15 Things Service Members Secretly Want in a Care Package

We love our service members, and we know that one of the best ways to make them feel loved during deployment is to send care packages stuffed with fabulous goodies. But what, exactly, do they truly want in those care packages? We’ve surveyed experienced spouses and service members to get the truth behind this shouldn’t-be-complicated-but-it-is question. They tell us what they really do want…

  1. Pictures and artwork from home.
  2. Pre-marked calendar counting down their deployment.
  3. Beef jerky and fruit cups.
  4. Home-made baked goodies. (Tip: pack a slice of white bread in with your home baked goodies and pack them in plastic containers. It keeps them fresh and they will reuse the containers when packing to come home!)
  5. Air fresheners. (Honestly. They can never have too many!)
  6. Flavored powered drink mix for bottled water.
  7. Power converters that work in the country where they are serving.
  8. Electric blanket (depending on season and power converter).
  9. New workout shoes, gloves or headphones/ear buds for working out.
  10. Protein bars and protein powder (Tip: if your spouse likes protein powder, we suggest sending a funnel for their powder. It’s easier to use disposable water bottles instead of shakers. No washing required.)
  11. iTunes gift cards.
  12. New movies or TV series on DVD
  13. Video games (new or used)
  14. Board games
  15. K-cup for Keurig machines (tea, coffee, and hot chocolate)

5 Things You Shouldn’t Send

  1. Anything embarrassing to open in public. Privacy is at a minimum when you are deployed. (Sounds obvious, we know, but sometimes it can be easy to forget!)
  2. Canned meats.
  3. Care packages that are gender-specific and not marked that way.
  4. Off-brand toiletries-they want brand-name only, please.
  5. Anything sent priority mail. Save your money: the military, not the post office, prioritizes mail.
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Stacy Huisman: Stacy Allsbrook-Huisman is an Air Force spouse, writer, mother and advocate within the military spouse community. As a former Parent-to-Parent trainer for Military Child Education Coalition, she led workshops and seminars on many topics related to the education of military-connected students. She is the coauthor with Dr. Amanda Trimillos of Seasons of My Military Student: Practical Ideas for Parents and Teachers (Elva Resa, 2018). In her “other” life, she worked in public affairs and project management for the city of Las Vegas for 14 years. She was the Executive Director for the Las Vegas Centennial. She had a hand in baking the world largest birthday cake, hosting a 100,000 person parade, marrying 100 couples at once, organizing an amazing Red Hot Chili Peppers concert and managing 450 other events, programs and public relations celebrating her hometown birthday! She met her husband while he was stationed at Nellis AFB. She was whisked away on a crazy military spouse journey around the globe and hasn’t looked back since – only forward. Stacy is connected to many aspects of military life. She writes for one of our other Victory Media publications - GI Jobs Magazine - where she features successful transitioned Veterans in the workforce. She continues to write for myriad of websites and blogs, including a mini-think tank she co-founded called Families on the Home Front. Stacy was published in the popular book Stories Around the Table - Laughter, Wisdom, and Strength in Military Life. She is also a judge for Operation Homefront's Military Child of the Year 2015.
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