10. Semper Gumby
Probably the most important piece of advice I received as brand-new spouse was this. Remain flexible. Its hard, especially at the most trying of times the military will throw at you. But your spouse will greatly appreciate it and it will make your life more enjoyable. Always have a Plan B (and C through F) but simply nod your head when they come home and say “things changed” and quietly adjust your plans. (And then call your friends and wine whine.) You’ll come out of this military thing with less gray hear and more fond memories.
So, bottom-line-up-front (or BLUF in the military) – remember to remain true to yourself, to consider how your actions represent your spouse, to have respect for those in your spouse’s career, and to be proud of your service member and their commitment to protecting us.
Best of Luck,
A Slightly Seasoned Military Spouse
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