AJ Smit

Aj Smit is a writer, professional mermaid, and weaver of joy. She leads Red Tents, retreats, and one on one coaching, as well as henna adornment services to help you live an embodied life of joy. You can find her at @TheJoyWeaver on FB and IG or at TheJoyWeaver.com

5 Military Books That Make Great Christmas Gifts

Are you looking for a book to give as a Christmas gift this year?  If so, consider buying a book… Read More

The Scary Announcements: Deployments, PCS’s, and TDY’s

If you ask most spouses, they can recall their first "scary announcement moment." Whether it was for a Short Tour… Read More

Breaking up the Mid-station Doldrums

There comes a point at every base where the "new place excitement" starts to wear off. You might not realize… Read More

Design Your Own Milspouse DIY School Year

It's time for the Year of You! As the kids return to classrooms, you may be wondering what the school… Read More

5 Ways to Settle in after a PCS

PCS season is a blur of paperwork, passports, government travel cards, tears, frustration, excitement, and nerves. By the time you… Read More

Changing Traditions: How to Manage Expectations Before the Holiday Season is in Full Force

Military life leads you to places you've never been, and you often change on the journey. One of the things… Read More

10 Fun Ideas to Stay Connected to Military Loved Ones Through Letters

Do you want to send handwritten letters to your military loved one? Maybe they are deployed or stationed far away,… Read More

Blissful Summer Hygge: Cozy, Content, and Comfortable

As September approaches, the desire for Hygge, the Danish word for cozy, content, and comfortable, can feel like an itch… Read More

10 Ways to be a Thrifty Milspouse

August 17th is National Thrift Shop day, so let's explore ten ways you can be a thrifty military spouse! 1:… Read More

Why Making New MilSpouse Friends Feels Hard Sometimes

Every new station has a mix of activities to be done, paperwork to turn in, and rooms to unpack. There… Read More

4 Fourth of July Mocktail Recipes for a Star-Spangled Good Time

In the heat of the summer, having a refreshing drink in your hand can help set the mood and cool… Read More

6 Questions to Ask Before Planning Your Perfect Wedding Day

Getting married can feel like a whirlwind romance or a tornado, depending on the pressure and people involved. Add a… Read More

5 Questions to Ask as You Process Your PCS Stress

Stress isn't just a mood. Stress creates a direct response in your body, leaving you irritable, tired, and wired. During… Read More

10 Things You Are Allowed To Do As a Military Spouse

Have you ever felt like there were rules about what a military spouse "should and shouldn't do?" You don't want… Read More

Score Big With 4 Easy Super Bowl Recipes

Are you feeling overwhelmed by “Easy-Just-20-Steps-and-Three-Hours-of-Effort” Super Bowl recipes? Me too. So here are 4 *really* simple recipes that will… Read More

10 Gift Ideas for Your Deployed Servicemember

Not sure what to give your deployed loved one for the holidays this year? Here are ten different ideas to… Read More

5 Ways to Give Back to Your Military Community During the Holidays

Holidays can be a time filled with the bustle of food, activities, and planning for the new year. Still, it… Read More

8 Ways to Improvise the Holidays While Living Out of Suitcases

Being in a Temporary Lodging Facility or TLF can be an adjustment during a regular PCS, but moving during the… Read More