Life

Ugh… This Base Sucks!

If you or someone you know has said, "Ugh… This base sucks!" You are my people... I have, more times… Read More

Bracing for Impact: Preparing Your Heart for Deployment

There are times when I view this active duty life style as an adventure. I have places to go, exciting… Read More

My Invisible Wounds from War Are Not What You Expect

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and in my pursuit to bring awareness to this important cause, I would like… Read More

The Untold Story of the Military Wife

6 am: Alarm goes off. Wake up. Get ready for work. Get kids up and ready for school. Let dog… Read More

The Best (and the Worst…) Murphy’s Law Stories + The Drink That Pairs Best

Military Spouse Appreciation Day --Ahh -- finally, a day, one miraculous day, to commemorate the hard work and dedication of… Read More

Answering the Military-ish Questions in Your Job Interview Without Blowing It

As a career-driven military spouse – who has relocated to six different bases in eight years - I’ve been on… Read More

Broken Wings: A Cry for Forgiveness

Note: This article contains triggering material about suicide. The views expressed in this article are the author’s views.  As a military spouse,… Read More

I HATE Surprise Homecomings

I may be in the minority, but I HATE surprise homecomings. Don’t get me wrong, I still cry like a… Read More

Please Don’t Feel Sorry For Me, Being a Military Spouse is Not A Terminal Disease

Written by Barbara Bates My husband is deployed. This means I spend a lot of time baking and shopping for… Read More

Finding Civilian Friends Is Harder Than I Thought

Making friends has never been a challenge for me. Among my siblings, they call me the “outgoing one who always… Read More