Kiera Durfee
A (Former) Spouse Speaks
Why is it so late? I stare at the cursor on the screen blinking numbingly at me. A metronome of impatient,… Read More
6 Things That Probably Won’t Happen During Deployment
Let me be real honest here. Me + deployments = embracing a special brand of mediocrity. And, surprisingly, I’m… Read More
Why I’m Okay When My Spouse Travels
I dig my husband. It’s true. He’s totally my best friend, and I lo-o-o-ve spending time with him. He just… Read More
Sometimes We Are Just Not Okay…and That’s Okay
Sometimes, I’m not okay. I’m not ashamed or afraid to admit it. Too often, when we struggle – and I mean… Read More
Post-deployment: The Expectations, the Reality, and the Growth
They’re home. After days, weeks, months, or years of paper chains, calendar cross-offs, or your 400th empty diet Dr. Pepper… Read More
What Military Life *Honestly* Looks Like at Christmas Time
cover pc: Julie Pease Featured on the 2016 December cover of Military Spouse Magazine is a beautifully idyllic scene taken by an… Read More
3 Reasons Why My Military Marriage Makes Me a Better Person
Shared on Marriage.com Here’s a Jeopardy factoid for you (you can thank me later): Over time and under intense heat… Read More
6 Tips To Be the Friend People Actually Like
When I was in 1st grade, my BESTFRIENDINTHEWHOLEWIDEWORLDOHMAHGOSH broke up with me on the bus on the way to school.… Read More
Why We For Real Have Got to Get to Know Our Neighbors
Let me tell you a story. A few months ago, the ambulance was called for a little boy in my… Read More
What to Do When You’re Stuck in the In-Between
I spent this morning running the well-managed trails that wind through my community. (I wasn’t particularly looking forward to this… Read More
7 Things We Wish Our FRG Leader Knew About Us
Let’s jump right into it: The FRG. We’ve had our share of them, yes? Family Readiness Groups were created with… Read More
7 New Year’s Resolutions I Promise I’ll Never Even Start
I really dig this time of year. And by dig, I definitely mean that I really dig myself into a… Read More
10 Unconventional Ways to Survive Holiday Madness
Let’s get this straight. “Surviving holiday madness” really means, in my overly unbiased opinion, to avoid it altogether. So, here… Read More
10 Hilarious Ways to Count Down Deployment
Whew! You did it. The despairingly stomach-churning deployment goodbye is done. You’ve made a serious dent in your Costco-sized tissue… Read More
8 Things that Should Probably (not) be on Your PCS To-Do List
Moving is the pits. I’d rather scrub grout blind-folded with a toothbrush in between my toes than ever move again.… Read More
4 Tactics to Deal With the MilSpouse Mean Girls
For the last four months, I have been the music director for my daughter’s elementary school musical, Alice in Wonderland… Read More
18 Things Said By No Military Spouse Ever
I’d consider myself a veteran spouse of sorts. I’ve been there, done a lot of it, understand most of the… Read More
Living on the Edge of My Community
Last Sunday, I strapped on my trusty pair of Keens and exchanged indoor boredom for outdoor beauty by climbing a… Read More