Quilting a Life of Learning New Skills

As I sit working on presents for friends and family, I reflect on my quilting journey. My love of sewing started in high school when I learned to sew and make clothes. I loved figuring out materials and patterns, but college and full time teaching put my hobby on a high, dusty shelf.

Fast forward to when my youngest child began attending school full time, and I started looking for things to occupy my time between drop off and pick up. We were stationed at Fort Irwin, in the middle of the Mojave Desert, 45 minutes from the nearest road to civilization. My husband was in the field two weeks every month. Jobs were few and far between for the hours I was available. So, I started volunteering with MOPS (Mothers Of Preschoolers).

I met an Army spouse who created quilts each year for the group’s theme. Her creativity was genuinely amazing. Several of us asked her to teach us how to quilt. She agreed, and my quilting journey or, as some would call it, obsession began. 

She sent us a list of things to gather. First on the list was to get a sewing machine. I had my faithful machine I bought when I was in high school. It did all the stitches I needed, and when I turned it on, it brought back memories. Memories of clothes I made, how to do different stitches, how to cut fabric. I decided I would only need one lesson before heading out on my merry way to becoming a quilting queen. 

Little did I know…

For our first meeting, we all went to the “nearby” quilt shop, about 60 minutes from the post, to purchase the supplies we needed to begin quilting. Our teacher started using terms I had never heard. Terms like background fabric, applique, backing, batting, batiks, paper piecing, and so many more. I realized I had much to learn and vowed to stick with this group for all the lessons.

Our first day of actual class was fantastic. We sewed, we learned, we talked, and we worked. I met an Air Force spouse, a National Guard spouse, and other Army spouses. We all came from different places. Some had sewing experience, while others did not know how to thread their machine. We all wanted to learn to quilt, so that was our common ground and became our common language.

We met for eight weeks to make blocks and build our quilts. By the last class, we were all friends, and each of us planned to work on more quilts. We all came to the class at different points in our lives but left feeling like we could quilt.

I get this same feeling every time we PCS. I arrive at a new duty station with specific experiences, skills, and dreams. I leave each home with new friends, experiences, dreams, and hopefully, new skills to share at the next duty station. Quilting was just one passion I developed along my military journey. What is yours? Who helped you get started?

Jennifer Wake: Jennifer Wake, the AFI 2023 Ft. Belvoir Military Spouse of the Year, is an Army wife, mother of three adult children, Bible teacher, and accomplished writer. She is a chemistry/physics teacher by trade, an Accredited Financial Counselor by interest, and a writer/speaker of God’s Word by His calling. She is married to an Army Chaplain and has served in chapels in various locations from Germany to the Mojave Desert. Over the past 25 years, she has made a home for the Wakes 14 times and persevered through her soldier’s multiple deployments. God has called her to mentor military spouses, especially chaplain spouses who serve sacrificially. She loves connecting with moms of all ages and stages of life. Her various passions include writing books and blogs, developing Bible training material, networking with women all over the Army, and professional quilting. She volunteers with Protestant Women of the Chapel (PWOC) wherever she is stationed, and travels to military bases with IGNITE PWOC training teams to train women in the history of PWOC, the foundations of chapel ministry and presenting the Gospel. She also serves with Planting Roots, a ministry for military women by military women. She currently resides in Virginia with her wonderful husband and her loyal dog where she particularly enjoys her quilting room.
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