AJ Smit
It’s Not Too Late to Dream for a Better 2021
Setting and following through on goals is challenging in a regular year. 2020 was a year full of surprises and… Read More
5 Things About Spouse Clubs You Never Knew
Sometimes Spouse Clubs get a bad rap. One unfortunate experience or horror story can ruin the desire to get involved… Read More
When You’re Homesick at Your New Base
Moving to a new base can be a grab bag of emotions. You may wonder, "Will I make friends? Will… Read More
Sex After Deployment
Deployments are stressful before and during, but isn’t reuniting supposed to be glorious? Maybe in movies, but not always in… Read More
5 Ways to Spread the Love This Valentine’s Day
Are you wondering what you'll do this upcoming weekend for Valentine's Day? Here are five different ways to share love… Read More
What If I Don’t Want a “New Year, New Me?”
Already, this year has had us holding our hats and wondering what 2021 has in store. We don't have crystal… Read More
5 Ways to Find Real Rest in the Flurry of December
As military spouses, our stress is a roller coaster on a good day. This year, it is more important than… Read More
How to Keep Your Business Afloat While Swimming in a COVID World
Pivoting is essential if you run a business as a military spouse. I've owned my own business the whole time… Read More
The Spouse on a Mission for Military Marriage
June may be the month to be married, but every month is a great one to focus on building your… Read More
The 5 Love Languages of Military Spouse Friendship
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman is a worldwide bestseller. In his book, the five love languages, or the… Read More
The Impact of Oktoberfest on a Military Spouse: Germany Changed How I Celebrate Life
When I heard we were going to be stationed in Germany, I was elated. Not only do they make excellent… Read More
Selfish Spouses
How could they be so selfish? We hear this said when someone says no, or refuses to give their time.… Read More
3 Military Spouse Tendencies to Fight Against
As military spouses, we've been around the block of friendship, business, and life a few times. When this happens, we… Read More
An Iowan Who Never Moved
In the military, moving is the name of the game. You rack up bases and PCSs almost like points in… Read More
Just a Military Girl in a Civilian World: Making Friends Off Base
Birds of a feather flock together. And so do military spouses. Living on the base creates a bubble to develop… Read More
From Enlisted to Officer: Why Your Spouse Changing Paths is Less Scary Than You Think
In 2012 my husband asked for my thoughts about enlisting in the Air Force. I recalled all of the information… Read More
How Do We Navigate Travel After Coronavirus?
There are many questions humans have discussed over the years; some are light-hearted, such as 'Batman vs. Superman'? Some are… Read More
3 Spouse Secrets to Nourish Friendships During COVID19
Military spouses keep a plethora of skills in their back pockets: making a hotel room a home for a month,… Read More