Karen Poisson

Guilt-driven Parenting and the PCS Free-for-All

For most Americans springtime means the time of year when new things pop up out of the ground and life… Read More

Celebrating the Average Military Spouse

I am asking a favor of everyone: Can we finally celebrate the average spouse? Military spouses are special people. I… Read More

Why I Won’t Take a Solo Vacation Ever Again

Call it a girl’s weekend. Or call it a guy’s weekend. You can even call it a mini-vacation. Any way… Read More

I Can’t Wait to Leave the Military and Have Better Healthcare…

When your spouse finally decides to hit the button and retire from the military, there are a mix of emotions.… Read More

“Don’t Park There,” and Other Insights from a Seasoned Spouse

When my new husband and I arrived at our first duty station, I made some really dumb mistakes. I had… Read More

How I Found My Life While OCONUS

You would think that as a woman in her 40s, I would have figured all this out by now. And… Read More

Do You Want to Know the Real Reason Why Many Military Spouses Don’t Work?

Don’t be fooled by the plethora of articles and web pages devoted to what is called the “dependa.” A dependa… Read More

Why We Shouldn’t Be Saying “I’m Married to the Military”

We’ve all heard the phrase - we probably have even said it a time or two. “I’m married to the… Read More

Can I Just Be a Spouse?

During our last assignment, I had a bit of a career crisis. After over 20 years of teaching, I didn’t… Read More

I Wear It With PRIDE

I have been a military spouse for many years, but I wasn’t one to jump on the military memorabilia bandwagon.… Read More

Don’t Pin Your Hopes on the “What-Ifs” of Military Life

We’ve been in this business a really long time and what I’ve noticed is that most people in the military… Read More

Creating Wonderful Holiday Memories While Living Overseas

When your orders say OCONUS, some people cringe and others rejoice. But even those who cheer may experience some trepidation… Read More

Your Sex Life and Other Unmet Expectations of Reintegration

The months of a deployment pass by and you survive. You are ready for reintegration. You went to the briefing… Read More

I HATE Surprise Homecomings

I may be in the minority, but I HATE surprise homecomings. Don’t get me wrong, I still cry like a… Read More

I Don’t Want to be a “Seasoned” Military Spouse

We need a new word in our vocabulary. If you’ve been lucky enough to be married to the military for… Read More

5 Things to Do When You’re Stuck PCSing Overseas

For most of us, living overseas is an amazing experience. There are new foods to try, new places to visit,… Read More

How to Address Other Service Members’ Ranks as a Military Spouse

Pop quiz time! Read the scenarios below and guess the answer. You are at a squadron picnic where you have… Read More

I Hate My J-O-B!

When I come home from work and say, “I hate my job," that elicits two responses from my spouse. He’ll say,… Read More