Looking Outward Together

A Call To Love

He was a shiny new Lieutenant at his first assignment, fresh out of Ranger school and a recent West Point graduate. She had just finished her masters and moved back home to begin her life as a teacher. Lisa and Jake met, dated, and fell in love.

But, just a few months into dating, Jake deployed to Afghanistan. Lisa stayed busy with teaching and odd jobs while he was gone. Four months into his deployment while on patrol, Jake stepped on an IED.

“As a girlfriend, you don’t get the call.” Lisa stated. The phone call came from Jake’s parents.  She was driving home and had to pull over. His mother relayed the news that Jake was in critical condition, had lost both legs and it didn’t look good at all.  She pulled over, shaking, trying to comprehend what this meant. The phone rings again, but this time it’s Jake on the other end.

“Hi, it’s me.”  Jake said. Lisa was shocked by his voice. She recalls Jake being very matter-of-fact, even showing hopefulness when recounting his condition. She remembers him saying, “…I lost my foot, but the doctors are trying to save my other leg. I’m in Germany. I’m going to be ok.”

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Stacy Huisman: Stacy Allsbrook-Huisman is an Air Force spouse, writer, mother and advocate within the military spouse community. As a former Parent-to-Parent trainer for Military Child Education Coalition, she led workshops and seminars on many topics related to the education of military-connected students. She is the coauthor with Dr. Amanda Trimillos of Seasons of My Military Student: Practical Ideas for Parents and Teachers (Elva Resa, 2018). In her “other” life, she worked in public affairs and project management for the city of Las Vegas for 14 years. She was the Executive Director for the Las Vegas Centennial. She had a hand in baking the world largest birthday cake, hosting a 100,000 person parade, marrying 100 couples at once, organizing an amazing Red Hot Chili Peppers concert and managing 450 other events, programs and public relations celebrating her hometown birthday! She met her husband while he was stationed at Nellis AFB. She was whisked away on a crazy military spouse journey around the globe and hasn’t looked back since – only forward. Stacy is connected to many aspects of military life. She writes for one of our other Victory Media publications - GI Jobs Magazine - where she features successful transitioned Veterans in the workforce. She continues to write for myriad of websites and blogs, including a mini-think tank she co-founded called Families on the Home Front. Stacy was published in the popular book Stories Around the Table - Laughter, Wisdom, and Strength in Military Life. She is also a judge for Operation Homefront's Military Child of the Year 2015.
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