afloat While Swimming in a COVID World](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/keep-your-business-running-during-covid/) - Since that time, I have created a sustainable online income that will travel with me wherever we go. Here are three lessons I learned this year to help you pivot as well.
- [What It's Like to be Deployed for Christmas](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/deployment/what-its-like-to-be-deployed-for-christmas/) - It wasn’t until I enlisted myself that I really started to think about what it’s like for those service members that are deployed, serving all over the world, during the holiday season.
- [5 Ways to Stay Positive While You're Alone This Christmas](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/5-ways-to-stay-positive-while-youre-alone-this-christmas/) - Deployments always have their hard moments, but they can feel especially challenging during the holiday season.
- [PCSgrades #MilFamsGiveBack Campaign Will Aid Military Families and Charities](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/pcsgrades-milfamsgiveback/) - PCSgrades announces the #MilFamsGiveBack campaign, which will donate $5 to a military-friendly or veteran-led charity for every neighborhood review left on their site from November 18 until December 8.
- [Hanukkah, Oh Hanukkah How Lovely Are Your Traditions](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/hanukkah-oh-hanukkah-how-lovely-are-your-traditions/) - If you are planning on having company for Hanukkah dinner it may be difficult to time the cooking of latkes in order to enjoy them piping hot and fresh.
- [This Spouse Turned Airbnb Into an Income for her Military Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/airbnb-income/) - Meet Kaitlyn. She is an Air Force Spouse and Airbnb guru. I had the pleasure of interviewing her after staying at her beautiful short-term rental for some rest and relaxation. Listing.
- [Starbucks Helping Veterans Make a Smooth Transition to Civilian Life](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/starbucks-helping-veterans-make-a-smooth-transition-to-civilian-life/) - If you’re a veteran, you’ll find a lot more. How is Starbucks helping veterans? These days, the iconic coffee company with the familiar green logo is focused on helping America’s military make a smooth transition to civilian life, and that starts with careers.
- [Spouse Confessions: Betrayed Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/betrayed-spouse-confessions/) - I wanted to share it with the military spouse community because my situation has made me realize that all of us need a back-up plan.
- ["Don't Park There," and Other Insights from a Seasoned Spouse](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/dont-park-there/) - When my new husband and I arrived at our first duty station, I made some really dumb mistakes.
- [Why I'm Thankful for a Non-traditional Thanksgiving](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/nontraditional-thanksgiving/) - I think that maybe the Thanksgiving meal means a lot less than the people you are sharing it with.
- [#GivingTuesdayMilitary Aims to Make Kindness Go Viral…Again.](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/givingtuesdaymilitary-kindesscampaign-2020/) - When GivingTuesday ran their social impact report, they found that #givingtuesdaymilitary reached 2.5 million. Now more than ever, we need kindness.
- [12 Perfect Gifts for Your Deployed Service Member](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/gifts-for-deployed-servicemember/) - The best gifts to include in the ultimate holiday care package when you're asking, "What gift to get for my deployed spouse..."
- [The Unexpected Blessings of a Pandemic on our Military Family](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/unexpected-blessings-covid19/) - The COVID-19 pandemic has certainly been a blessing to our marriage and our military family for many reasons.
- [Talented Military Child Finds Purpose and Resiliency Through Cooking](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/talented-military-child-finds-purpose-and-resiliency-through-cooking-2/) - The secret ingredient is love. “Dinner’s ready!” she proudly proclaims, making sure to serve a big portion to her mother, whose appetite has been reduced by heavy medication. The genuine smile on Maria Francesca’s face conveys all the love she poured into this dinner in the hope that the flavorful meal would invite her mother to eat. And judging by Sofia’s empty plate and a hand on her tummy full from the rich meal, Maria has more than succeeded.
- [5 Ridiculous Myths Dispelled by a Military Spouse AND Entreprenuer](https://www.militaryspouse.com/career/5-ridiculous-myths-dispelled-by-a-military-spouse-and-entreprenuer/) - I was already an entrepreneur when I married my husband and assumed I would continue building my businesses as we moved from beautiful duty station to beautiful duty station.
- [How You Can Easily Take Your Own Holiday Family Photos](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/how-you-can-easily-take-your-own-holiday-family-photos/) - A guide to taking your own holiday photos and designing your own holiday cards from Morgan Slade Photography.
- [What Military Spouses Are Thankful for This Year](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/what-military-spouses-are-thankful-for-this-year/) - 2020 will certainly go down as a year unlike any other. Once again, military spouses displayed their resilience and gratitude nonetheless.
- [The One Where They Miss Thanksgiving…Again: A Military Holiday Special](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/spending-thanksgiving-alone/) - As spouses, we have all experienced holidays, anniversaries, birthdays, and milestones without our military partner.
- [7 Affordable Holiday Gifts to Pamper the Milspouse in Your Life (or Treat Yo' Self!)](https://www.militaryspouse.com/military-life/milspouse-affordable-holiday-gifts/) - While you're probably used to making sure everyone else is okay, it is so essential that you engage in self-care. You can be pampered and spoiled with these gifts, all under $50.
- [Introducing Guaranteed Issue Life Insurance for Separating Servicemembers and Their Families](https://www.militaryspouse.com/sponsored/guaranteed-issue-life-insurance-for-separating-servicemembers-and-families/) - Sponsored Navy Mutual is honored to serve those who serve our country. As a show of thanks, we are offering a permanent life insurance alternative to SGLI to recently separated servicemembers and their families without requiring a medical exam or underwriting. Life insurance coverage under SGLI does not continue after your spouse leaves the military,
- [Gen. Milley’s Wife Saved a Man’s Life at the Veterans Day Wreath-laying Ceremony at Arlington](https://www.militaryspouse.com/news/general-milleys-wife-saves-life/) - The wife of the nation’s highest-ranking military officer saved the life of man during a Veterans Day event at the Arlington National Cemetery on Wednesday.
- [I Survived Thanksgiving Overseas](https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/holidays/how-to-celebrate-thanksgiving-overseas/) - I'll leave the cooking to those with bigger ovens. However, I know I can't be the only military spouse who is faced with celebrating American traditions that don't quite fit into foreign countries.
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